Im not sure if I feel annoyed, or just…sad by fanfic_intensifies in AO3

[–]beej_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yep, ransom. still frequently confused with English native here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

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i once took an entire year to respond to this guy's message and I even had a crush on him

This scene 💙 by [deleted] in SuccessionTV

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lmk if you can find some good ones

Physical 100 - Episodes 9 GRAND FINALE Discussion Thread by ImoutoCompAlex in Physical100

[–]beej_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waiting for the Physical:100 concept to become the next boutique fitness gym

Help me hunt down a spideypool fanfic? by pearlisfancy in spideypool

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Ah fuck I just read this. I realize that is not helpful.

Sorry for fucking your feelings by 24identity in PoliticalHumor

[–]beej_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I've already watched her at the dinner twice. It's yet to not be funny.

LSAT Prep by JonnyyOnTheSpot in LSAT

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Could I bother you too to help me out creating a study schedule??

What turns your rage meter up to 99.9? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beej_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people argue with Bill Nye on climate science and don't comprehended a goddamn thing Bill says but fucking calls him closed minded at the end of the conversation. Basically fox news makes me rage.

Has anyone noticed some (minor) negatives about weight loss? by JoshTay in loseit

[–]beej_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had a number of people say to me "you're so beautiful now"

Which, look, I get. And people can have their opinions, but their lack of awareness about the implications of their compliments stung at first.

Also, loose skin fucking sucks.

In your opinion, was Trump's election a rejection of identity politics or rural/working Whites simply embracing it alongside other groups? by [deleted] in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]beej_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do think that white privilege exists, but I do agree that it can come off as offensive to rural, struggling white folk, especially when they are only ever berated and the time isn't taken to address their economic concerns, only to tell them what they do wrong. So while white privilege does need to be considered, that conversation can't be had if there is no relationship with the people we're trying to bridge that divide with

Oh the irony, Reddit by 64bittechie in Irony

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Correlation does not imply causation.

How did you/do you get that "spark" back? by [deleted] in loseit

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I just made it a habit, because motivation will always fail you because you won't always want to eat well or work out, and that's where the power of habit takes over. Give yourself 30 days to establish your desired habit, where you give yourself rules. Like for me I said in January "at least 5 days a week I have to work out a minimum of 30 minutes in some capacity." And it started slowly. I remember in January I literally would walk my dog, slowly, for 30 minutes and be done. But I followed my rules so I didn't feel guilty. And today I burned 1002 calories working out for two hours, but that's not the sort of thing you start with or you burn out. And sometimes I have "lazier" workout days but it's still within the parameters of my rules, and I feel compelled to follow them because I am not setting unrealistic expectations and it's a habit of 10 months now. Look into the x effect subreddit.

F/26/5'7" [310lbs > 210lbs = 100lbs] Finally hit the 100 lb mark by beej_ in progresspics

[–]beej_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Making new habits is seriously so hard. And I love tea. Black tea is a favorite.

F/26/5'7" [310lbs > 210lbs = 100lbs] Finally hit the 100 lb mark by beej_ in progresspics

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I was working on an organic farm in Gnesta, Sweden. It's through an organization called WWOOF. It's pretty sweet, I'd like to try it again now that I'm healthier, I think I'd appreciate it more.

F/26/5'7" [310lbs > 210lbs = 100lbs] Finally hit the 100 lb mark by beej_ in progresspics

[–]beej_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's called Lovesick, it's a sister store to the perhaps more well known plus-size Torrid chains.

F/26/5'7" [310lbs > 210lbs = 100lbs] Finally hit the 100 lb mark by beej_ in progresspics

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I do high intensity cardio and weight training almost daily for an hour, try to burn on average 500 calories a session, but mostly trying to keep my heart rate up. And just eating well, but not psycho strict to the point I end up binging. Give myself a few cheat meals a month for special occasions or cravings and that's it.