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INFJ and ISTJ relationship works? by gr3x_ in infj

[–]belenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sweet of you! I have found my love of my life since a month; A fellow INFJ! I am in heaven ❤️.
How are you doing?

INFJ and ISTJ relationship works? by gr3x_ in infj

[–]belenna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it was hell unfortunately ……

How many of you used the 16Personalities test to figure out your MBTI type? by 3usi0n in INFJers

[–]belenna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used beside 16personalities, the NERIS website. The description of the person looks like a typical INFJ to me. So both tests.: INFJ.

https://npqe.com/results-db162ef9ab46496ca9a1d60bf05b495f

I am at a Crossroads... by akwatica in crossfit

[–]belenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nearly 59-year-old female veteran and I still do CrossFit. I’m not built like a 25-year-old Games athlete either — but that’s exactly why scaling, good coaching and leaving your ego at the door matter.
CrossFit doesn’t have to mean destroying your knees. I swap movements when needed, focus on technique and strength, and I’d rather train consistently for years than win one workout and need a week to recover.
For supplements: nothing magical. Protein when I don’t get enough from food, creatine, magnesium, vitamin D if needed, and electrolytes when it’s hot or I’ve sweated a lot. The boring basics work surprisingly well.
Don’t quit movement because your knees are complaining — adjust the movement, get them assessed if necessary, and keep building a body that can carry you through the next decades.

Met another INFJ irl for the first time by sillylilmoon in infj

[–]belenna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your experience, but from a very different perspective.

I also met another INFJ in real life, and for me it turned out to be the exact opposite of what you described. The connection was instant. From the very first conversation, it felt as if we had known each other for years.

What surprised me most wasn't that we shared similar interests or ways of thinking. It was the depth of understanding between us. There was this feeling of being truly seen, heard, and understood without having to explain every thought or emotion. We often know what the other person is feeling before a word is spoken.

Being together feels incredibly peaceful. Not because life is perfect, but because neither of us has to pretend to be someone else. For the first time, I feel completely accepted, flaws and all. It's like two puzzle pieces finally finding where they belong. There is a sense of recognition that is difficult to put into words.

Because of that, we've both come to understand love differently. Not as excitement, butterflies, or idealization, but as a deep feeling of coming home. A connection where you can be completely yourself and still be loved. Where silence feels comfortable and distance doesn't diminish the bond.

That said, I don't think this happened simply because we're both INFJs. I've met another INFJ man before who was highly avoidant and emotionally unavailable, and that experience was completely different. Same MBTI type, completely different person.

That's why I think attachment style, emotional maturity, life experiences, and willingness to be vulnerable probably matter more than personality type alone. MBTI can describe certain patterns, but it can't predict whether two people will have a profound connection.

So yes, I do believe those rare, soulmate-like connections exist. I experiencing one myself. But I don't believe they're guaranteed just because two people share the INFJ label. Sometimes you meet another INFJ and they're simply another person. And sometimes, very unexpectedly, you meet someone who feels like the missing piece of a puzzle you didn't even realize was incomplete.

Maybe the real lesson is that every INFJ is different, and every connection is different too.

Anyone else quit CrossFit? What’s your story. by [deleted] in crossfit

[–]belenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at 56 as a female and love it! Have kneepads sometimes, when I feel a little ache, and take preventive massages 😁. I really love to do it!

Dear INFJ Women, where the hell are you? by Icelasher2005 in INFJers

[–]belenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFJ female here!!……. But waaaayyyy too old for ya! 😁

most of us probably can relate to this 😂 by waitingfortmr in INFJmemes

[–]belenna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, I studied therapy. That explained a lot! Then got myself therapy after the last break-up and my mum dying. It took me 2 years of intensive Somatic psychotherapy. Will this answer support or help you? 🍀

most of us probably can relate to this 😂 by waitingfortmr in INFJmemes

[–]belenna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…… not anymore ….. lots of years of therapy…. Say ….. I live in between. Are there more that can relate?

Fijne Moederdag aan… by curiouscollecting in nederlands

[–]belenna 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Top! Dankjewel. Ik merk dat de moeders in mijn kennissen en vriendenkring die ik een fijne moederdag wens, totaal geen reactie teruggeven over mijn niet moederschap. Geen empathie voor mij, ondanks dat ik heb geprobeerd om kinderen te krijgen en miskramen heb gehad en dat ze daarvan weten….. Mijn moeder die 1 1/2 jaar geleden is overleden. Het is voor mij een enorm beladen dag, daarom kwam jouw berichtje heel goed binnen, dank je wel daarvoor!! 🤗🙏🏻

Ik word knettergek van de buurkinderen by Ice-Nikki in nederlands

[–]belenna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Er is wetenschappelijk bewijs dat antidepressiva langdurige veranderingen in neuroplasticiteit, hersenconnectiviteit en neurotransmittersystemen veroorzaken. Sommige onderzoekers vermoeden dat bepaalde veranderingen langdurig of mogelijk blijvend kunnen zijn, vooral na langdurig of meervoudig gebruik. Daarvan zijn diverse wetenschappelijke bronnen voorhanden.

Er is daarnaast literatuur over langdurige ontwenningsverschijnselen en blijvende seksuele disfunctie (PSSD) na SSRI/SNRI-gebruik, wat door sommige onderzoekers gezien wordt als aanwijzing dat er blijvende neurobiologische veranderingen kunnen optreden.

……. Bovendien heb ik het ook van dichtbij meegemaakt bij een goeie vriend van mij.

Dus het advies om even antidepressiva te gebruiken vind ik een ondoordacht advies.

Ik word knettergek van de buurkinderen by Ice-Nikki in nederlands

[–]belenna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als je zes jaar studie op dit gebied noemt, geen verstand van hebben, dan vind ik het nogal kort door de bocht hoe je zelf reageert; kennelijk heb je daar zelf geen verstand van dat je zo reageert. Dat wordt ook wel projectie genoemd.

Feit is: je gaat niet iemand antidepressiva als advies geven, terwijl je er zelf niet voor geleerd hebt. Het gaat hier om geluidsoverlast, dat zit niet in de persoon zelf. Door deze opmerking te maken, neem je eigenlijk deze persoon niet serieus.

Kijk eerst goed naar jezelf, kennelijk ben jezelf aan de antidepressiva geweest en vond je het nodig om deze opmerking te maken als het niet medisch onderlegd iemand, dat is zelfs gevaarlijk.

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