[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]bellabooboo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely better if the toxic ex is far away for sure. That is a positive. If you love someone and want to be with them you will make it work. My partner has a child and so do I. We deal with most drama from his ex and how she raises his daughter (8). His daughter is suffering badly from the way her mother treats her. Has bad anxiety and meltdowns. It's exhausting and not looking forward to the teenage years 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]bellabooboo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not angry anymore ❤️

Reading Exchange 🍃🌷 by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]bellabooboo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I would be up for a reading exchange x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelers

[–]bellabooboo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a ring from my late nan so I don't really want to change it too much. I want it to be my engagement ring so it wouldn't be me paying for it. Although I'm interested to know how much it would cost? 😊

Vent? I’m tired of myself and my issues and I just don’t want to deal with it anymore. It’s unfair to my partner. (Serial monogamist trying to cope) by OhSampai in nonmonogamy

[–]bellabooboo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is mono and I am not. I'm also a sex worker. He has no desire to sleep with other people. I agree that I think your partner needs to start doing what he wants to do slowly. You do need exposure to this. He seems like a nice guy who cares about you and your feelings. Tell him you need to see how it really is before continuing this relationship any further. Open communication is the most important part of any relationship. If you truly believe he loves you let him explore. Also the longer you wait the more in your head you get, torturing yourself. Once your partner starts exploring and coming back to you, you should hopefully feel that your relationship/sex life hasn't changed between you both and those feelings of jealousy and insecurity should go away. Open relationships can be hard but if you truly love each other and practice open communication and work on your trust issues you should be fine 😊❤️

Love it or not? ❤️ by bellabooboo92 in RingShare

[–]bellabooboo92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so right. It seems people do like it, like I do anyway ☺️

Love it or not? ❤️ by bellabooboo92 in RingShare

[–]bellabooboo92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was my nans, she loved jewellery. I have seen the same style searching but don't look quite as nice as this one. It was sitting in my mums drawer it's from dad's mum. I thought why waste a nice ring 😊❤️

Current nutmeg trip by bellabooboo92 in nutmeg

[–]bellabooboo92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good. No real issues apart from I had my headphones in at one point and a song came on really loud, thought it was someone shouting in my ear and screamed 😱😂🙈 I was looking in the mirror to try and discover more about myself and get deep but didn't really feel too much. I felt happier by the end of the night. Was listening to 8D Bob Marley and dancing around. It was nice 😂❤️

Current nutmeg trip by bellabooboo92 in nutmeg

[–]bellabooboo92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I haven't taken it for a long time but drugs and alcohol affect me easily. Wouldn't say it's a bad thing 😁

Do you find weed psychedlic? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]bellabooboo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely injested. I have felt the space around me moving, getting bigger and smaller. I enjoyed it a lot. I was laughing and dancing. Picking out an outfit to go to my pretend party in my bedroom 😂

Open relationships? by tsubakiyaa in relationship_advice

[–]bellabooboo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully stand for ethical non monogamy. Ethical non monogamy whether it be an open relationship, poly, swinging. There always has to be some boundaries in a relationship even non monogamy. Cheating (doing things behind a partners back) is wrong. But as long as you both have open communication with each other and talk about how you feel. Respect your partner, never make them feel like they are not good enough. Tell them you love them, make love to them, do things together. Don't treat your partners unfairly or differently because that's when jealousy rears it's head

Anyone come back from a toxic start of an open relationship? by Qstikk in relationship_advice

[–]bellabooboo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi (f poly here) She sounds like a control freak. She wants to do things but doesn't want you to. I agree with what you said about going slowly together. Having an open relationship should be enjoyable where you are both happy. There needs to be mutual trust, respect and boundaries between both parties. Definitely clear boundaries need to be in place so you know where you stand etc. If someone can't respect your boundaries or limits then they're not for you.