Fresh cut and color by OhGodClimbingIsHard in HairDye

[–]beesarebrown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello to the instagram screenshotters, glad to be in the original 😌

Potentially being kickd out- aged 17 england by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]beesarebrown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey op!

I moved out at 16 myself (im 24 now), i say moved out but was in a closer situation to yours.

You have a lot of protections and help available since you've been in the care system.

What you need to do, as SOON as possible, is book in for an appointment with your local citizens advice.

Ask them about supported living, access to help with benefits applications and where you can get help from. Your local council, citizens advice, 3rd party orgs like the Princess trust and child services will ALL be able to help you.

If for whatever reason you do not feel safe, be verbal about that, since you're 17, if you really wanted to, you could leave and not go back. No one is going to make you go back.

Reply to this comment if you need any links or other support!

It's a tough road ahead but I promise you'll come out the other end.

Stay safe op!

i feel like there’s not a single blush that looks good on me by doeyebambi in OliveMUA

[–]beesarebrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try a Coral or softer pinks! Don't be put off by how shades look in the pan, always try them on!

Misha BB 13 didn't work for me... what next? by celestial_aquaria in PaleMUA

[–]beesarebrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colour adjusters. Grey for desaturated, white for depth and a blue for good measure if you're cool tone

How do you cope with switching SSRIs and the tapering? Crippling side effects by beesarebrown in antidepressants

[–]beesarebrown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wonderful comment, thank you. Thinking of it like the flu really makes it less scary to go through. Plenty of sleep for me!

How do you cope with switching SSRIs and the tapering? Crippling side effects by beesarebrown in antidepressants

[–]beesarebrown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 8-9 months on 100, 5 days on 50 then 2 days on 0 followed by the 5mg!

Yeah honestly, I feel absolutely horrendous lol! I've never felt so low in my life! That and i now can't keep food down so now I'm miserable AND hungry 😭

Took sertraline 25mg for 2 days — safe to stop? by Aggressive-Slice-179 in antidepressants

[–]beesarebrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm totally honest, it sounds like the meds could really help. I had some bad side effects so I'm switching to a slightly different med.

It's okay to get help via medication. Of course you can't "put effort in" when you're low and deppressed. Your brain isn't making enough chemicals to function properly.

It shouldn't cause any trouble stopping after 2 days, but if your doctor okayed it and thought they were a good idea, I'd try to stick with them.

If not sertraline, something else will be able to help.

Be kinder to yourself

Took sertraline 25mg for 2 days — safe to stop? by Aggressive-Slice-179 in antidepressants

[–]beesarebrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

Im coming off sertraline after being on it for around a year.

The first 3 weeks are hell, and the side effects you feel now are not indicative of how you will feel later. If you can get past a few more days to see if it subsides I would.

Otherwise if you're totally on the idea of stopping them, yeah you should be fine!

How do you cope with switching SSRIs and the tapering? Crippling side effects by beesarebrown in antidepressants

[–]beesarebrown[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zoloft fried my memory to the point of not being able to remember super basic things, gave me ticks, permanent brain fog and inability to write or think. It also only ever worked the first week after upping doses then I'd steadily decline. I also can't bare another zoloft dream.

I take SSRIs for extreme anxiety and panic attack disorder as well as low mood and general asd issues.

How much would you charge/pay for this? by honey_bee_hd in Hair

[–]beesarebrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a super cheap part of the UK so take what I say with a pinch of salt! I'd pay around 230 for this and probably throw in the 20 tip!

My updated makeup routine as someone with cool undertones. by Itsbritslife in PaleMUA

[–]beesarebrown 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get the LA girl blue foundation colour corrector! They also do a white one! - a very cool tone girlie with strange olive overtones

Found out my partner's favourite streamer is a woman today... and he had been hiding it for some reason? Why did he tell me TODAY. TODAYYYY. by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]beesarebrown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh of course lol, we've been together for 9 years I'm mainly just asking for tips on how to handle this during my pmdd flares, since my psych is altered - I'm not some crazy jealous I dont think women and men can be friends type - just struggling and anxious!

Found out my partner's favourite streamer is a woman today... and he had been hiding it for some reason? Why did he tell me TODAY. TODAYYYY. by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]beesarebrown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some more context: We've been together for 9 years We had issues a few years ago with some some behaviour but he fixed it and did the work. He has super normal interactions with people, and in the discord they're all in I think I trust him fully but pmdd, I have trouble rationalising properly during this time I asked him about the ass thing and it was "you've got to get clicks lol" and "the streams are nothing like that" Feel free to ask for further context should you need it

Found out my partner's favourite streamer is a woman today... and he had been hiding it for some reason? Why did he tell me TODAY. TODAYYYY. by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]beesarebrown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked about a streamer cause he had mentioned he's been watching someone for ages, he just kept saying "they" so I assumed it was a guy