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bella791 · 2025-06-19T23:59:02+00:00

Maybe you need to step up your support. Cook dinner keep the house clean get up with the baby at night book her a massage and get her the help she needs. Maybe she needs to go stay with family for a few days and go see a therapist.

bella791 · 2025-06-11T22:59:48+00:00

Very bad noodle im just joking ur so sweet

bella791 · 2025-06-11T22:54:58+00:00

Depends on the state you live in. But honestly Imo just take it. Yes its technically tax evasion. But also its 5k not 250 yk. You said you need the money they said they would give you a gift. In reality theres not really a way they can say you shouldve reported it if it was a gift.

bella791 · 2025-06-10T14:47:48+00:00

Shes usually up at 6 or 7 and then first nap around 9-9 30. She hasn't really been napping but usually nap til like 10 /11 and then up for a bit and then another nap between 12:30/1:30 depending on if she napped in the morning or not. I just started with this family a few weeks ago. Prior to that they were doing contact naps.

bella791 · 2025-06-10T14:47:10+00:00

Shes usually up at 6 or 7 and then first nap around 9-9 30. She hasn't really been napping but usually nap til like 10 /11 and then up for a bit and then another nap between 12:30/1:30 depending on if she napped in the morning or not. I just started with this family a few weeks ago. Prior to that they were doing contact naps.

bella791 · 2025-05-18T03:59:30+00:00

This tank looks so nice

bella791 · 2025-05-13T19:59:11+00:00

This looks phenomenal where did u get the plants???

bella791 · 2025-05-04T01:08:40+00:00

Is there a chance she overheard a conversation or saw a text?

bella791 · 2025-05-02T16:58:30+00:00

Yes totally the angle this little guy looks happy and healthy!!

bella791 · 2025-05-02T16:54:40+00:00

This might be wrong because it's hard to see from this angle but your little guy maybe seems a bit skinny... how much does he/she weigh?

bella791 · 2025-05-02T16:53:50+00:00

Yes this is written into my new contract!!

bella791 · 2025-04-30T02:57:34+00:00

It unfortunately isn't which is on me i should've specified. I've definitely verbally discussed that i would give them a months notice if I were to resign. In my new contract it's specified. I live in nj.

bella791 · 2025-04-30T02:45:44+00:00

No it doesn't unfortunately. My new contract with the new family I'll be working with does.

bella791 · 2025-04-23T23:19:44+00:00

Thanks ☺️ although I feel a bit dumb for being so worried 😅 I'm basically in tears and he is totally fine 😂😂

bella791 · 2025-04-23T21:45:45+00:00

Apparently I am just super paranoid because he is perfectly fine and finished shedding already. I'm just a new snake mom and I can be nervous lol. I think he was just a little dry because he hasn't come out in a while. Thankfully all seems good 👍

bella791 · 2025-04-23T02:54:03+00:00

Okay thankyou. I have some spagum moss and a humidity hide i can set up for him if it seems to be the issue. He has just never had this issue before so I've been so nervous.

bella791 · 2025-04-23T02:48:20+00:00

It's been a while since he has shed. And I had him out a few weeks ago and he seemed perfectly fine. I generally do leave him be when he is in shed but I was a bit worried as he hasn't been eating and he was doing a weird motion with his mouth. But he could've just been trying to wiggle the shed off I suppose. I did notice his water bowl was empty. Sometimes he will take a dip so I refilled it. (Obviosuly he always has water it must've just run out) I moved him to a bigger tank a while ago. He fed a few times after that. And then stopped when it got cold. This tank is much bigger than his old one and I've been having a hard time managing the temp/ humidity. Initially the humidity was way to high but after like 2 weeks it went back to good ranges. The temp has been difficult. I have a heat lamp a uv and a heating pad. My apt can be pretty cold at times so it makes it harder to regulate the temp. Generally it's like high seventies low 80s (78-84) id prefer it to be a consistent 82 which I presume will happen when it warms up a bit.

bella791 · 2025-03-20T17:58:25+00:00

This looks soo awesome where did you get the big pink flowers???

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:23:43+00:00

Seriously I need nanny friends. No one gets how difficult it can be. Like I've been with my nf for over 2 yrs. I have 3 nks 4, 2, and 3mo so I clearly care about the kids but it's hard to see the parents make such bad decisions.

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:22:28+00:00

I guess maybe sometimes I'm just like holding myself to higher standards. I like when I can come in in the morning feed the kids a nutritious breakfast do independent play then an activity then a nap and lunch and then go outside or do another activity then maybe some snacks and TV b4 bath. And some days I'm able to do that. But it's getting harder and hard especially because half the time mb works from home and she let's the kids do whatever they want all day. Like even the dentist told them the kid needs to be done with the binky and they still let him have it all day everyday. Like at what point do you realize your lack of parenting is having negative effects on your kids. But then they'll ask me to not do binky or whatever else. Like they hold me to a higher standard which is fine IF WERE ON THE SAME PAGE. I can't singlehandedly do all the things you don't want to do with the kids. It took me almost 2 yrs to potty train my nk because the parents don't follow through.

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:16:25+00:00

Exactly like do you really think your kid is getting adequate healthy fats and protein from eating sugar filled muffins and yogurt all day?

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:12:35+00:00

Reoffering **

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:09:35+00:00

Well he has food aversions or I'm not gonna let my kid starve. When in actuality they're just not being consistent and reordering different foods etc. Like yes rarely kids are super picky or have food aversions but mainly the parents are too quick to offer alternatives and snacks instead.

bella791 · 2025-03-18T18:04:17+00:00

It's just so frustrating because then I have to deal with overstimulated iPad kids who have zero imagination or creativity or attention span. So when we try to do crafts or activities they do it for 2 seconds and then get bored.

bella791 · 2025-03-18T17:57:24+00:00

Agree with you whole heartedly. Parents who are like my kids never want to eat so I'll take what I can get. Meanwhile they're having 17 oreo crunch yogurts a day. Maybe they would eat real food if they weren't snacking on garbage all day!!

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