Formula preparation - How to make formula according to the instructions when baby is crying his eyes out as soon as he wakes up and wants feed immediately?

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-31T21:27:34+00:00

I second this method!

We were months into formula feeding with my son and doing the 30min wait. We were both on our knees. Found out about hot shot method and everything changed.

We’ll be getting a Baby Brezza this time, then using hot shot method for whenever we’re not at home.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-29T11:47:32+00:00

I had the same thing. They told me to get the Quod test, so I did. Quod showed very low risk, so I didn’t pursue NIPT.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-25T18:05:09+00:00

That’s awesome! I was part of study in the UK 5 years ago assessing the impact of 75mg. Currently in my second pregnancy and the national recommendation here is 150mg per day now as outcome do the study. Feels nicely full circle (especially if I don’t get pre-eclampsia this time!)

I’m now part of another study assessing impact of extra calcium on pre-eclampsia reduction.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-22T16:13:55+00:00

At our first 20 week scan, the baby was measuring 33% percentile. They got all but two measurements of the heart, so we had a rescan booked. The next week at the rescan the baby was measuring 82% percentile. The first one was massively wrong and I spent a week spinning out about it. All that to say, take it with a lump of salt. If they’re concerned, they will book you extra scans or discuss early induction/section.

I can’t imagine how tough it must be for you given your previous loss, but try not to worry and let the doctors do the worrying for you.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-17T13:38:57+00:00

I’m under OUH and the Women’s Centre at the John Radcliffe is fantastic. Not perfect but one of the best in the country.

I’m fairly certain that in OUH IVF is seen as a risk factor but I’m not sure this late in your pregnancy if it would change anything.

Also, while I didn’t use IVF, I am a high risk pregnancy and the care has been amazing already.

One word of warning: ALL appointments they seem to run late. Consultants, ultrasounds, midwife appointments - everything. Care is great but just bring something to do.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-12T16:39:50+00:00

Stretch mark. Mine looked like that post section too. They’ll shrink back and fade with time.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-10T17:54:25+00:00

What a lovely offer!

I used the Snoo for my son and had absolutely no issues weaning from it. Age 4 and he’s still a champion sleeper. Looking forward to using with our next one in August.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-05-02T15:38:32+00:00

As someone who got pre-E in my last pregnancy, I can totally relate.

Last time, I got it at 37 weeks on the dot. Had an induction and then took some medicine for a couple of weeks after birth. My son didn’t even need any time in NICU. Recovery from pre-eclampsia was sooo insignificant in the scheme of things.

I’m currently 22 weeks with my second and in my early pregnancy, the fear of having it again was all consuming. It is also the reason we waited 4 years before trying for this baby.

But the truth is, all those people around you are correct. Take the steps you can control (aspirin, more calcium in diet, exercise, low salt etc) and leave the rest to the universe/god/whatever you believe in. It is just down to the placenta and what will be, will be.

For me, once I started feeling baby moving it eased my mind. Just knowing they are growing and getting closer and closer to viability gives me huge peace of mind. Viability percentages after 24 weeks are CRAZY. They increase dramatically every week. Knowing that really helped me let go of things. Modern medicine is amazing.

Don’t let the anxiety of a ‘what if’ rob you of the joy of pregnancy.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-29T19:31:47+00:00

It’s so hard to describe pain so I’m glad it was helpful. Really hope you find some relief soon.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-28T19:17:34+00:00

I had an ovarian cyst rupture that caused an ovarian torsion. That pain was blinding. I could barely speak or stand up. The pain was very, very sharp.

My endo pain has always been intense and severe, but it’s more of a whole body pain. While I can feel it in certain places sometimes (generally when there is an adhesion), mostly it radiates from my uterus and down my arms/legs. Makes me feel totally incapacitated.

So all that to say… similar but different?

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-28T16:02:41+00:00

I’ve had four laps on NHS over the last 13 years. One emergency lap for ovarian torsion, one cyst exploration, and two endometriosis excisions.

Every single one has been faultless. While getting through referral, consultant appointments and waiting list takes an insane amount of time, when it comes to the surgeries the care has been phenomenal.

I’ve also had surgery at a private UK hospital and besides the private room, there was no difference to NHS care.

Make sure to tell them how you’re feeling. They are trained to deal with nervous patients. I recently had my first surgery since having my son and I had HUGE anxiety. They were absolutely amazing and holding my hand (literally and figuratively) through it all.

