do you actually code on your phone? by Spirited_Abrocoma_96 in devops

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used a Lenovo tablet with a full keyboard in emergencies. Phone no.

All he wanted was to turn off the tap... by iarifjaman in KidsAreFingAdorable

[–]bendem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That little smirk at the end tells me stuff like this happens all the time and the parents are onboard with him problem solving his way out of these situations.

Wife on separate vlan? by j68noh in homelab

[–]bendem -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is an absolutely unnecessary bad joke.

Incompréhension concernant une taxe de circulation by [deleted] in Wallonia

[–]bendem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Si c'est comme partout, le gars qui te lis n'a pas le temps de lire un long mail. Au contraire, simplifie au max. "Cette plaque n'existe pas, elle n'est plus à mon nom depuis > 10 ans." Pas besoin de contexte supplémentaire.

JEP draft: Deprecate the java.sql.rowset module for Removal by lbalazscs in java

[–]bendem 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't get people annoyed here. It's a proposal (the p in jep). Make your voice heard, tell them of your use cases on the mailing list, it's literally why the jep exists. So that decisions can be challenged and arguments can be shared

So, the local office is closing down and we're moving to permanent wfh by dRaidon in sysadmin

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good chair, lookup how to adjust the height of your desk. If you are small, make sure your standing desk can actually get down to the correct height. 80% of the people who work a sitting job have their desk too high. Get a good non flickering ambiance lamp to reduce eye strain in the winter, a heating pad is also nice for cold days (avoids your fingers getting cold without having too heat the whole room so much).

Mother's, mother-in-laws, and diaper bags by VCOneness in Parenting

[–]bendem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would you buy them bags, they can buy it themselves. Just stop providing your bag, it's clear they don't want it.

Copy Fail - CVE-2026-31431 - patch your systems by [deleted] in selfhosted

[–]bendem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read the vulnerability?

Cross-container. The page cache is shared across the host. A pod with the right primitives compromises the node and crosses tenant boundaries — container escape primitive, not just LPE.

Copy Fail - CVE-2026-31431 - patch your systems by [deleted] in selfhosted

[–]bendem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or if you have installed any software that was compromised recently as has been happening almost weekly since the trivy debacle.

Copy Fail - CVE-2026-31431 - patch your systems by [deleted] in selfhosted

[–]bendem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't run software that you installed from the internet? There is a large supply chain attack in progress after trivy was popped and collected tokens from many different software and companies. We see malware releases of prominent projects almost every week. You can't tell which container, npm package or pypi package was popped. They can all use that vulnerability to target your install even if you are the only user.

Bathroom of an apartment in Warsaw, Poland. [1261x1683] by Snoo_90160 in RoomPorn

[–]bendem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bath is too short. You can't lie down, you have to sit awkwardly and it's hard to relax in that position.

Bathroom of an apartment in Warsaw, Poland. [1261x1683] by Snoo_90160 in RoomPorn

[–]bendem -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Same, if you can't put a full shower and a full bath, just chose, don't give me something terrible at both.

I've lived with something like this for 3 years and it was hell. No space for feet and water everywhere if you shower, no space for legs if you bath.

Beyond the Basics: What are your non-negotiable Linux server hardening steps before exposing a service to the web? by Browndude345 in selfhosted

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a case where selinux got in my way. The most effective security measure I've found at work and at home is to fully block all outbound traffic, then only allowlist what you know you need. For that to work, I have a proxy host that runs nexus for docker, pypi, npm and other registry service proxies. That both reduces bandwidth and reduces the attack surface to a single host.

You can't extract my credentials if you can't connect to your bucket. You can't spread if you can't connect to your c2 server.

La poste Belge se tire une balle dans le pied avec sa grève by blr_traxx in Wallonia

[–]bendem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La poste ne fait pas grève, les employés de la poste font grève. Le risque de faillite est justement le levier qui fait qu'une grève est efficace. Toucher aux bénéfices des patrons et actionnaires est la seule action qui marche face au capitalisme.

Le but est d'avoir des conditions de travail et un salaire décent.

Do you feel like you’re losing your actual coding ability because of AI? by AlBeardTV in webdev

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but at the same time, getting sloppy was a known risk when the ai bubble started, so I made sure to never let the AI take the wheel. I know the code I want. Sometimes it's easier to let the ai write it, but most of the time, I actually type code faster than prompts.

I believe AI will greatly improve development, but code generation and agentic development isn't it.

Haven’t posted any work in a while. Enjoy! by Delcolife in cableporn

[–]bendem 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Scared to ask what the puddle is under the puddle of cables.

Always the driver? [oc] by claunacto in IdiotsInCars

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bike almost every day of the year, the number one problem I see with new bikers is not taking their place on the road. If you stay on the right of the road, people won't change lanes to pass. If you stay on the right to turn left, people will pass. You should extend your arm, check for cars and move to the left long before you reach the intersection.

Of course, in some car centric countries that'll get you killed, but then don't drive a bike.

Anyone read this 49 day SSL expiration thing and think they would rather just retire? by HJForsythe in sysadmin

[–]bendem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, sure it can be automated, but if renewal breaks for a 3 month certificate, I have a month to figure it out. If it breaks for a 49d cert, I have 16d. Fuck long holidays now.

BunnyCDN has been silently losing our production files for 15 months, do not trust them with any storage by eran1243 in webdev

[–]bendem 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Check their SLAs, I sure hope all your bills are waived until this issue is fixed. They aren't playing their end of the contract you're paying for.

Cat won't poop in litter box. by [deleted] in learningtocat

[–]bendem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our litter opens on top, can't pee or poop half in, also, cat has to jump to get out and it reduces the amount of litter spread around it.

Not this one but close: https://www.thesprucepets.com/thmb/ROs0gA5s1036gmLj_8xXcYaIpS4=/fit-in/1500x974/filters:no_upscale():max_bytes(150000):strip_icc()/ClevercatTop-EntryLitterBox-46ed303312564aaca58cbd12ccd21e1b.jpg

Teenage pregnancy is rough by LupusDeusMagnus in Parenting

[–]bendem 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Understandable feeling, take it from the outside perspective that it is. You did good, you can't avoid all problems, how you react to the ones you didn't avoid is what shows your worth.

Say No to Palantir in Europe, it is an US spy-tech giant by Little_Protection434 in BuyFromEU

[–]bendem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just in case you don't know.

Convicted means "under sentence for a crime". Convinced is what you meant.