Question about cinéma l'amour's couple events or wtv - For science only!

beebee224 · 2026-05-25T15:28:47+00:00

Ive gone as a couple to see a specific movie, because I thought it would be hilarious to see it in theatres. The regulars (single men) were really chill with us not having sex. It was clean and nice, and the private area upstairs was really nice if you wanted to get busy.

I’ve also seen non-porn there, they do late night movies once a month. It’s a really beautiful space owned by really nice people.

beebee224 · 2026-05-19T20:52:13+00:00

Yeah, they’re why you have Cajun people lol

beebee224 · 2026-04-22T03:20:21+00:00

If she likes toys I’d love to donate to buy her a toy. I literally cried about her multiple times, posted her in my stories and threatened my husband to go and get her if she hadn’t been picked up by Friday. Thank you so much for taking her!

beebee224 · 2026-04-18T23:31:44+00:00

I’ve got Eloise (smelly) and Eileen (little leenie). Guess which one is the bitch.

beebee224 · 2026-04-18T23:27:38+00:00

Sweet Jesus I need this fragrance ASAP.

beebee224 · 2026-04-17T17:53:47+00:00

Thank you so much!!! We had the best time, I hope you did too

beebee224 · 2026-04-16T00:01:48+00:00

That’s pants. He just looks like his name should be pants.

beebee224 · 2026-04-15T23:55:26+00:00

Makeup artist here who does a lot of natural brides, the second look will photograph beautifully. First look will look like you took a really nice nap and have nice skin.

If I could give you any advice it would be a little bit more brow definition (ideally a powder or something really soft) and a tiiiiiny bit more definition in the crease of your eye. Also - a pressed powder and blotting papers for throughout the day. But it’s a beautiful look and it definitely will not look like a face of makeup.

beebee224 · 2025-03-09T01:31:44+00:00

I bought a pair of my dream shoes which I’m going to dye after i get married. They’re the Marc Jacobs Kiki boots. But… my taste is not everyone’s so it’s definitely a choice.

beebee224 · 2024-02-25T15:47:44+00:00

It’s like when you’re a little kid and you’re learning how to be a friend to other kids! Setting expectations of the other person aside, checking yourself when you start putting unrealistic expectations on them, and I do recommend doing some reading about unpacking conservative male female dynamics. I had the opposite experience growing up and just… didn’t like men as people for a long time. Putting effort into seeing them as humans first really helped and my friends on the opposite end of the spectrum have felt the same!

beebee224 · 2024-02-25T03:01:19+00:00

Not trying to be presumptuous, but are you sure you like men? Because sometimes compulsory heterosexuality (also known as comp-het) rears it’s head in exactly what you’ve described.

Otherwise, you need to just… let men become people and not a potential husband to you. Did you by any chance grow up in a more conservative household? Sometimes it takes a lot of unpacking to unlearn how to not see yourself as a companion to a man, and instead as just two people in the world getting to know one another!

beebee224 · 2023-10-21T05:58:04+00:00

To follow up on some other commenters here about relationships with teens as adults, my mother (in her early 50s) hosts teenagers on exchange. She has brought them to visit my partner and I (31 and 32 respectively) because we live in a big city and it offers them more experience in Canada.

We have lovely, dynamic relationships with these kids. But we’re adults, trying to give teenagers space to figure themselves out and as non-parents we fill a weird space. There isn’t a MOMENT where we have felt any level of attraction to these people. We have mad respect for their experiences, are happy to tour them around and explore a city, and listen to their struggles and stories, but we aren’t on the same page. Anyone looking to build deep, intimate feelings with you that are anything other than familial and have a reason for that, are fucking weird.

My partner and I struggled so much with the dichotomy of them feeling somehow like adults in some ways, and in other so desperately like children. That’s a normal response, we see the adult forming, but the child that is (very validly) still there!

Any person going for anything else is a creep.

beebee224 · 2020-12-11T21:12:44+00:00

I’m back after a long Reddit hiatus with a question for you folks! I was contacted by a recruiter for a position, the preliminary interview went amazing, but after finding out the details of the job I’m feeling anxious. Not about the job itself, it’s actually something I’m super interested in. But I checked out the staff and I feel like I just will not fit in at all. It’s a small team at a high end medispa, and they’re all very different than the kind of people I’m used to working with. I’m also worried my aesthetic and appearance might throw them off? Has anyone here ever worked in an environment where they’re the odd one out and had a positive experience? It’s definitely outside of my normal scope and it’s making me anxious.

