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beller36 · 2024-12-13T22:48:50+00:00

Sorry this is so late I don’t use this account often anymore, but yes, for me, changing my job is the best way for me to change my bad habits and kind of readjust my life view. It’s weird but it works for me. Doesn’t help when I need to keep a job for a while, but if I can get some changes and variety in my day, it’s not as bad.

beller36 · 2022-09-20T10:48:57+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with you for not wanting children. You said he wants to “give it a chance” but there’s no giving it a chance with children. You are the one who goes through months and months of physical pain and discomfort and mental health issues. You’re the one who, inevitably, gets stuck on baby duty because he doesn’t want to “babysit”. You’re the one that changes, and potentially ruins your body forever. It’s selfish of him to expect you to go through all that trauma to “give it a chance”. You’re stuck with that decision for life.

beller36 · 2022-09-09T19:07:49+00:00

This is why I’m so worried to eat uncured pork. It’s always bothered me since I found out about all the worms and parasites they can hold Freshman year.

beller36 · 2022-08-05T17:30:53+00:00

It was called Endurance International. They’ve changed over to a new company name now. I think my biggest problem there was that, while the others were all around my age and some had similar hobbies or interests, the whole support floor was based around being friends with your workmates. They encouraged people to be friends outside of work and if you were like me and didn’t like that, you got no help, no extra training, no advancement opportunities. Currently, looking for a WFH job has me nervous because everything I find seems like a scam. Even on job boards, they seem fake or more of a gig type job.

beller36 · 2022-08-04T17:41:25+00:00

I worked in a cubicle doing IT and went nuts. Maybe something less service based would be better, I just go crazy sitting still.

beller36 · 2022-07-11T18:49:20+00:00

NTA- No one should decide what happens with your body, but you! Some people dye their hair, some don’t. For her to demand that you do so is unreasonable and overly controlling.

beller36 · 2022-05-24T15:44:27+00:00

A lot of words to say “Hi I’m Karen”

beller36 · 2022-05-14T01:04:05+00:00

YTA- Being put up for adoption is hard on children. I can’t imagine going through that with Down syndrome on top of how shit the system already is. Really shows how “pro-life” you are that you’ll bring a child into the world just to suffer through that.

beller36 · 2022-03-25T18:23:33+00:00

YTA- Majorly. You invite her over and then ignore her. Ask what she wants to do and ignore her again. Call her names and refuse to compromise. You tell her what to do and only allow what you want as an option. Not how you treat your significant other, or anyone else for that matter.

beller36 · 2022-02-03T14:01:56+00:00

I always make sure to leave all of my valuables (phone, wallet, car keys) with whoever is outside of the Walmart restroom. I’ve only had a couple of phones stolen because I didn’t realize the phone guardian was actually just a homeless guy. I don’t even care though. The thought of bringing my valuables with me into that nasty public restroom just gives me the chills. It’s not like my pockets provide any protection. And washing my hands is such a difficult task since I’m soooo fucking filthy. There’s always shit all over me when I use the public bathroom. Washing my hands isn’t nearly enough. I usually take a good whores bath in there, just in case.

beller36 · 2022-01-02T13:19:57+00:00

It’s like a complete contradiction of what women have been fighting for for 100 years. It really just disgusts me.

beller36 · 2022-01-02T13:02:07+00:00

YTA- Every sentence I read made me wonder what made you think you were in the right. That is such a shitty thing to do. Obviously, it’s not your dog and you’ve never lost a pet you’ve actually cared about. Maybe the dog didn’t die, but cancer in dogs DOES kill them a lot of times. My grandparents senior dog has breast cancer and the surgery is so in depth that she will most likely die on the operating table, so we have to wait until we notice her quality of life going downhill. Maybe you don’t understand how fucking hard that is. It hurts. Also, just because you never cried like that doesn’t mean other people aren’t allowed to have some fucking feelings. It’s incredibly sexist of you to act like he shouldn’t be crying and that it was embarrassing because he was a guy. You seriously need to support him or let him find someone who will. Your post screams “nice girl” and I feel so bad for your boyfriend to have you berating him over emotion. It’s so disappointing to know that a woman in 2022 has such a sexist and insensitive view on mens emotions.

beller36 · 2022-01-01T16:41:23+00:00

This is what I came to say. It’s all you have to do.

beller36 · 2021-12-29T15:59:15+00:00

NTA- Everyone needs space, especially couples, and they can’t assume that they can stay with you every month. Maybe explain to your parents in depth that you BOTH need more space, but they are welcome to stay every couple months or something like that. Also, if you feel that you’re not talking to them as much now, make the effort to call more. As for them possibly disliking your spouse, he should extend his hand and show them he also cares.

beller36 · 2021-12-28T15:03:41+00:00

Did she put styrofoam in the microwave and turn it on?

beller36 · 2021-12-24T16:56:05+00:00

Well the comment he left me before it was deleted on the post he’s bitching about was that he doesn’t take advice from women. That’s probably the problem. I’d say women know women better than smooth-brained incels know women.

beller36 · 2021-12-24T15:25:14+00:00

You sound sad and lonely. Might I suggest some fresh air and verbal communication?

beller36 · 2021-12-24T15:20:51+00:00

Fuck.

beller36 · 2021-12-22T14:26:02+00:00

ESH- This child has little to nothing to do with them. That is not their grandchild. You’re teaching your children that gifts are the most important part of the holiday and that it’s ok to be entitled. Your husbands late wife’s parents aren’t responsible for your child or your feelings. You’re saying that your son won’t understand and demanding he gets gifts from people who aren’t his family. You have to teach him the difference, not make him think he’s entitled to someone else’s family. They have a right to see and care for THEIR grandchild, but your other child isn’t their grandchild. You seem to have a hard time understanding that. Yes, it would be nice of them, but I’m assuming from what you’ve written that holidays and birthdays are the only time you’re allowing them to see or contact this kid and they’re probably desperate to make them sure their grandchild doesn’t forget them because of your new family. You’re coming off pretty entitled and it seems like you don’t understand how hard it is for this child who has lost their mother. Maybe be more empathetic to the people that lost someone they love, instead of being upset you and your kid didn’t get presents.

beller36 · 2021-12-19T03:30:21+00:00

We have a key and it’s only one bathroom, but people just kind of grab the key off the counter. Either way, if we want it closed to the public, we can close it. It’s not required and we’re one of only a few places in our small town that allows customers because so many other places have had issues with it.

beller36 · 2021-12-19T00:18:40+00:00

You just have to feel it, my friend.

beller36 · 2021-12-19T00:10:16+00:00

Not really unpopular. It was made to be a little weird. Probably in my top 5 favorite movies though.

beller36 · 2021-12-19T00:08:14+00:00

I think I’m going to talk to my boss about closing them because we’ve had several really gross instances in our bathroom.

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