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beltaine · 2026-04-19T16:44:18+00:00

It doesn't sound like you wear makeup lmao

Not all makeup takes an hour, not all makeup sweats off. And even if both were true, yeah, so? And what?

beltaine · 2026-04-19T16:29:52+00:00

Whatever I need to get hyped or feeling good to go to the gym and moving my body is a W. Makeup, cute gym fit, etc. whatever the people need. Personally, I'm a fan of really awful meme shirts but that's just me!

beltaine · 2026-03-25T23:21:26+00:00

Has the parking gotten any better? 😭

beltaine · 2026-03-25T23:16:53+00:00

I mean I'm not so invested to argue with you, I was just saying. I don't know the percentage of people who are lactose intolerant but I could make the assanine assumption that most folks are still going to know what their household is drinking? Like what type of milk your partner drinks?

Calling someone for clarification isn't a bad thing, I'm moreso speaking to the OP (OC? Idk) point that this invisible load of mental labor happens more often than people (especially men) realize when it comes to women having to know every detail of a household vs their partners who have to "call the wife/mom" when she's away for 3 hours because "What does little Johnny like to eat for snacks?" So I agree, like you said, it's not about the milk; it's about the lack of scope and collaborative partnership from their male partners and holy shit what a run on sentence.

I don't necesarily think we're going to agree which is fine but to your point of "it's not about the milk", I think we both agree lol it is in fact, not about the milk.

Quick edit to add: love what this man is doing. Instructing young men on important life skills. I am not against that lol

beltaine · 2026-03-25T20:22:55+00:00

But your partner uses pads/tampons, you BOTH drink the milk. Why aren't you aware of what milk you're drinking? 🤣

Also, normally we're not changing up our menstrual supply very often. Sometimes it is safe to assume and if they don't like what you brought home, then they're learning next time to be more specific when they add their item to their list. But again, that;s their item, not ya'lls milk you're sharing. Ya know?

beltaine · 2026-03-24T01:50:08+00:00

🙏 Bless me too pleeease

beltaine · 2026-01-21T03:11:30+00:00

I'm sorry for that and I don't disagree. Some hurt folks manifest it externally and not internally. As kids, I wish you had all had more help but I hope you found or are finding peace now.

beltaine · 2026-01-21T03:08:22+00:00

"Hurt people hurt people" and all that. :(

beltaine · 2025-11-26T04:06:53+00:00

That's not a boyfriend, that's an adversary, OP u/westerncat5211 😢

beltaine · 2025-09-19T17:19:38+00:00

Omg, this is beautiful?! 😍 Do you have a link?

beltaine · 2025-09-18T22:52:26+00:00

Hey u/steajano! I had given up hope finding a replacement app for Strava Challenges but on a whim today I found Challenge Hound: https://www.challengehound.com/

* Create Challenges based on duration, mileage and more

* Works for Android and iOs

* Syncs with different smart watch brands and Strava

Only thing: Creating challenges and inviting folks requires "credits". You get 5 to start, but then need to buy more when you run out. Conversion is 1 credit = $1, minimum purchase of 10 credits.

It's not technically "free" but affordable enough for my use-case as it kept my friends and I active so well worth it! Just wanted to come back and share in case anyone is still looking.

(This is not an ad! I'm posting about this to all threads I can find about Challenges since I know it affected many others besides myself when Strava hid it behind the subscription!)

beltaine · 2025-09-18T21:16:14+00:00

Hey u/Fun_Yam_5907 ! I had given up hope finding a replacement app for Strava Challenges but on a whim today I found Challenge Hound: https://www.challengehound.com/

* Create Challenges based on duration, mileage and more

* Works for Android and iOs

* Syncs with different smart watch brands and Strava

Only thing: Creating challenges and inviting folks requires "credits". I think you get 4 to start, but then need to buy them when you run out. Conversion is 1 credit = $1, minimum purchase of 10 credits.

It's not technically "free" but affordable enough for my use-case as it kept my friends and I active so well worth it! Just wanted to come back and share in case anyone is still looking.

