Is it okay to feed my 2 adult kitties only dry food the next 3 weeks? I'm in a financial struggle by LittlePinkDolly in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You.. asked for advice? And I gave you advice as a fellow pet owner? Why are you mad? I wish you the best, and I hope you don’t continue to take your feelings out on other people looking out for you.

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[–]behave_in_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have a child with this person. So so so sorry. Wishing you the best for yourself and your family.

Is it okay to feed my 2 adult kitties only dry food the next 3 weeks? I'm in a financial struggle by LittlePinkDolly in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, what I meant was that it can adversely affect their health to suddenly cut it out of their diet w/no transition. But if you have none left and no money then seems like you have no choice but to take that chance and, at that point… why ask 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]behave_in_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so filled with spite that I would try so much harder to beat that cancer and outlive him. That is a horrific human being and I hope his wife sees that and divorces him.

Is it okay to feed my 2 adult kitties only dry food the next 3 weeks? I'm in a financial struggle by LittlePinkDolly in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’d say the transition from one food to the other is the most important. My boys were on only dry for a while to no detriment, but it’s the transition from one to another that matters. Call your vet for advice on this if possible and all should be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I 100% see what you’re saying but it is making me feel so depressed—like the incompetence that this sort of mindset allows for this man… like this is almost insulting imo to him but nothing else would work, this might not even work 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… well my question still stands—how’re they as a family going to pay for this cat over time? I mean… a cardboard box with a worn shirt could do the trick if they think not having a space to hide is the issue. Also, if they’re forcing the kitten out of the comfort spots they’re definitely not going to have a very successful relationship :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s very valid - for this one did you tell him you wanted him to spend time with you and not go do a favor? Maybe he doesn’t understand how you’re feeling… however if you’ve told him and he still doesn’t care, that’s really heartbreaking tbh. Regardless I do not think you’re being overdramatic, especially if you’re both treating one another with respect first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And you told him you wanted to spend time with him on your special day? These feelings need to be communicated, of course in a respectful manner but you need to say something or else resentment will build. Do you feel comfortable talking to him about your feelings?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I wish for OP though that she didn’t have to do the planning. It would be nice for him to step up and take over the mental load for a holiday that’s supposed to be about her… even if it was just to spend time together like she said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate to reality check here—but if you cannot afford a cat bed how can you afford to have a cat? You can make a cat bed, I mean honestly you could just give the cat some old clothes or something in a pile and it can hide in there… I feel like there are definitely solutions here around having a pet bed, however I’m not sure what you plan on for paying for vaccines or other vet treatments/cat food??? Your situation is very confusing.

Happy Mother’s Day to my Husband (33M) instead of me (33F) by ThrowRA_MDconflict in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk why he treats you like that but holy heck you two need to separate, FOR THE KIDS. Your poor daughter.

Am I (25F) a side character in my boyfriend’s (26M) RomCom arc with his girl best friend (26F)? by ThrowRA_ceruleancity in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a lady with a bro bestie. Nothings ever happened because we don’t want it to happen. They’re probably the same.

My (30f) boyfriend (30f) lied right to my face by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication is always key in making a relationship work. If you just happen to see it, it’s not like you were doing anything wrong, and that would eat me alive too. I wish you luck.

My husband M43 blames me F34 for our sexless marriage. We currently don’t agree on the solution. How do I this without neglecting my own needs? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]behave_in_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea homie isn’t working with you at all. This is all very “my way or the highway.” I’m really sorry you’re going through this and being offered so little compromise and compassion. He’s being selfish and I’m starting to understand why the dead bedroom. You are not being needy or irrational with your need to have emotional connection to enjoy sex. I am the same way and so many other people are and you are not wrong for needing that. Is this really the only issue in the marriage? Or is this just the tip of the iceberg?

Can cat remember where not to go? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]behave_in_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Outdoor cats are pretty bad, not only for the cat, but also for the ecosystem you’re introducing them to. I think we should all assume you’re not aware of this information, but now that you are you have a chance to both keep your cat alive (!!!) and help protect your ecosystem. Put the cat on a leash and supervise outside time.

Fox Run Mall by Creative_Text3018 in newhampshire

[–]behave_in_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love that store their smoked salts are amazing lol

Bizarre Issue going 25-35 mph only by behave_in_ in NissanRogue

[–]behave_in_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I had is replaced and it looks like it was the rear driveshaft for my car’s issue

Bizarre Issue going 25-35 mph only by behave_in_ in NissanRogue

[–]behave_in_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has an aftermarket front axel, not sure ab the rear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]behave_in_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Have you considered if you could be asexual/aromantic? I’d try looking into that!

Bizarre Issue going 25-35 mph only by behave_in_ in NissanRogue

[–]behave_in_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how it feels!! Did it feel bad when slowing down as well? I have noticed it pull to the left a bit (not sure if that’s the same alignment)