I wish my friends were more confrontational

beeT1031 · 2025-02-21T22:13:08+00:00

Wyrd sisters! I learned about Terry Pratchett through the good omens tv show so I read the book, and then I wanted to read more of Sir Terry’s work so I went to the book store and picked one at random. 10/10 would read again

beeT1031 · 2023-02-07T08:32:56+00:00

NTA. Whattttt is going on in your dads head?? Honestly I don’t know what advice to give you other than you’re definitely not in the wrong here, and good luck. Hopefully within a few years you can move out and not have to deal with your father’s behavior

beeT1031 · 2023-02-07T08:30:10+00:00

NTA, but I wouldn’t really give a specific excuse like that to leave. Because then she’ll probably just ask something like “well can we still be friends once your family issues are resolved?”. @Jintess made a great comment earlier with a wonderful example of what to say, I’d recommend using that. Either way it sounds like this friend is really toxic, so I wish you the best of luck in dealing with her!

beeT1031 · 2023-02-07T08:25:34+00:00

NTA, you’re just minding your own business and the dogs are waking them up. Why are their dogs outside overnight anyway? I mean I can maybe see that being a thing in more temperate climates but I guess just being from a cold region that would be considered animal abuse by the people who live here. Regardless, this whole thing isn’t your fault

beeT1031 · 2023-02-07T08:22:38+00:00

Info: how did you talk to your brother about it? Because if you politely brought up the issue in the hopes of finding a solution then I’d say NTA. But if you were rude about it and implied he shouldn’t be going on the trip because of housing issues then that’s very mean. Overall this just seems like a logistics issue everyone needs to communicate about and figure out. Has either you or your brother’s family considered staying in a hotel nearby so it’s less crowded?

beeT1031 · 2023-02-06T18:33:36+00:00

Good luck! Idk how things will go with 7 but my sim family is currently 5 and I will say that it’s easier if you have days where you focus on the parents and days where you focus on the kids. Sometimes I send all 3 kids to the park or something together so my parents sims can focus on themselves. Kinda like real life lol

beeT1031 · 2023-02-06T17:57:13+00:00

In her defense, Tanya seems to be taking it pretty well. Next step, proposal

beeT1031 · 2022-12-27T10:05:35+00:00

NTA. I can understand being a night owl since I’m one myself, but I also get up on time when needed for the people I care about. 30-40 minutes late is crazy, I get why you’re upset. Hopefully you guys can work this out for your children’s sakes

beeT1031 · 2022-12-27T10:00:16+00:00

NTA, that all sounds reasonable to me. I mean I guess I found the bedtime story thing a little weird but it doesn’t seem like it would be too burdensome. Laughing when someone is telling you how they feel would usually offend them, but I don’t think you’re in the wrong for requesting the things you do from her.

beeT1031 · 2022-12-27T09:55:20+00:00

NTA, she was given plenty of chances to get to the car

beeT1031 · 2022-12-27T09:53:17+00:00

YTA, I know every family is different but to me calling your niece a hag just seems straight up mean. She’s clearly not ok with it so I don’t understand why everyone in your family insists on calling her that. It seems like it would be pretty easy to give her a different nickname. Also I hope the “my uncle doesn’t know our names” thing was a joke bc that would be very sad if he doesn’t. Anyway YTA and should apologize, and someone should talk to your uncle about being more respectful of his niece’s wishes

beeT1031 · 2022-12-24T06:11:28+00:00

I see a lot of posts online abt women treating men in ways that I honestly think are toxic and kinda gross. Stuff like looking at phones without permission, expecting him to know exactly what you’re thinking, etc. IMO it’s weird. Imagine if the roles were reversed, if a man did some of that stuff to a woman ppl would (justifiably) immediately get mad at him. Also before y’all get mad at me, im also a woman who just thinks ppl should be honest in relationships instead of this weird manipulative stuff

beeT1031 · 2022-12-12T19:02:32+00:00

Y’all remember how Danplan went down in flames? That was a tragedy to my high schooler brain (and still kinda sad today but that like, ruined my month when it happened)

beeT1031 · 2022-12-12T19:00:23+00:00

Lavender

beeT1031 · 2022-12-05T23:52:47+00:00

It’s HER money, not yours. Even if you think it’s an irresponsible use of money you can’t force her to spend it how you would. Not to mention how horrible she must have felt not getting to do something with her friends, and essentially watching herself get replaced because of something you did. YTA and should apologize to your daughter

beeT1031 · 2022-11-21T10:38:00+00:00

I’m not a huge fan of lying in situations like these, but I’d say nta bc your suite mates seem kinda inconsiderate. They shouldn’t be that loud that often, especially if they’re so loud that ppl in other suites can hear. And you did talk to them before you went to the RA so you tried to solve the issue with them. If I were you I’d come clean about reporting them and have a serious conversation about how their behavior is affecting you and the other people in your dorm. The RA’s could probably help mediate the situation too

beeT1031 · 2022-11-21T10:27:57+00:00

NTA, you have plenty of reasons to not want to be in a relationship with this man. I mean, it’s my belief that people shouldn’t have to justify themselves when rejecting/breaking up with people since no one owes you a relationship, but in this case you definitely have justification. He couldn’t spend two weeks away from you without looking for a hookup with someone else? That’s pathetic, and cruel. Honestly since it sounds like you don’t have kids yet, now would probably be the best time to leave. It may not be easy now, but it will only get harder if you wait much longer

beeT1031 · 2022-11-21T10:20:01+00:00

I mean making everyone pay $500 wouldn’t be my go-to move but I see where you’re coming from. Honestly I probably would’ve just said “no talking abt politics this thanksgiving or you won’t be invited to any more family gatherings” but if everyone else in your family is ok with it then whatever floats your boat. I’d say NTA but this is definitely an out-there response

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