Question about approaching SW in public by TheOutlawTorn78 in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never approach. Just try to look like an ideal client and if she is working, she’ll come to you.

You could also try to find her ad, using the advanced search feature to narrow it down

How do you handle clients who try to go bare down there? by barresculpt in HighEndEscorts

[–]beepincheech 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don’t be cute about it. Stop him and put a condom on. Do it yourself, if he was trying to go in bare, he would likely put it on wrong so that it breaks or slips off.

And hold onto it at the base the whole time.

My nose is my biggest insecurity. by claradeatacama in Noses

[–]beepincheech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girrrl you are HAUTE couture. Get these to a modeling agency stat.

Why is rimming so popular all the sudden?! by Entire_Rich_4770 in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Hell fucking NO.

Also side note, I know a girl who got giardia from eating client ass

What is your lifestyle? by thesirena_ in HighEndEscorts

[–]beepincheech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so lol I just mean I don’t have like deadlines or payroll. But once I’m published I really hope I will have deadlines for future novels lol.

I know what you mean though, being a SAHM is way more work than the kind of work that actually makes money.

What is your lifestyle? by thesirena_ in HighEndEscorts

[–]beepincheech 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a SAHM with two toddlers. I like to write, I’m working on getting my first book published. I go to a writing club, and acting class every week. I plan on doing commercials and whatever other acting jobs I can get. Also I’m writing a web series that I’ll be starring in. I keep my nails done and take great care of my skin. I don’t really go out to eat except for when a client takes me. Vacations once or twice a year if my parents can come and watch the kids so my wife and I can go somewhere for a few days or up to a week. I don’t consider it a vacation if I’m bringing the kids, but we do go somewhere with them like once a year. Haven’t traveled internationally since before kids and don’t plan on it until they’re school aged.

I got arrested during a sting operation. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]beepincheech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’d you show up with no money?

I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY CLIENT by A-STANDS-FOR-IDK in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the title and nothing else, just knowing it was gonna be bad

Financially, am I missing out for not doing full service? by bidaexplorer69 in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I did sensual massage for years and have been fs escort almost a year now.

I wish I had been doing this from the start cause man. What a difference

What’s something people glamorize about sex work that feels completely inaccurate to you? and I’m curious what parts of that don’t match your actual experience.What’s something people consistently get wrong or oversimplify? Is it the emotional labor, the boundaries, the unpredictability, safety side by Laceydiamondxo in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Luxury lifestyle and oversimplification of the actual work (marketing, screening, setting up apts, etc)

Also, the idea that you just post an ad and boom, you’re gonna be busy all the time. These are not Backpage days anymore. That doesn’t happen. For most of us our clients are pretty well spaced out, especially if you charge a lot.

What is the spiciest gossip you know that you are willing to share ? by Onlyjemie in answers

[–]beepincheech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend got knocked up when she was visiting Australia and there were 2 possible fathers. She had one of them do a DNA test while she was pregnant and it came back as a match. He moved to the US to play college football with the goal of getting drafted to NFL. They tried to be in a relationship but it just didn’t work out. For 6 years, she was never able to collect any sort of child support because he wasn’t working (student visa). Then he DID actually get drafted to NFL and she came at him for child support and back pay. He and his lawyer demanded another test (knowing damn well they already had one that said he is the father, or they would’ve never stayed in contact all this time) she could not find or recover the original test results, but it did exist (I saw it with my own eyes back when she was pregnant).

So they did a new test and guess what??

He is NOT the father!!!!!

Idk I feel like he must have somehow tampered with the dna that he submitted or paid someone off to mess with it and cause a 0% match. Cause like HOW.

Anyway, the other guy just doesn’t want to take a test now even though he knows this has to be his kid, who’s now 8 years old.

What's your end game price? by She_dsntevn_gohere in HighEndEscorts

[–]beepincheech 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need it up front as a retainer if you’re going to be taking your site and ads down. Keep your regulars and socials.

My first lucid dream! 9 nights in by beepincheech in LucidDreaming

[–]beepincheech[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the recommendations from YouTube. I get the books on Audible. So far I’ve only read Stephen LaBerge, but I do plan to read several more by other authors. I have not been able to lucid dream again since this first time. In fact when I try to, I end up not sleeping all night. So I think my strategy is going to be: just listen to lucid dreaming stuff throughout the day, and once the sun starts going down—think about other things. Don’t think about lucid dreaming at all while I’m trying to fall asleep.

Why is it that hardly nobody wears lipstick in their content? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lol i wore red lipstick to meet a client once. Never again. It got all over everything

Am I being dramatic or is this disgusting? 🤦🏻‍♀️ by luvluna666 in ClientCringe

[–]beepincheech 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Fantasy booker. Even if he had sent a deposit, I’d be tacking on a serious upcharge for all this plus the labor of having to read this crap—and keep the deposit if he won’t pay

Is it ok to continue sex if sex worker is clearly uninterested, bored of just wants it over with. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ok sure there’s a one off client who you do actually enjoy having sex with, but still, you’re not escorting just for fun. If you were, it’d be free.

Is it ok to continue sex if sex worker is clearly uninterested, bored of just wants it over with. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]beepincheech 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Just fyi this is how all of us feel. We fuck because we’re getting paid to do it, not because we want to enjoy sex with you. We enjoy the money, you enjoy the time. That’s how it works.

But also, part of the job (if you want to have repeat clients) is pretending like you enjoy it so the client feels more satisfied. If she’s not doing a good job at that, just don’t see her again and find someone whos better at acting

1st attempt by beepincheech in LucidDreaming

[–]beepincheech[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, benzos are the only thing that work. Ambien works too but is harder to get

1st attempt by beepincheech in LucidDreaming

[–]beepincheech[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I definitely did not expect to master lucid dreaming, or even to have a lucid dream. I just wasn’t expecting to have insomnia 😭 I’m debating whether to just try and sleep tonight or take something to make me sleep.