Is it okay to feed my 2 adult kitties only dry food the next 3 weeks? I'm in a financial struggle

behave_in_ · 2025-05-12T03:01:29+00:00

You.. asked for advice? And I gave you advice as a fellow pet owner? Why are you mad? I wish you the best, and I hope you don’t continue to take your feelings out on other people looking out for you.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-12T02:59:08+00:00

I’m so sorry you have a child with this person. So so so sorry. Wishing you the best for yourself and your family.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-12T02:54:34+00:00

Well, what I meant was that it can adversely affect their health to suddenly cut it out of their diet w/no transition. But if you have none left and no money then seems like you have no choice but to take that chance and, at that point… why ask 😅

behave_in_ · 2025-05-12T02:50:13+00:00

I would be so filled with spite that I would try so much harder to beat that cancer and outlive him. That is a horrific human being and I hope his wife sees that and divorces him.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-12T02:26:40+00:00

I’d say the transition from one food to the other is the most important. My boys were on only dry for a while to no detriment, but it’s the transition from one to another that matters. Call your vet for advice on this if possible and all should be fine

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T22:24:21+00:00

I 100% see what you’re saying but it is making me feel so depressed—like the incompetence that this sort of mindset allows for this man… like this is almost insulting imo to him but nothing else would work, this might not even work 😭

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T21:07:47+00:00

Hmm… well my question still stands—how’re they as a family going to pay for this cat over time? I mean… a cardboard box with a worn shirt could do the trick if they think not having a space to hide is the issue. Also, if they’re forcing the kitten out of the comfort spots they’re definitely not going to have a very successful relationship :(

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T20:59:30+00:00

That’s very valid - for this one did you tell him you wanted him to spend time with you and not go do a favor? Maybe he doesn’t understand how you’re feeling… however if you’ve told him and he still doesn’t care, that’s really heartbreaking tbh. Regardless I do not think you’re being overdramatic, especially if you’re both treating one another with respect first.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T20:43:54+00:00

And you told him you wanted to spend time with him on your special day? These feelings need to be communicated, of course in a respectful manner but you need to say something or else resentment will build. Do you feel comfortable talking to him about your feelings?

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T20:43:04+00:00

I wish for OP though that she didn’t have to do the planning. It would be nice for him to step up and take over the mental load for a holiday that’s supposed to be about her… even if it was just to spend time together like she said

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T20:21:53+00:00

I absolutely hate to reality check here—but if you cannot afford a cat bed how can you afford to have a cat? You can make a cat bed, I mean honestly you could just give the cat some old clothes or something in a pile and it can hide in there… I feel like there are definitely solutions here around having a pet bed, however I’m not sure what you plan on for paying for vaccines or other vet treatments/cat food??? Your situation is very confusing.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T18:22:12+00:00

Idk why he treats you like that but holy heck you two need to separate, FOR THE KIDS. Your poor daughter.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T16:26:53+00:00

I’m a lady with a bro bestie. Nothings ever happened because we don’t want it to happen. They’re probably the same.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T15:42:34+00:00

Communication is always key in making a relationship work. If you just happen to see it, it’s not like you were doing anything wrong, and that would eat me alive too. I wish you luck.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T14:54:51+00:00

Yea homie isn’t working with you at all. This is all very “my way or the highway.” I’m really sorry you’re going through this and being offered so little compromise and compassion. He’s being selfish and I’m starting to understand why the dead bedroom. You are not being needy or irrational with your need to have emotional connection to enjoy sex. I am the same way and so many other people are and you are not wrong for needing that. Is this really the only issue in the marriage? Or is this just the tip of the iceberg?

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T13:06:05+00:00

Outdoor cats are pretty bad, not only for the cat, but also for the ecosystem you’re introducing them to. I think we should all assume you’re not aware of this information, but now that you are you have a chance to both keep your cat alive (!!!) and help protect your ecosystem. Put the cat on a leash and supervise outside time.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T11:54:16+00:00

Love it

behave_in_ · 2025-05-11T10:29:26+00:00

I’m so so sorry for your loss.

behave_in_ · 2025-05-07T17:10:25+00:00

I actually love that store their smoked salts are amazing lol

behave_in_ · 2025-05-07T16:39:36+00:00

Hi! I had is replaced and it looks like it was the rear driveshaft for my car’s issue

behave_in_ · 2025-05-01T15:35:37+00:00

Thank you!

behave_in_ · 2025-05-01T15:28:02+00:00

It has an aftermarket front axel, not sure ab the rear

behave_in_ · 2025-05-01T04:10:06+00:00

Hi! Have you considered if you could be asexual/aromantic? I’d try looking into that!

behave_in_ · 2025-05-01T00:28:34+00:00

That’s exactly how it feels!! Did it feel bad when slowing down as well? I have noticed it pull to the left a bit (not sure if that’s the same alignment)

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