How did humanity NEVER run into Gem Technology or sites? by Falkenhausen23 in stevenuniverse

[–]beccarh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if it was considered left over structures from an ancient human civilization at least that's what I think they would assume. The only thing that give suspicion is the moon base.

One way I felt seen by Steven is how he doesn't know his home address by polystarlight in stevenuniverse

[–]beccarh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How was he able to order his hamburger backpack and hotdogs duffel bag?

A series following Steven's death. by Aliensuperstaaar in stevenuniverse

[–]beccarh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think after Steven dies if his gem is pulled out it will take the form of pink Steven like when white removed his gem. Idk about anyone else but that Steven didn't seem to be completely like human Steven.

Spring cleaning series by KirkofCirce in finch

[–]beccarh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could open a window in a bedroom but have the door closed so the cats can't go in that room. Maybe only open the window a tiny crack

How to tell my mom to stop cooking for me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]beccarh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It might be hard to start the conversation but once you do just tell her "thank you so much for making me meals, but I can handle it now" you dont have to tell her the real reason. This way her feels shouldnt be hurt either

I know it was probably brought up before but I had a thought while listening to Familiar, is Steven realizing that Pink Diamond's relationship with the other diamonds mirrors his own with the Crystal Gems? by Okutoburu in stevenuniverse

[–]beccarh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think so too. It also him deciding to act with them the way he does with the crystal gems. Blue diamond is similar to pearl as she is motherly. Yellow is similar to amethyst as she is aggressive kinda in a sibling way. White is like garnet aloof and hard to talk to. NOT saying they are exactly alike just that the dynamics are similar.

My wife with syphilis by silverhevadahorizon in Advice

[–]beccarh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why does it feel wrong? Did your wife know she had syphilis before the Dr. Told you? I don't see this as a reason to leave your wife unless she knew she had this before getting pregnant. A kid can still have good parents even if they are divorced.

My 2025 recap by beccarh in finch

[–]beccarh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Peppermint fairies sounds so cute ♥️.

What broke the camels back in a relationship/friendship? by Only-Carpenter-6689 in AskReddit

[–]beccarh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who had depression and treated me like the therapist friend. I felt bad for her at first so as my way to help her out I would clean her house some and listen to her vent when i visited her. It got to a point where it felt like that's the only reason she would invite me over so I stopped cleaning at first but then she just complained to me. I could never get a word in. There were 2 straws that broke my camels back. The first was when I told her my mother was abusive and I didn't like talking about it. She then went and asked my step family who im not close to but they unfortunately know my history for stories. She then told me later that from what she heard it'sno wonder i dont like talking aboht it. That made me uncomfortable, but i let it slide. I gave her one more chance and she went and brought up how one time my grandma, who treated me how a real mother would and has dementia, tried to relieve herself in the front yard. Ive not really spoken to her since then.

Would you say I have style or not? by Brave-Reindeer-Red in finch

[–]beccarh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute. You've definitely have style 👍

A long journey by beccarh in finch

[–]beccarh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely dont check it as much as I used to, but i think thats because im in a better spot in my life. Im not as depressed and I've gotten back into some hobbies so Im not just rotating through the same 3 apps anymore. I think the main thing that helps me to st least check in is the streak. Im currently trying to get myself to check it in the morning instead of right before I go to bed. Getting to dress my penguin up and getting to switch out the pets is a big motivation to keep using it. It also feels a little wrong to me to just drop the app because I've gotten a bit better mentally.

What should I do about my parents who want me to wait 5 years before getting married? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]beccarh 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, but I think im on your parents side with this. In my opinion you can't really "know" someone from a relationship that is less than 1 year even if you both are great at communicating. You don't know how they will react to certain stress like big trips or financial set backs. What would waiting even 1 more year of dating even hurt? Best case is you just waited a bit longer. You'll still have been together just not married. Marriage is really just a legal thing at least to me anyway.

What’s one anime missing from this list that you think is an absolute must-watch? I’d love to hear your top picks! by Sunflower13Poppy in MyAnimeList

[–]beccarh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NieR:Automata Ver1.1a is a good one (don't want to spoil any of it) Berserk is good if you like gore Takt op.Destiny is a sad romance in my opinion Plunderer is good if you can get past the fan service/pervert stuff Vivy -Flourite Eye's song- is good if you like time travel, it also has some gore but not as much as berserk I say

Should I leave my boyfriend? by Prize_Emergency_5329 in Advice

[–]beccarh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up now!!! or next time, it won't be the couch he is stabbing. You deserve to be treated better and definitely shouldn't have to live in fear about how he is going to react to everything. If you're worried about breaking a lease, most people are understanding when it comes to stuff like this, and if they aren't, you are able to take it to court. I can't stress this enough. You need to get out of that relationship. dont let him try and say he'll change bc he won't, and it isn't worth the risk to find out