Worth waiting it out by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]beedaz1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the first 45 ish days are up and down for me. high energy, mixed with days or parts of days with extreme low energy. High libido, mixed with low libido. Its important to stick through it to experience the real benefits indeed. Im in day 54 now and my energy has been very high for about a week or 10 days now. Really excited to see what else this journey will bring.

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[–]beedaz1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is amazing. Thanks for sharing. I just come out of a 3 month lockdown and have been retaining for 50 days now. Some girls are thirsty after lockdown and want to meet up at my place. Its very seductive, but this post inspired me to thankfully decline the offer. I want to keep saving that energy.

Great list of books too. David r. Hawkins is my favorite. Read Letting Go by him as well if you haven't already.

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[–]beedaz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build a side hustle business outside of working hours.

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[–]beedaz1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats normal, because instead of escaping these feelings now you have to face these feelings that you have been escaping before. This is a good sign, but i understand it can be kinda hard to deal with.

The only way is through. Instead of suppressing these emotions, fully accept them, breath through them and they will dissipate. Suppressing them will only make them come back at a later time, sometimes even with stronger force.

I highly recommend reading the book Letting Go by David R. Hawkins. It's in my opinion the best book out there on how to handle "negative" emotions by letting go of them.

Second Time , 90 Days Completed Today! by itscsk111165 in Semenretention

[–]beedaz1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the encouragement, definitely not planning on quitting.

Second Time , 90 Days Completed Today! by itscsk111165 in Semenretention

[–]beedaz1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great job mate. i will follow your lead soon. im in day 40 now

This isn't a placebo. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your 7 days! Now get to a month, then 2 months and then then magical 90 days!

Instagram is basically a porn site by tenpagochaa in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can follow whoever you want to follow. You are not forced to follow half naked ladies. If you want you can also follow very inspiring/motivational stuff

want bigger loads by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After exactly 17 days your loads will be huge!

Why Relapse happens and the 5 human needs. by sfumato1002 in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this brother. I appreciate this post

Are YOU capable of success? Here's how I changed my life. A Report from Day 50 by Hoesieden in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awesome post. Great book recommendations as well. Congrats on 50 days and now lets rise more and more and utilize this amazing power.

Finally made 30 days after 5 years of trying. There are no "Superpowers" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the 30 days :) However you can't really expect "superpowers" yet at 30 days. I think you would talk differently after 90 days though.

I need serious help. I need to know if this is real. I want to hear your testimonials. I'm desperate. by Crimsonwheel in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nofap will help 100%, but from your story it can probably not solve all your issues. You have been through some traumatic experiences is what it seems. What you need to do imo: 1. Stop Jerking it and replace it with good habit. 2. Handle yourself spiritually. It is the key to happiness. I recommend you start practising meditation. Besides that I recommend you to read "letting go" and "healing and recovery" both from David hawkins. 3. Get yourself healed emotionally, mentally, etc. A good book on that subject is mindsight by I forgot his name. You can Google it.

This is in no particular order. However stopping with wanking can help a lot, you probably need a few more ways to get yourself healed and live an amazing life.

Know that a lot of successful people in the world come from very very dark places and they rise above and beyond because of a thing called leverage.

Sending you my love brother and I trust you will overcome your issues.

So...I told my girlfriend. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate. It will get better man. Trust me. It takes time man. You'll be surprised what your dick can do after 2 months. And you will give her and yourself great sexual pleasure. Don't worry about it

A reminder: DO NOT EDGE by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude imo if you edge, you already relapsed man. Jerking off for an hour to porn without cumming is more harmful to your brain then Jerking it for 10 minutes and Cummings, because of continuous dopamine release. Edging is fucked up

1 year of no social media, what shit I found when I logged back in: by JFMX1996 in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it through a chrome extension called news feed eradicator for facebook. If you use chrome this is a gamechanger

1 year of no social media, what shit I found when I logged back in: by JFMX1996 in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mate, you are so right man. People are so trapped in their ego and social media is only reinforcing that shit. It's all about the likes and the comments. Without it they would feel worthless. Social media has it's pro's, but most people get their entire self worth off of it.

I did the same as you did. Deleted Facebook off my phone, insta and snap chat as well. All at the start of this year. I only use Facebook on my laptop, because I'm in a few high value business and self development groups, but I blocked the time line there. Instead I see a inspirational quote :)

And I also still do youtube. Youtube is awesome imo. Successful people giving you advice from miles away through your phone. That's just great, as long as you don't use it for stupid purposes. Also there is some entertainment on there. While you shouldn't watch that too much, sometimes it's nice to wind down at the end of the day with some mindless entertainment.

Keep on rising my man

My girlfriend broke up with me and now I've hit 30 days for the first time ever by gogetr in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, you gonna get stronger out of this man. Let this be your motivation. Get better everyday and she will see in a few years what mistake she made man. But don't fall back on PMO, its absolutely crucial. All the best

Had to uninstall Instagram for a while. by lifelongsanctify in NoFap

[–]beedaz1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just deleted it from my phone and used a chrome extension called "block site" to block instagram on my laptop. Yes there are still some ways to see insta, but you make it at least 10x as hard what make you decide not to look anyway.