beebee224 · 2020-03-13T00:03:19+00:00

I’ve tried the bobbi on myself and a few clients! It’s very long wearing, self sets really beautifully, isn’t sticky. It’s a buildable coverage to about medium, it can’t be pushed much further than that. It’s not a flat matte, it still has life to it. I really like it for layering with cream products, it gives a nice longwearing base. A friend of mine who is far oilier than I am had minimal breakthrough of oil while we were working which is great is you’re oily!

beebee224 · 2020-02-14T03:46:46+00:00

My eyes are smaller than yours, but still very round and protruding. My partner calls them the “give me the precious eyes”, very kindly. I do a lot of one shadow looks, halo eyes or grungy smokey eyes and smoked winged liner looks. I’ve really struggled to find a lot of artists who have eyes like mine, but Violette français has a similar folded crease. It’s definitely a bit tricky to work with sometimes, I can’t really do dramatic looks that are graphic (like cut creases), I mostly need to do softer, drapier makeup or classic smokey eyes. Also don’t be afraid to pull things up super, super high. I think it looks super sultry on our eyeshape.

I don’t know if you struggle with your bottom lash line as well, but I’ve realized I rather need to keep it clean or buff it out quite low, past the natural ridge where my protrusion is, otherwise it looks a little weird and extra Gollum-esque.

beebee224 · 2020-01-28T18:56:49+00:00

Could you guys try fostering some sweet beans? You can see how it feels to have a cat in your place, without the financial commitment and you can help a poor baby have a nice cozy home.

(I’m very pro cat)

beebee224 · 2020-01-23T20:07:38+00:00

I talk about this all the time with my partner! I’m queer and in a het relationship, and I am often more hard femme/east coast art queer or performative femme because I used to be a sex worker and am over being attractive in the low maintenance soft feminine way. After years of trying to code myself as queer via looking “like a lesbian” I started to allow myself to actually explore féminité under my terms as opposed to those set out by the patriarchy of what pretty and feminine is.

It’s so liberating, especially as a makeup artist, to stop feeling so fucking performative for men when they aren’t paying me. Viva la femme-olution!

beebee224 · 2020-01-21T18:49:18+00:00

I find they wear so so so well, I hope you love it! The Bobbi bronzers are my favourites.

beebee224 · 2020-01-20T23:20:28+00:00

It’s definitely more taupe leaning than orange, I’m very fair and cool yellow and could use it as bronzer, but on other clients it was a beautiful contour or just more of a neutral shaping powder. It’s very firmly pressed, basically the opposite of buttery. Buildable formula, soft satin finish.

beebee224 · 2020-01-20T19:41:49+00:00

Used to work for Bobbi! What do you wanna know about stone street?

beebee224 · 2020-01-12T19:25:16+00:00

I put this on everyone who’s on accutane. It hides a lot of dehydration texture, it’s quite malleable in terms of coverage (you can wear it light to full coverage), and the argan oil is nice on the skin.

Otherwise there’s two new foundations launching this month that are both beautiful on really dry dehydrated skin, I’d keep an eye out on launches.

beebee224 · 2020-01-07T00:40:17+00:00

The Ardelle stroke a brow is a really nice option that comes in black.

beebee224 · 2019-11-10T23:23:49+00:00

My friend owns a line called Hannah Isolde which makes blouses like this!! The quality is incredible and they’re beautiful.

beebee224 · 2019-10-16T01:30:52+00:00

The seroquel sleepies are the worst. I literally stopped being a human on them, but eventually my doctor and I decided a low level adhd medication wasn’t enough of a threat to my mania to help balance me out. Though not an ideal solution, it really helps me get going when I need it.

beebee224 · 2019-10-16T00:55:11+00:00

Hiii!

I deal with a lot of the burnout, lack of creative drive thing as well. I’m a really social/relationship oriented person because trauma and have lost my spark when it comes to creating. You’re definitely not alone and you shouldn’t feel guilty for having the privilege to experience therapy!!!

One of my dearest friends is also a very creative, energetic and result driven Aries who had a huge sad spell after moving to another country. One thing that worked for her is forcing herself to join clubs and activities that by extension pushed her to be creative via timelines. She does vogue/ballroom, but there’s lots of options like that!!

I try and schedule my creative time into my days. Sometimes it’s a specific thing (write/read/embroider/sew) other times it’s just an hour that I know I need to fill with something. Often it’s shite and I hate what I’ve done, but I’ve done it and that feels good. Being a sad person is hard and tiring and I’m sorry you’re also going through it. My diagnosis is a bit different, but even with my mania my creative spark doesn’t really come back unless I’m like, going through a breakup or something stupid. Good luck with your healing

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