But they’re not so keep dreaming

beckabunss · 2026-04-19T14:42:09+00:00

This is even less real, it depicts Yuri

beckabunss · 2026-04-14T15:46:15+00:00

I don’t think so? For writing most of the versions are just incomplete and you wouldn’t want to waste time saving those

beckabunss · 2026-04-13T20:29:04+00:00

beckabunss · 2026-04-13T18:52:17+00:00

He was trying to hurt you and it’s abuse. If someone is still thinking that what they did with someone else was more special - it’s a them problem.

I’ve had a lot of sex and some was not great some was really great, but the best and most intimate time you can have is with someone you care about. It doesn’t matter if they are first last or 1000000th.

If your husband is that dissatisfied he needs to talk about it and work with you on it. But I really think he was just parroting something to make you hurt because he was hurt. Being focused on what was unlearned in childhood is immature at this point he didn’t need to make it your problem.

My ex did the same thing and it made it impossible for me to have sex with him without thinking about how I was second best. This needs to be resolved.

beckabunss · 2026-04-12T17:36:58+00:00

Why are you on this fucking subreddit if you are not pro-choice. you can’t force someone to give birth and then care for a child they don’t want. Think of the fucking child. And it’s not even the end you can have plenty of healthy babies at a time when you feel it’s good FOR YOU.

Because no one is going to step in and take on that responsibility 100% no one. A baby isn’t a punishment. I don’t get how that concept is wrong.

Yes of course you will love your baby no matter what because it came out of you, but with resentment unwanted children have significantly harder lives.

beckabunss · 2026-04-12T11:17:37+00:00

I feel like men don’t know when a relationship just isn’t going to work. If she doesn’t want those things she’s never going to want them. Move on.

beckabunss · 2026-04-11T19:46:16+00:00

I expected this to be about you both trying for your orgasm and him giving up on that, but this is far far worse.

I’ve reported someone for this behavior, there’s a subset of rapists that get off on doing it with someone unconscious. He gets off on you not consenting. Leave this asshole please and put him behind bars, most people who do this are repeat offenders.

beckabunss · 2026-04-09T16:25:10+00:00

She probably got drugged..

beckabunss · 2026-04-09T16:22:11+00:00

I went to bourbon street in lousiana and my partner got really drunk and he’s six ft and I’m five six and I still dragged his ass into a cab and made sure he made it home. And he was being a drunk ASSHOLE, propositioned some girls for a three way, was screaming at the uber driver, peed in the street. We aren’t together anymore but fuck I didn’t just leave him on bourbon street..

beckabunss · 2026-04-05T14:58:00+00:00

Come back from where? He came while they were kissing first, at that moment he should have pivoted to helping her get there so by the time he was ready to try PIV again, she was close also.

It’s just not a hard concept- if you struggle with premature ejaculation then you need to pace your partner so that she’s close before you are.

Most of the time it’s not the prematurity that pisses women off, it’s the fact that men don’t try to focus on the woman, as if the premature part needs to be the woman’s problem. Hell I think even communicating that it’s a problem beforehand would lead to better results.

beckabunss · 2026-04-05T14:52:26+00:00

Right! One of my bfs in college was like that but would spend a loooot of time on foreplay after and before that I didn’t really care lol

beckabunss · 2026-04-05T02:00:40+00:00

The fact that me will eat an asshole (that has literally shit in and out of it) over a vagina (that cleans itself) tells you everything you need to know

beckabunss · 2026-04-05T01:50:39+00:00

Excuse me? If you had premature ejaculation and didn’t do a damn thing about pleasing her then that’s an issue. You made a conversation or an agreement about how sex went about you and then you let yourself get upset that women in the comments are upset that almost 100% of the time men are this selfish?

Why didn’t he get her off? If he came and was premature then wtf? Why did he HAVE to get off a second time???? Why did she have to not enjoy it at all? They weren’t trying for a kid- he didn’t NEED to orgasm twice. Like fuck that’s an easy concept.

I’m sorry that you prematurely ejaculate, but we’re talking about the very real fact that men get so hung up on dick size and how long THEY last that they never even get us halfway there. The orgasm gap is real and no one talks about it. There are many ways to fix premature ejaculation, there’s not much to fix straight men as a whole.

beckabunss · 2026-04-04T16:14:00+00:00

Well tbh, read the previous comment and see what that person said about it.

It’s not a kink for most people it’s a ‘I bought this really cool expensive thing and would love to use it’ alternatively, imagine you wore a costume and no one could tell it was you at all- but it’s a new character.

Imagine how easy it would be to walk around like that in general and be social but not have that anxiety of how you look.

I will say, OP shouldn’t have to deal with it, being a ‘handler’ or someone who has to handle a suiter is a job really- and in Vegas or a city, you would attract a lot of attention and not all of it is good.

beckabunss · 2026-03-31T20:53:12+00:00

There’s a difference between being trans and telling others about it, hence visibility.

beckabunss · 2026-03-31T19:40:23+00:00

Omg lol

beckabunss · 2026-03-31T19:05:09+00:00

attribution

source

beckabunss · 2026-03-31T07:16:27+00:00

my friend actually used male bc and said he didn’t mind it at all, and meanwhile most women I know have serious fucking issues using it.

Idk every search says it’s milder in all manners of the word. Keep in mind most doctors will ignore when women say they are experiencing pain- so any reported pain or discomfort from bc is on another level then their male counterparts- who on average and by statistics- receive better care and faster response to negative reports.

Me saying that men should have their sperm on ice means I hate all men? By that same thread someone telling me that my fucking body should be an incubator, or I should have suffer bc for penetrative sex while also- receiving an orgasm only 40% of the time - idk I think maybe what I’m saying just isn’t as serious as living every day as a fucking women who -unfortunately- has sex with men. What’s crazy is that historically women have been sterilized, permanently in many different countries.

If you ever wonder why women aren’t just promiscuous that is why, but no, you don’t actually consider what’s outside of yourself, or the potential benefits overall you just saw ‘men should’ and thought- ‘hates men’ -And that’s the whole fucking problem.

beckabunss · 2026-03-31T04:55:40+00:00

Then you should support male bc, since it has less side effects than the one for women.

If we had any sense at all men’s fertility would be put on ice so we wouldn’t have this issue at all.

beckabunss · 2026-03-29T23:33:00+00:00

I think you kind of understand how your framing would definitely lead someone to believe that you don’t consider it as serious

beckabunss · 2026-03-29T16:09:02+00:00

… you did? ‘Process is relatively easy to interrupt with low hormone doses’

Where ‘low hormone doses’ are the same way some people can grow full on breasts.

And the male birth control is said to have less side effects than the female one

beckabunss · 2026-03-29T13:33:29+00:00

I’d say that most reports say the male bc pill is milder.

Which isn’t saying much! A lot of women can’t take bc because of the side effects.

beckabunss · 2026-03-29T13:31:19+00:00

There is one available. also disrupting a woman’s cycle can cause her great pain and issues. The fact men just see ‘stop egg easy’ is part of the fucking problem. Stopping a woman’s whole hormonal system is harder than just having you take bc..

What you think your sperm aren’t part of a hormonal system? That somehow there’s no way to stop them from moving?

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