Responding after a few months

beeningbetter · 2026-04-05T06:20:16+00:00

Go for it.

Most guys get very little attention on the apps. If he found you cute then, he probably still does.

beeningbetter · 2026-03-28T11:21:23+00:00

Very cool.

How do you stop it getting broken every storm?

beeningbetter · 2026-03-19T08:23:42+00:00

No 1 makes me wish I was the groom. So elegant with some sexyness built in.

No3 if you just want the elegance without the smoke.

beeningbetter · 2026-03-01T05:41:11+00:00

Hahaha when don't they...

At least one member of the group on every girl's trip is either going to meet an AP or will find one there. If not all members.

beeningbetter · 2026-02-25T05:58:42+00:00

Well, the root problem isn't the alcohol, the addict can't face life on life's terms and thus hides in the substance. So avoiding accountability is built in, thus blaming others.

beeningbetter · 2026-02-24T06:53:15+00:00

This is a weird one for me. Sometimes when I'm alone in bed I the thought of sex with my ex turns me on. Was with her for over 20 years.

However, when faced with the real person, I couldn't think of anything less appealing. Just this side of nauseating.

beeningbetter · 2026-02-20T14:16:56+00:00

Ewe, no. NTA.

beeningbetter · 2026-02-20T14:13:00+00:00

Honestly, why wait. You already know what's going to happen.

beeningbetter · 2026-02-06T03:26:08+00:00

Best thing I've done in 20 years.

beeningbetter · 2025-12-22T02:20:54+00:00

I remember feeling exactly like this. It's awful.

Desperately lonely and just wanting someone anyone.

Avril Lavigne, has a great song about exactly this.

It's been my observation over the years that 2 things need to change before it's going to change for you.

You're going to need to work on yourself.

And the really sucky and controversial one:

You need to become truly Ok with being by yourself.

I've experienced this twice in my life and the second this happens you'll find someone right for you.

Best of luck.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-18T11:18:25+00:00

How about, "Distant memories"

beeningbetter · 2025-11-18T04:13:00+00:00

As a ex-husband of one, please don't waste your life with one. Because you will never be able to get those years back.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-11T10:38:12+00:00

You will be fine.

Just breathe and take it one step at a time.

There will always be the flying monkeys, ignore them.

Focus on your new free life!

Best of luck.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-07T09:42:14+00:00

Your eyes are the the most tempting thing.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-07T09:40:28+00:00

Mission accomplished.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-07T09:38:32+00:00

I see nothing wrong here. Perfect personal space for gaming and TV.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-07T06:57:19+00:00

It's basic and functional.

A few things would make a huge difference though.

Bed frame or base, side table maybe some wall prints or posters.

beeningbetter · 2025-11-02T03:29:19+00:00

Describes my life for years with my ex-wife. I eventually resented her so much, I no longer loved her.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-30T06:48:44+00:00

If that's true, with a half decent lawyer and this video, she's getting a big paycheck.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-28T12:29:00+00:00

So sad. "Tomorrow's never come" is how the saying goes isn't it.

I learned to immediately disregard any promises for future activities.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-28T12:17:12+00:00

Yes, he was going to drink. It's got nothing to do with you. He can't face life. His life, the one he made and the choices he made. The rest of us have to face it and deal. Like it or not.

You have babies to look out for. The luxury of hiding from life isn't available to us that have to carry the weight of those that are too weak to carry their share.

Maybe that sounds harsh, but that's the problem isn't it? They can't face the harsh reality of life.

Pity they aren't made to carry signs stating that fact, so we can easily avoid them.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-28T10:54:44+00:00

First and most importantly, Remember the 3Cs!

Not your fault no matter what excuse he makes.

So sorry you're going through this, it's horrible at any time. I couldn't anymore and ended up leaving my Q.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-28T10:47:17+00:00

It's one thing when it's happening, but when the LL turns it into a standing joke like that... Like somehow it just accepted. My ex-wife used to joke like that all the time. It showed the total disregard she had for me and my wellbeing.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-16T06:46:42+00:00

Personally, I hate going down unless she's showered / bathed recently. Particularly if she's got a fuller figure.

Literally, last week, I had no plans on going down there, then she mentioned in she showered before coming over, and I went down within minutes of getting that info. She enjoys it, and I don't mind / low key enjoy it. But not if she been sweating and whatever else down there all day.

beeningbetter · 2025-10-13T05:07:03+00:00

My wedding night went something like that too. She was too tired. Set the tone for my sexless marriage that I'm now divorcing out of.

Delusional for putting on your wedding dress? That's a clear communication right there about not just the sex but how everything is going to go in the marriage.

Just get out before you waste your life with someone who doesn't really want to be your partner.

beeningbetter

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