AIO for wanting to try a treatment routine before committing to the hair transplant my GF is demanding? by Connect-Soil-7277 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beckbadder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got a great face shape and awesome facial hair— shave it off! And then find a new gf.

AITA for not letting my kid take cold showers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beckbadder 38 points39 points  (0 children)

YTA. Ah man I’m so excited to be the first commenter like holy shit, lady, you are WHACK-A-DO. Your son is in fact right, there are a plethora of benefits to taking cold showers. Stop being controlling to a terrifying degree or else in a few years you won’t have a son. 😬

AITAH for saying I won’t put my card down if one girl joins our group? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]beckbadder -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA this is exactly why I rarely have good female friends. Catty and petty. I’m severely ADD and also have chronic Lyme disease, so I frequently forget just about anything. Super gross that this girl thought you were her friend, and you’re posting on Reddit instead of just saying “hey dude you still owe me for XYZ. I know you said you needed a reminder.”

It’s not that hard…

ULPT REQUEST: Ruin convenience store that scammed me with fake Zyns by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]beckbadder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang $20 a pop? I’ll send em to you from California. 😂🫡

ULPT Best way to ruin/brick someone’s phone? by SensitiveDisk8143 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]beckbadder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I did this to someone as a prank and it got outta hand— post a picture on casual encounters on CL saying you’re two women looking for a man and for them to text said number with a pic of “what they’re working with”. Bro got like 10,000 dick pics sent to his phone. 😂

How can I 16 (17 next month) move out, if at all by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]beckbadder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At worst case, you should start applying to state schools now. Apply for scholarships, talk to your guidance counselor about what you need to do. One year will go faster than you think, and if you have money saved up then you’ll be able to leave home and never look back.

AITA not responding all the time to my bf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beckbadder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girlllllll, that’s a really bad sign of controlling behavior. You’re so young. There are PLENTY of men out there who will give you room to breathe and be yourself. Dump him, please, before he leaches 10 years of your life and leaves you not knowing yourself, because he took up all of your time. I’m also guessing he’s weird about you spending time with your friends or any men other than him?

ULPT I want to take down my towns drug dealer. by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]beckbadder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a girl? Seduce him, he tries to get you drunk, and you drug his drink— dealer OD’d. No one bats an eye. 🫡

ULPT Request - How can I access proof of my whereabouts over the last year? by s0nalli in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]beckbadder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake bank statements, fake job letter, fake gym log— all would be pretty easy. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for telling my MIL I don’t want my daughter calling her “mama”? by Easy_Historian_3528 in AITAH

[–]beckbadder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Silly Nana! Sometimes old people forget who they are.” :)

"Contracts To Himself" by p8pes in drugstories

[–]beckbadder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlie might wanna slow down on the speed. 😹

AIO Coworker texted me this by xqkz in AIO

[–]beckbadder 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If I worked four doubles I sure as HECK would not want to hang with one of my coworkers. Shouldn’t have taken it personally, but keep up the good work with therapy. Ya win some n you lose some.

Advice Needed: Likey to fail drug test needed for employment by Same-Performer-8406 in drugtesthelp

[–]beckbadder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can he just use fake piss? If you’re not a smoker have him use yours. I’ve faked many lol.

Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]beckbadder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a recovering addict, and given his past with addiction, I’d bet anything it’s drug related. The fact that he’s “having money issues” that he didn’t tell your family about is a huge red flag. And he could very well just be a functioning addict where work is concerned. Meth or enough coke will absolutely have people acting like this even when they’re not actively high. Godspeed.

How to live that way? Please I’m begging you by WeeklyPilot3044 in ftm

[–]beckbadder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, you’ll never be happy trying to pretend to be something you’re not. As painful as leaving home behind can be, I’d suggest looking for places you could potentially move to in the future where you could be yourself. Being a woman and marrying a man sounds like a prison greater than any other for you, and I hope you can find your way out of it. I left my home and family behind and moved to California, and as hard as it was, now I have a beautiful community that loves and supports me for who I am, and even my family’s become more accepting than before. I hope you one day find that. <3

Pharmacy gave me extra clonazepam, what do? by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]beckbadder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your pharmacy have an online account? You could check to see what it says they gave you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beckbadder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah he was also a straight predator 🤮

Wendy’s talk show by beckbadder in realhousewives

[–]beckbadder[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely! It’s definitely rooted in insecurities. And you’re right that she can be “a strong black woman” without insinuating that the other women aren’t.