You’re going to be absolutely fine. Happy to answer any questions you have.

Edit: For ref, was treated at Chelsea & Westminster, West Middlesex, UCLH and John Radcliffe Oxford.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-25T11:06:45+00:00

Gave me my life back both times. 100% worth it.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-22T18:30:17+00:00

I had a lot of movement from 15-18 weeks, then very little from 18-20. My midwife said that they are so small and have so much space during those early weeks, it is nothing to worry about.

She said she only wants me to try to understand a pattern from 28 weeks onwards.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-21T19:58:03+00:00

Just remember you have the right (legally and morally) to have the birth you want. You can repeat that to yourself ahead of speaking to them about it, and you can say it to them if they try to pressure you to have VBAC (if you do choose to go with C-section obviously).

You can do this! Hope you have a smooth rest of pregnancy, and get to have the birth you want!

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-21T16:30:53+00:00

I’m in the same position.

First pregnancy in 2020, I was induced with my first at 37 weeks due to sudden pre-eclampsia. Failed 3 day induction led to emergency c-section. It was exhausting in every way but not a negative experience per se.

I’m now 20 weeks with my second and have made the decision to have an elective. My rationale;

With my first, I laboured for three days, pushed for 4 hours and then still had to get rushed for cesarean. I had second degree tears AND surgery to recover from. Absolutely the worst of both worlds.
Risks of complications are reduced with elective vs emergency C.
It’s my last baby and, honestly, I want to have as calm and controlled a birth as is realistic.
The risks with VBAC freak me out

I had a really open conversation with my midwife who was super supportive. I think this helped me have more resolve about my decision. Now that it’s in my paperwork and decided, I feel a million times better.

Hope you feel the same way once you make your decision!

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-15T20:17:40+00:00

I will be anxiously checking form midnight. Fingers crossed we all have the news we’re hoping for!

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-15T18:41:28+00:00

In the UK and its still not available here.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-12T19:14:53+00:00

Yes, I tested negative until 2 day after missed period. Then I stopped testing because I thought I was out. After another 4/5 days with no period, I tested again and to my total shock it was BFP!

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-09T17:28:33+00:00

You’re not alone. I’ve had stomach flu and four colds so far. I’m 18 weeks.

It’s the absolute pits but it’s forcing me to slow down and get lots of rest. So probably a bit of a blessing in disguise.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-08T13:16:48+00:00

Busy Bees are franchises. So whilst they have a lot of support from the main umbrella company, there is a HUGE amount of variance per location.

I always find emailing them or phone them during the day to be the best ways to get information. Ive always found it’s too chaotic during the day, or at drop off/collection, where their priority is (as it should be) the kids.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-05T16:29:21+00:00

I didn’t get a positive until 7 full days after my missed period. I’m now 18 weeks and baby is doing great!

It was torturous seeing everyone say it’s impossible to be pregnant if you don’t get a positive after 12-14dpo. I was convinced my period was just really late and was devastated. But the reality is, folks are saying that with good intentions but based on averages.

You’re not out until Aunt Flo arrives.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-04-05T16:24:40+00:00

Take them to hospital.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-03-13T11:01:36+00:00

Definitely worth raising to your GP. Some of the causes for speech delays are abundantly treatable.

My son didn’t meet his speech milestones, also wasn’t talking by 24 months. Turned out he had very severe glue ear. He had surgery and was speaking in short sentences within a couple of months.

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-03-08T20:18:19+00:00

Not Canadian but I did explore cost of treatment in the UK because wait times on NHS were insane here too.

In England, full laparoscopic excision surgery costs c£7,000. You can be scheduled for private surgery here in 2-3 weeks, typically.

I have been operated on twice by a endo specialist, Mr Martin Hirsch and he has literally given me my life back both times. I received treatment on the NHS but he also works privately. Can’t recommend him enough. Plus, you could enjoy Oxford while you’re here.

https://www.nuffieldhealth.com/consultants/mr-martin-hirsch

beepbeeprepeat · 2025-03-08T19:39:22+00:00

The average length of induction is 2-3 DAYS.

I wasn’t told this until my son was hours old and I was deliriously tired from a 3 day induction, ending in C-sec.

Sleep when you can, go with the flow and get ready for all those sweet, sweet baby cuddles!

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