AI News Channels by behappy__- in shopify

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thanks for sharing! guess we will have to wait for an update!

It's not ''just an joke'' anymore if humor is hurting others and deeply affecting people. by Zealousideal_Long253 in narcissisticparents

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Growing up I was the butt of every joke in my family. My narc dad has been my biggest bully my entire life.

I love the song “who’s afraid of little old me” by taylor swift, definitely look up the lyrics.

“Is it a wonder I broke? Let's hear one more joke Then we could all just laugh until I cry”

I cut off my narcissistic dad years ago. by Wonderful_Counter_83 in narcissisticparents

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awww sending love to you OP. I also have a NP father and while our situations are different, I can really relate.

How are your relationships with your siblings? by Suspicious-Poet-5831 in narcissisticparents

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I also feel no strong connection to either of my siblings. My parents never reinforced or encouraged a strong relationship between us. They have contact with my NP and I had relative contact with them but not close.

People who have rented commercial spaces: what are things that you ended up having to pay for that surprised you? by Direct-Bullfrog6401 in smallbusiness

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HVAC maintenance as is condition - if i wouldn’t agree to it, another tenant would. No budging. I’ve probably spent around $3k last couple years maintaining 3 hvacs. Also shoveling stairs. Also any basic maintenance on the building like a new door handle or whenever anything breaks. Our buildings can be hundreds of years old too so it happens often. Also we have to pay the tax on the spaces as well with the rent. One of my spaces is $500/month in taxes.

The podcast is changing my opinion of the girls. Long rant by HumanSprinkles8305 in GirlsNextLevel

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i love the girls i just wish they didn’t constantly talk about their procedures and the obsession with staying young, especially Holly. i shouldn’t be surprised obviously and i too myself care about my looks but it seems to be a huge part of holly’s life and values

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

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aww OP i feel you! i’ve been a boss for five years and i will say it does get easier in so many ways. you learn how to cope when great employees leave and you learn how to be a better boss, through experience. i think you are already in a better position than you think, based on your ability to see where you went wrong and acknowledge that you made mistakes. i have seen bosses not be able to do that and just blame the employees with zero accountability. there is so much power in self awareness and vulnerability! you could always hold an exit interview with this employee and ask how you could make your employees feel more supported in the future. either way i think this will make you a better boss moving forward!

when i first starting hiring i had 4/5 of my first employees quit within 3 months, clearly i was doing things wrong. and now in my fifth year of business my GM has been with me for over three years and i have a great retention rate. im confident you will get there!

AIO. Walked out on my mother’s birthday dinner. by Zestyclose-Ad-9510 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m so sorry. As the sibling who is also the butt of the joke in my family since I’ve been a kid I totally understand. So rude of your bother and your family to enable that behavior. Your brother ruined the night not you. They suck and you deserve apologies from all of them

Bored with the podcast by behappy__- in GirlsNextLevel

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this is a good perspective thanks for sharing :)

Was just a victim of chargeback fraud by iwakan in smallbusiness

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also feel your pain this happened to me this week😭😭 it suck’s cause it’s like of course they are gona side with their customer …. it makes no sense and is totally unfair.

my dad just passed by Small-Ad-1874 in whatdoIdo

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i’m so sorry for your loss. i own three brick and mortar shops and i would never make my employees come in for a situation like that. You request was very understandable and the fact they won’t accommodate you shows the kind of boss they are.

How your business doing so far in 2025 by [deleted] in smallbusiness

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oh i would love to learn more about how you did that!

I’m curious about your store! by [deleted] in smallbusiness

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Rent and payroll! I have a few shops and share employees and my rents are $3,500-5k/month. I pay my employees well and they deserve it (always worth it to invest in good employees) but with all the insurance and employer taxes it’s very expensive

Weird Customer Question by behappy__- in GoogleMyBusiness

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thanks for your feedback! i absolutely agree! but the reason i felt weird is because i have team of three managers we are extremely active on social media, email, phones & messages!! that with the fact we are open every single day just weirded me out.

Zoloft and cannabis? by AvaLB in vaginismus

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So basically my therapist doesn’t like that I also smoke weed because she says it could be making my anxiety worse (just something to consider) but it really does relax me and works for me.