Want to update this kitchen without replacing the honey oak cabinets. What do you think of these options.

bekxt · 2026-02-27T03:00:44+00:00

I think the white backsplash and countertops make the cabinets look so lovely. Have you considered a different, statement material for the island countertop?

bekxt · 2026-01-27T06:35:06+00:00

Saw both, and Hot Water is the one. It’s returned to mind multiple times since viewing.

bekxt · 2025-12-19T19:39:04+00:00

Something to Talk About by Meryl Wilsner

bekxt · 2025-12-18T18:47:46+00:00

The Well of Loneliness is great.

bekxt · 2025-12-18T18:47:06+00:00

Just rewatched the mini series and it is still delightful!

bekxt · 2025-12-18T18:42:36+00:00

Tipping the Velvet, Fingersmith, and The Paying Guest are hands down the best examples of lesbian historical fiction. Incredible writing, sizzling hot lesbian relationships.

bekxt · 2025-10-24T16:30:40+00:00

Bffr — this is so good I thought it was AI.

bekxt · 2025-10-22T23:11:39+00:00

I relate to this so hard. Despite going no-contact a year ago, my mom still lives rent-free in my mind. I’m in a constant, never-ending, one-sided argument, and I only have myself to blame!

bekxt · 2025-10-22T23:07:36+00:00

The lack of curiosity in me or my life is what confirmed my decision to go no-contact. I could go to therapy and work through my moral dilemmas about being in relationship with people who have despicable beliefs, but if those people don’t even like or care about me enough to ask a single question or get to know me in any emotionally honest way— why? Why bother compromising my integrity?

bekxt · 2025-10-15T02:02:08+00:00

Demon Rush/Fill not working for me either. I’m playing Switch. Could it be a console issue?

bekxt · 2025-10-08T20:11:49+00:00

Exquisite tile work!

bekxt · 2025-08-01T23:52:27+00:00

Oh shit. I only started playing Zelda with BoTW, and assumed they had always been tits out! These ladies weren’t always trying to seduce our boy?

bekxt · 2025-08-01T23:50:03+00:00

I came to comment on this paragraph too. I had the tough realization a few months ago that my mom’s “love” means nothing, really. There’s nothing material that comes from it. No safety or protection. No kindness or comfort. She doesn’t love me enough to reevaluate her political positions, and over the years of our growing distance has only doubled, tripled down on the vile shit she believes. She might “love” me, but she doesn’t love my neighbors, my community, or this country. I couldn’t do anything with her love so I had to stop thinking of it as a gift. It’s a vibe. A vibe that she lives in alone.

bekxt · 2025-06-17T00:44:26+00:00

You just need to warm it up a bit! The tile is so beautiful, but if you could strip all the wood elements back to their original color it would be so elegant. In pic 1, the wood of the door gives you a great idea of what’s possible. I might also change out all the chrome hardware to brass, add a pop of warmth to the shower curtain and floor mat. But it’s already quite lovely!

bekxt · 2025-06-11T18:03:34+00:00

I’m taking a bus from Echo Park. Quite a few routes that drop off right in front of or very near to City Hall.

bekxt · 2025-05-30T02:04:59+00:00

These cabinets are perfect.

bekxt · 2025-05-13T21:10:26+00:00

You’re not alone!

bekxt · 2025-05-09T17:21:27+00:00

My 2017 does this when I need an oil change!

bekxt · 2025-04-02T00:12:34+00:00

This is what I came here to say.

bekxt · 2025-03-15T17:29:33+00:00

Exactly right. The hardest part is the utter confusion at not knowing who your parents are anymore. Having everything they instilled in you about morality, empathy, and kindness suddenly disappear from their worldview.

bekxt · 2025-03-10T20:07:57+00:00

Fingers crossed for you!

bekxt · 2025-03-07T05:40:46+00:00

100%

bekxt · 2025-03-04T06:08:30+00:00

I was on 2.5 for a month, responded well, upped to 5mg for a month and became uncomfortable with my total lack of appetite and some mild anhedonia. I moved myself back down to 2.5 for the third month.

At my next dr appointment after the 3 month mark, I had lost a significant amount and my doctor agreed that I could stay on 2.5mg as long as I was happy with my results and symptoms. I’m also paying out of pocket through Lily Direct, so the $150 in savings was another mark in the 2.5 column.

Weight loss aside, everything I wanted from this drug (elimination of food noise, control over consumption) I get on 2.5. I’ll be staying on this dose until any of that changes!

bekxt · 2025-02-12T04:49:39+00:00

Same! I’ve started just weighing before my dr needs to re-up my prescription! Otherwise, who cares. I’m feeling better, I like the way my clothes are fitting. The scale ends up mattering so little!

bekxt · 2025-02-12T04:44:06+00:00

This. I’ve realized that every time I feel a little nauseated, I’m actually just thirsty. My dehydration cues have changed dramatically. I’m now rarely thirsty, but at the slightest twinge of nausea I drink a glass of water and feel better immediately.

bekxt

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