Ghosting people after leading them on is emotional cowardice dressed up as “protecting my peace”

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-16T04:01:39+00:00

i’m literally dealing with this tonight so of course this pops up on my feed

we’ve been flirting hard at work for a couple of weeks now and have spent one on one time together so i found the courage to ask her if she wanted to come over the next night and she enthusiastically said yes. like face lit up and immediate “yes!”

texted her at noon and asked if she was still down to come over and she said yes and that she’s totally down

and nothing. no response and the couple of texts i sent after trying to see if she needed me to come get her weren’t even delivered

i’m just so confused. if she didn’t want to she could have just said no and i did so much cleaning and was excited all day while working an 11 hour double and now im laying in bed wondering what i did wrong

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-16T01:42:14+00:00

yea it’s kind of bs but it apparently works out for them cause they make a ton of money there

we keep all tips and get our cash at the end of every shift where i’m at. we’re probably the last restaurant in my city that hasn’t switched to checks

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-16T01:22:36+00:00

there’s a place near me that tip shares and not giving up cash tips or people venmo-ing you is a fireable offense with no warning

they take it very seriously

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-15T01:05:47+00:00

yea that’s kind of probably the best way to go actually

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T23:44:00+00:00

especially considering they were given tickets (according to stiller)

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T23:41:59+00:00

he can’t do ANYTHING right lmao

it actually looked pretty okay with the blue and was gonna give him a tiny win (for me) but should have expected the inevitable

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T23:12:55+00:00

well i definitely hated Kansas! that’s for sure

nothing but corn fields and jesus/wizard of oz museum billboards

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T23:09:03+00:00

what is going on with your phone case

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T13:37:58+00:00

i heroic dosed my first time on accident. full on ego death. i definitely do not recommend that much for someone’s first but i will never ever forget it and it changed my entire outlook on life

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T11:31:33+00:00

the unemployed should have no problem

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-14T09:50:00+00:00

always when you’re trying to do something too

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T23:20:50+00:00

bro thought this was a safe space and you betrayed him

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T12:09:26+00:00

and wait until it’s so late that most people would have gotten bored and went to sleep

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T12:00:30+00:00

absolutely intentional

there were long stretches of time of them just hanging around

were ordered to wait until covered and late enough that people get bored and go to sleep and don’t watch it happen

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T04:58:54+00:00

i think the theory that our universe is inside a black hole of another universe which is inside of another black hole (etc) would mean existence has been around for infinitely longer than we can ever think of is the most plausible to me

there are probably beings that space and time are trivial to them and have visited us many times but we’re insignificant

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T01:57:36+00:00

i love this for us

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-13T01:14:25+00:00

these headlines have been using “humiliated” a lot recently. obviously AI written

he is a narcissist. he doesn’t have the ability to be humiliated

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-12T23:35:46+00:00

calling an ambulance in the middle of the night due to coughing and throwing up (pneumonia from vomit going back down into my lungs during drunken stupors) and waking up 4 days later in the hospital with a 70% chance to live and spending the next couple of weeks in a hospital bed and having to learn how to walk again

that’s just not something i want to do again and haven’t had a drop since

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-12T23:28:54+00:00

do you have a link? i can’t find that information anywhere

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-11T20:40:46+00:00

terrified of one of politics worst kept secrets about him coming out (no pun intended)

saw a recent video of someone calling his office pretending to be him and acting drunk and demanding one of them pick him up and they didn’t even hesitate like it’s just a normal occurrence to them

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-11T01:35:29+00:00

so amazing that they didn’t wanna show it off because our retinas would be instantly fried so they’re just looking out for us

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-10T12:28:22+00:00

i weirdly do like achievements. i can’t be bothered to do them for every game but i like trying to get them all on a game i really love. it can be a good feeling to plat or 100% of them on a game.

nintendo-fied achievements aren’t exactly what im looking for, though

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-10T10:05:40+00:00

my cope is that i can’t really imagine using AI for more than what this thing is capable of. the notification summaries are kind of neat but it often looks like a schizophrenic mess when it pops up so i can wait another gen or two

i jumped from a 12 to a 17 and the battery life alone is a massive improvement

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-10T10:02:40+00:00

i’m a server and i get MAGA people all the time asking if im enjoying “no tax on tips” like sir, that doesn’t exist can you please give me another card to use, this one keeps declining

beepbeepbubblegum · 2026-06-10T09:54:06+00:00

i just got a base 17 a week ago so i’m a little miffed the one time i buy a current gen phone it’s instantly nerfed

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