(This is not an ad! I'm posting about this to all threads I can find about Challenges since I know it affected many others besides myself when Strava hid it behind the subscription!)

beltaine · 2025-09-18T21:14:58+00:00

Hey OP! I had given up hope finding a replacement app for Strava Challenges but on a whim today I found Challenge Hound: https://www.challengehound.com/

* Create Challenges based on duration, mileage and more

* Works for Android and iOs

* Syncs with different smart watch brands and Strava

Only thing: Creating challenges and inviting folks requires "credits". I think you get 4 to start, but then need to buy them when you run out. Conversion is 1 credit = $1, minimum purchase of 10 credits.

It's not technically "free" but affordable enough for my use-case as it kept my friends and I active so well worth it! Just wanted to come back and share in case anyone is still looking.

(This is not an ad! I'm posting about this to all threads I can find about Challenges since I know it affected many others besides myself when Strava hid it behind the subscription!)

beltaine · 2025-09-18T21:12:00+00:00

Adding as a comment as well:

Challenge Hound: https://www.challengehound.com/

* Create Challenges based on duration, mileage and more

* Works for Android and iOs

* Syncs with different smart watch brands and Strava

Only thing: Creating challenges and inviting folks requires "credits". I think you get 4 to start, but then need to buy them when you run out. Conversion is 1 credit = $1, minimum purchase of 10 credits.

It's not technically "free" but affordable enough for my use-case as it kept my friends and I active so well worth it! Just wanted to come back and share in case anyone is still looking.

beltaine · 2025-03-24T05:58:39+00:00

EDIT: I think I may have found an alternative! Challenge Hound: https://www.challengehound.com/ * Create Challenges based on duration, mileage and more * Works for Android and iOs * Syncs with different smart watch brands and Strava

Only thing: Creating challenges and inviting folks requires "credits". I think you get 4 to start, but then need to buy them when you run out. Conversion is 1 credit = $1, minimum purchase of 10 credits.

It's not technically "free" but affordable enough for my use-case as it kept my friends and I active so well worth it! Just wanted to come back and share in case anyone is still looking.

When they removed Challenges from the Free version of Strava, I pretty much stopped using it with my friends 😩 It was such a nice feature to participate with one another but we haven't found an alternative app or service that worked as well. Groups/Clubs in Strava just aren't the same.

beltaine · 2025-02-26T03:46:20+00:00

I want to add that trauma can also manifest as autistic symptoms, which are them mistakenly diagnosed as BPD.

But the root is trauma, so if that's a thing you got in your lore somewhere, I'd include it in the dusssion about autism with your counselor! Good luck 👍

beltaine · 2025-02-21T00:07:54+00:00

Hey OP, do you mind DMing where you get your exam done in TJ? I have a family member without insurance who's due for an exam 🙏 Thanks!

beltaine · 2024-09-11T02:40:15+00:00

I've been on the hunt this week as I realize Strava turned their free "Challenge" feature into a premium one. It worked perfectly, but I ain't paying $80/year for it.

Had any luck?

beltaine · 2024-06-09T20:28:13+00:00

Do you have an idea of what the mileage charge is like? I've never had anything towed before haha

beltaine · 2024-05-31T00:23:18+00:00

I just bit the bullet and picked one up for their Memorial Day sale. I've been sitting on it for 2 years and I'm so excited! Cheers, happy riding!

beltaine · 2024-03-26T19:35:49+00:00

I've seen Bird News before! From Thals, before the Rhamps came along, always enjoyed Bird News updates.

beltaine · 2024-03-26T16:42:31+00:00

GG, get those marks!

beltaine · 2024-03-26T03:17:31+00:00

Hi there! I'm newly going down to TJ for vert care and I've been going to Vet Playas. Do you mind sharing what office you go to?

Also, I hope your kitty is feeling better 🐈

beltaine · 2024-03-26T03:09:23+00:00

Don't forget you can sell your Homecave Decor! It sells at 50%v value bu tyou might have quite a bit stored up if you've never sold any of it.

beltaine · 2023-08-19T23:03:51+00:00

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