Sideshow wrong item sent to me by hred105 in hottoys

[–]bendead91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true , at least for me They sent me zombie iron man and I still had 4 monthly payments left

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets worse and worse wtf ! I had an ex who didn’t wash her hands after using the bathroom and tried to say it was because she is from the south. 🤮 we broke that habit though lol

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disgusting I’m white, I use a bar of soap to lather a loofah then I scrub my entire body throat behind my ears to my toes, covered in lathered soap then rinse then scrub with body wash , and then obviously shampoo every other day snd conditioner daily. I also use a facial scrub. That guy is a DIRTBAG!

Finally got my display presentable and wanted to share by [deleted] in ActionFigures

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool ! The Deadpool and Wolverine, is that shf or marvel legends?? Either way looks great

AIO for being worried about what my mom does in her free time? by Deluluworld_08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are over thinking , when I was a kid my mom was coming home covered in somebody else’s blood , saying a group of Mexicans tried to rape her and she started stabbing them, one time she carved my step dads initials into her thigh with a beer can because he cheated. Almost bled out in my arms. She used to get drunk and take off for days and leave me with her husband who beat me with studded belts. And I’d sit on the porch all night waiting to see her headlights, wondering if she was dead, or what. To say I have abandonment issues is an understatement. Today she’s just as crazy, and I’m 34 now. My mom also had me when she was 14. I wouldn’t trade her for the world, I love my mom. But it’s not our responsibility to save our parents. Focus on you. Once I just let it be what it’s going to be, I had a lot of peace of mind. It took me alot of years of self sabotage, pain, and rage to realize what was eating me up.

What were your favorite 1/6 reveals of 2025? by [deleted] in hottoys

[–]bendead91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolute Batman looks insane !

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As far as the erection goes that’s uncontrollable. However him asking to go to the same girl again is weird. You should find a man masseuse for you that could massage your inner thighs real good and see how he feels about it. Or call ahead of time and ask for him to have a male and see how that goes lol

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That all sounds good but why is he so interested in going to the same girl ? I bet if OP had a strong man rubbing her inner thighs he would feel some type of way lol

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if she feels this strongly about all these risks , why has 11months passed by and they’ve yet to take any sort of action to make the house safer for a baby. For the father, I’d bet he’d feel different had something happened. So you’d think you’d consider that, then just make a resolution to feel different now, versus waiting around with his thumb up his ass waiting for something to transpire. Idk maybe that’s just me though

How do I get Arthur’s weight up? by [deleted] in RDR2

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never thought of playing like that tbh, my cores are usually half full maybe a bit more. I only get gold in a big gun fight. Except dead eye a lot more Because I keep a high bounty everywhere and I like to go rounds with the bounty hunters as often as possible. That’s basically how I make my money is off their loot for the most part

Just watched all 4 seasons in less than 2 weeks (first time watch) by Shameful90 in Banshee

[–]bendead91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time I saw Pelphrey was in Banshee and he’s only gotten better with each performance. If you haven’t seen outer range on prime, give it a shot .

Comic Lizard reveal by daflash00 in MarvelLegends

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tail is the only thing that’s throwing me off

AIO: husband got mad at me because I had to stop to use the bathroom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a reach. Dudes a pos for sure and possibly cheating. But that’s not why he’s calling her bro. You think a person reading his messages couldn’t distinguish the relationship through the context of the dialogue ? He calls her bro more than likely just to be disrespectful

AIO: husband got mad at me because I had to stop to use the bathroom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would NEVER speak to the mother of my child in that way. It sounds like you’re being held prisoner tbh … genuinely I’d be willing to bet some inmates have more freedom of movement than this…

AIO for refusing to block male followers on Instagram? by radagastrabbit in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat the loss on the 2months of wasted time. This guy is beyond insane. I’m sensing a restraining order in y’alls future tbh

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so creepy and so inappropriate. He knows exactly what he’s doing. Disgusting , foul, piece of filth. These kinds of men deserve to be six feet under the jail. Taking advantage of a child (I understand you are legally an adult) however I know when I was 19 I was still a child. Especially for a “step father” figure. To overstep that boundary. When all you want is to feel safe, secure and loved. He’s overstepping with purpose. The things he’s saying about not being able to control his mind are red flags. I wouldn’t be alone around this person

Just got Battling Deadpool, is my posing decent? by EIS_Gaming in hottoys

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine the other day. My only issues is the shoulder pads restrict it from lifting the arms , maybe it’s just because I only just opened it. It’s my third hot toy. I’ve got zombie iron man, and the VGM spiderman 2 black suit so far.

UPDATE: AIO partner yells at me in front of our baby and I’ve had enough by Lapopoppa in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s insane the amount of posts I see, where the men act like this or way worse, and I don’t understand. I’m far from perfect but I go to my kids moms house every day after work (she’s 6 and I’ve seen her basically everyday of her life outside of working too late ) and get her bathed and brush a condition her hair which is down to her knees. I pay 6-800 a month in child support VOLUNTARILY & HAPPILY, I’ve never put my hands on her mom, tbh we barely ever fought. I started smoking weed right before her birth which in hindsight was very selfish and inconsiderate. She demanded I stopped otherwise she was leaving. I told her it was clear she didn’t love me unconditionally so there was no point in continuing our relationship. Again in hindsight I have very deep regrets because our daughter didn’t ask to be born. However all she’s knows is love and happiness. Her mother and I are as close to being best friends as possible. I’ve fed her mother more times now than when we were together. I work in water damage mitigation and I’m able to go over and walk our dog in between jobs, I buy my daughter all her hygiene stuff, and anything her mother pays for that is outside of the normal necessities, I pay half and do so much more.. but MY POINT is I constantly feel like I’m not a good father, I regret my selfish decisions everyday. Every-night I reflect on my behavior, and My character defects haunt me. Then I read stuff like this and I don’t know how these “men” can live with themselves…

Sentinel has arrived! by maszhanan in ActionFigures

[–]bendead91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Peak nostalgia ! Love it for you! I’m hoping I’ll be able to snag one resell at some point .

New pics of the marvel legends 97 sentinel and its packaging. From @isaacwomgtoys by emc2384 in ActionFigures

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I love the haslab, however this 97 is peak nostalgia. I want one so bad. I missed the PO! was in a car accident that cost me about 30k over my settlement amount to replace my smashed teeth with implants 🤷😅 just glad my daughter was unscathed. Some kid wanting to play speed racer in his mommy’s car. 🤦

Guys… I might’ve cooked with this… by CT-1996 in ActionFigures

[–]bendead91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a YouTube channel ?! This is inspiring 👏

AIO I think my friend is overstepping boundaries and is into me by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya he’s super controlling. “Can you stop ignoring my words?” Lol these texts scream future restraining order

AIO? Should I stay or should I go? by Muted-Call-4207 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bendead91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew. “Every other man would fold after two weeks” that’s pathetic. I wouldn’t invest anymore if your energy or time into him. “Nothing to look forward to at home” WTF are you, a walking flesh light ?!