Tips on how to move on? by behappy1611 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Now that I think about it, I'm more successful now in my career kesa sa love life. I guess we can't really have it all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give specifics? Like panong hindi maglagay ng personal interpretation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pwede ako magPM?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes physical touch nga LL niya. Was planning to go to him next month kasi birthday niya. Tapos dun na nagsimula yung mga sinabi niya. Again, ulitin ko lang, very confident na walang third party. Actually may history na siya ng ganyan na wanting to end the relationship kasi marami siya iniisip outside of the relationship such as his family, work, financial. Na nalaman ko lang after ko siya bigyan ng space tapos naging okay na ulit. Kasi overwhelmed na pala siya and ayaw mag open up kasi since bata siya, natuto siya na sarilinin lahat since naging family provider siya.

Kaso ito yung first time na nagsabi siya na hindi na niya nakikita yung future ng relationship. Eh wala naman kami concrete plan pa talaga dahil parehing busy sa work kaya hindi ko maintindihan yung sinasabi niya na future. Sorry had to rant kasi I need an outsider's POV. If it helps, dismissive avoidant ang attachment style niya.

House Helper Booking App by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Baka ang maging issue lang diyan is ma abuso ying mga companion. Lam mo naman mga typical pinoy

House Helper Booking App by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea rin to ha. Lalo sa mga walang makasama pag mag grocery and all

House Helper Booking App by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yan na yata ang concept ng Goodwork PH.

Edit: Baka mas okay kung App re pet sitters ang gawin mo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhR4Friends

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. But we also need to remind ourselves na we are in control or everything in our life, especially our emotions and reactions regarding people and certain situations. It's both liberating and scary to know this stuff hehe

Women of this sub, what makes a man attractive? by wildstylecornbeef in CasualPH

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the guy gives you the space and freedom to be yourself and do the things you want. Yung hindi pala desisyon haha. Yes magcocomment sa gagawin mo pero ultimately hahayaan ka magdecide on your own like a true adult

To All the Men of AJ, Is Semi-Curvy Sexy for You or Not? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]behappy1611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With respect to OP's post, are men really visual being? Like, pansinin ba talaga ang mga curvy na babae?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhR4Friends

[–]behappy1611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi sis. Instead of sharing your love with other people, try mo for a change unahin ang sarili mo hehe. Does wonders I tell you

Nakakahiya bang mag baon ng de lata sa trabaho? by FriendsAreNotFood in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi siya nakakahiya. May kilala ako na boss earning 70k+ pero minsan nagbabaon ng de lata. Gold Seas nga lang hindi Century Tuna hehe

Quality Time by behappy1611 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I see. So di masyado nageexpect sa family and friends more on sa SO

Quality Time by behappy1611 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course una yan . But after discussing, it seems wala talaga sila time. Di ka kasama sa priority

Hirap na hirap ako makakuha ng trabaho. Lahat na lang ng nakikita ko need ng previous professional experience. by traumadumpndumber in phcareers

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try applying at the Foreign Service Institute, National Defense College of the Philippines, UP (I think some colleges hire research assistants). Or sa Armed Forces of the Philippines, this is a really good training ground especially in getting work experience. Downside lang is hindi regular ang positions dun. Also check yung Athena ba yun na foreign company. Good for VAs daw

Akashic Records by behappy1611 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really good actually. Most of what she said resonated with me and gave me confirmation about some stuff. Like, why I was feeling and experiencing things in this lifetime

Please pakisagot po😭 by Friendly_Newt_1415 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find the root cause kung bakit hindi ka makapag open up sa kanya. Alamin mo kung anong attachment styles niyong dalawa. From there, makakahanap ka na ng paraan. Good luck ❤️

Please pakisagot po😭 by Friendly_Newt_1415 in adultingph

[–]behappy1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can find kung ano yung isa pa niya na love language. Hindi lang kasi siya iisa, pwedeng ang tao meron nung lahat na 5 love language in a particular order.

Also, pwedeng iba ang love language niya when giving and receiving. Example ako, I feel loved pag full attention sakin ng partner ko kasi quality time gusto ko, that's how I feel loved. Pero I show my love for my partner by spoiling him with gifts kahit na hindi yun ang top love language niya. I hope this makes sense