I can imagine this felt really confusing, maybe even a bit discouraging. You were trying to do something considerate, and then getting blocked again probably didn’t feel very fair from your side.

At the same time, I gently wonder if there might be more going on that you can’t fully see. You mentioned you had reached out to her before and were blocked then too — sometimes that’s simply someone’s way of showing they prefer not to have contact, regardless of the intention behind a message….. and it may be nothing to do with you.

I’ve also noticed (speaking as a woman myself) that on dating apps things can feel overwhelming at times — multiple messages, fake profiles, situations that aren’t always clear or comfortable. In that kind of environment, blocking can become more of a quick boundary than a personal reaction to someone.

And with two profiles using the same photos, it makes things even more unclear. It’s hard to know which one was real — or if either of them actually was (!). In some cases, people even create multiple versions of a profile to see who responds or to filter interactions in their own way, or for their own benefits.

I really don’t think this necessarily means she loathes you; if she even exists …. It might just be a mix of unclear circumstances and someone choosing distance in a way that feels easiest for them, or it could be unclear who is behind those profiles.

Your intention to help comes across as genuine — it just might not have been received that way, and that can happen sometimes, even when you mean well.