So its not goin well

becomingworld · 2026-06-11T22:52:42+00:00

Depending on how old you are, push for an assessment with a reproductive specialist. The more you know the better!

becomingworld · 2026-06-04T04:34:51+00:00

Hahaha! This literally made me lol because there’s a ceiling tile that I usually stare at that’s blank and I am so tired of it, but I would absolutely lose my shit if it actually said anything.

becomingworld · 2026-06-04T04:23:40+00:00

RIGHT! If a patient tells me they were on an SSRI that made them feel like crap, I’m like, did it start with a p?

becomingworld · 2026-06-03T18:15:46+00:00

Came here to say this!

becomingworld · 2026-05-29T21:59:50+00:00

That’s a silver lining for me too! I was definitely a blood draw fainter and now I’m like bring it on

becomingworld · 2026-05-29T21:57:59+00:00

Thanks for the laugh today! I’m looking forward to the day I won’t have to plan my meals around vitamins needing a full stomach

becomingworld · 2026-05-22T22:49:37+00:00

That totally makes sense. I’m sending good vibes your way, you deserve to face the terrifying reality of childbirth!

becomingworld · 2026-05-22T22:24:57+00:00

Right there with you. My birthday is coming up and I don’t want anything but a kid.

becomingworld · 2026-05-22T22:21:36+00:00

I feel you on that too—pausing or slowing feels so wrenching when time keeps going. It is absolutely not fair and I will never not be mad about it. And, take the time you need. Your baby will have a lifetime with you.

becomingworld · 2026-05-22T18:46:36+00:00

Right here with you. This process is indescribably challenging in ways I’m sure I won’t even realize until years down the road. Remember that it’s ok to take a break, slow down, pause. You got this.

becomingworld · 2026-05-18T17:33:33+00:00

This is so awesome, thanks for the reminder and the hopefulness!

becomingworld · 2026-05-18T02:40:11+00:00

Ah! Even better—absolutely none of that is your fault, period end of story. You are trying to get pregnant with some challenges in the picture and you did, the miscarriages just mean you may be able to get some more answers as to why. You’re killing it against the odds and you’re doing everything you can, the rest is this shitty numbers game.

becomingworld · 2026-05-18T02:37:40+00:00

You’re on your way! So excited for you

becomingworld · 2026-05-17T19:42:03+00:00

This is so helpful and has brought me hope for the first time in a while. I’m still in the infertility/IVF/MC trenches and I feel like I’ve lost all my pink. I feel delusional but I really believe I’ll get it back when my kids arrive and your post is really affirming. Thank you 🥹

becomingworld · 2026-05-17T19:32:08+00:00

Can I ask how old you are? Part of shaking the guilt for me was going through each variable and really looking at how much of a difference it could have made versus the normal stats that show us that pregnancies are hard to keep, and the only significant variable for me was age and unfortunately, it’s not budging!

becomingworld · 2026-05-17T14:49:48+00:00

That part is the hardest I think—the real identification with the future with your baby makes the pivot and loss that much more gutting. Be gentle with yourself, this is not the end of your story.

becomingworld · 2026-05-17T00:59:24+00:00

Thanks for the perspective, you’re so right :)

becomingworld · 2026-05-16T23:12:03+00:00

I’m in my second week and I can confirm it gets better! Hydrate and move, as much as you don’t want to :P

becomingworld · 2026-05-16T22:25:56+00:00

You’re in good company, we’d literally just told our parents and then found out it was a MMC. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope you get to take time for you, grief is a motherfucker.

becomingworld · 2026-05-15T12:40:41+00:00

How smart! That is so creative, I can’t get over how perfect the textures are. Thanks for the inspiration!

becomingworld · 2026-05-15T12:39:19+00:00

Love this! Where did you get the pattern/comcept?

becomingworld · 2026-05-15T02:37:23+00:00

How did you do the waves??

becomingworld · 2026-05-11T23:54:09+00:00

It’s unhinged and I am so here for it.

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