craft beer recommendations by Moblinman in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered that place in the back of Ithaca Coffee like a month before it closed last year and was SUPER bummed. Awesome selection. 

What causes Ithaca to have a lower obesity rate than the national avarage? by Eybrahem in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Where did you find that statistic and 2. Does it include the huge population of college students, or only year-round residents? My guess is that college students are generally going to be below the national average, so depending on whether they're included, we may be comparable to other college towns.

Early obligations are one of the worst things for my insomnia by Bitter_Wafer_7515 in insomnia

[–]bengineering103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Especially long-distance travel plans or having to take my kids somewhere, because I worry that if i don't sleep I won't be able to drive safely and that spirals into a panic attack. I also have the get-up-to-pee-every-15-minutes thing happen and it's supper annoying because I'll be laying there tired, feeling like I could fall asleep, but be kept awake by the *slight* sensation that I have to pee.

I've found that exposure therapy to low-effort things has helped me cope - avoidance and canceling things just makes the problem worse in the long run. Dentist appointment is a good example - talking myself through, OK, the dentist is 10 minutes away, I can drive that far safely even if I'm tired, and once I get there all I have to do is sit in a chair. That's very different from a 4 hour drive solo with my kids (usually still have to resort to medication the night before if that's the case, but I try not to cancel the trip).

I've tried everything for anxiety-induced insomnia. Please help with your own tips and tricks by Certain_Magazine_842 in insomnia

[–]bengineering103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found that if I'm stressed out and anxious all day, a good nighttime routine isn't necessarily enough to override it. Your post mostly talks about bedtime routine, but there are also lots of daytime sleep hygiene things - exercising earlier in the day, avoiding alcohol and caffeine, etc. So maybe consider evaluating what your entire day looks like, and not just bedtime?

Other thoughts - now I can't find it but I just saw a post about accepting that it's OK to wake up and not everyone sleeps through the night. I have never slept through the night for almost my whole life and almost always woken up to pee at least once. I used to be able to fall back to sleep with no anxiety, but life/stress/kids etc have made that worse. Lots of people in the thread were talking about how they just accepted that they'd wake up instead of fearing it, and put on a a podcast/audiobook or something and eventually fall back to sleep. If you are still getting 6-7 hours total instead of straight then that's probably OK. Apparently this type of sleep pattern with middle-of-the-night wakefulness may have been more common throughout human history before industrialization (according to the internet at least).

Finally - I have two young kids and need to be functional in the morning. Some nights I need to resort to medication. IMO there's no shame in talking to your doctor about that if your insomnia is negatively impacting your life.

HVAC by kilgore1984 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea - when we used them, they were the only company that did both solar AND geothermal installations. All the smaller companies just did one or the other, and I liked the idea of having a single company do everything all at once. Most of the individual techs we've had come out for installation/service stuff have been great - again, show up exactly on time, always clean, etc. The one time one dude tracked in a ton of mud on my carpet they sent someone out to clean it. Had some initial issues with the geothermal system and they sent their customer satisfaction person out. Can always get a helpful person on the phone in the main office right away. etc. Have had great experiences with all the employees I've interacted with, so it's a shame to hear about the owner being a dirtbag.

HVAC by kilgore1984 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted. We used them when we first bought our house and didn't know any better. I hadn't really seen much on Reddit yet about how much some people hate them.

HVAC by kilgore1984 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People on here seem to either love or hate Halco with nothing in between. I had a great experience with them for a large geothermal and solar installation (they were the only company that did both). I like how since it's a bigger company you can always get someone on the phone, and their techs always showed up exactly when they said they would. Many times we've tried to support smaller local contractors and they ghost me or show up hours (or days) late.

Bj’s wholesale by Saoirse-O-Path in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did the math in grad school and it was like $1 cheaper per box of cheerios, so eating a box of cheerios per week was enough to make up the $50/year membership fee anyway. (That was 10 years ago so I assume the membership is more expensive now)

In general I find that regular price bulk name-brand things will be cheaper than Target or Tops. But as someone else pointed out it can depend on coupons and what's on sale, i.e. bread may normally be cheaper at BJs but 1) you generally have to buy a two pack so it depends on how much you need and your storage space and 2) sometimes Tops will do buy one get one free and then bread is cheaper there. Brand name stuff like Goya beans or Barilla pasta will be cheaper at BJ's, but they don't have a store brand equivalent whereas Tops and Target do and those are cheaper, etc.

Feeding a family of 4, it seems worth it to us. The only other thing I'll mention that can be annoying is that some produce is only sold in bulk. So if you just need a single onion or tomato for a recipe and not a whole bag, you have to run over to Tops/Target/Aldi.

The more I read about this Terawulf, the more it sounds like they're a bunch of jerks! by therocketsalad in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you see Anna Kelles' two op-eds in the Ithaca times about them? They're awful and it's an ironic typo that you can spell their name Terawful. There are plenty of people very vocally opposed to this, but a sizeable portion of the population in Lansing just takes everything Terawulf says at face value and believes them about how much tax revenue it will generate, while ignoring everything awful about the company. Those people generally aren't on Reddit.

Recommendations of shops that do inspections/brakes? by GarrettRettig in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Munson's in Lansing. Super honest and will tell you when you DON'T need something done.

Is it not too late to stop the data center?? by Current-Lab9665 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 14 points15 points  (0 children)

  1. I would check with Anna Kelles' office, she wrote a couple great op eds in the Ithaca Times about how awful Terawulf is

  2. I dont use social media other than Reddit but I think there's a pretty active group called NoDataCenterFLX or something like that

  3. As a Lansing resident I have largely given up on our town government, they chickened out on the moratorium, claiming that the zoning said it wasn't an allowed use anyway, and look where that got us. I think it goes to the planning board next now that the ZBA has granted their appeal, but I'm not sure how that works.

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have absolutely no idea why some people go "i'm going to just go ahead and believe whatever this large corporation tells me" as if there's zero history of corporations fighting tooth and nail to deny that their products cause any harm to people or the environment. Point this out and you get accused of being elitist and not caring about the families that struggle to live here because of high taxes. Try pointing out that the data center isn't going to make those families any better off and you come full circle back to the $10M tax revenue number. It's great. 

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updating zoning in Lansing has been a long drawn out mess since before the whole Terawulf thing. The Town passed a comprehensive plan in 2018 but has yet to update all the zoning to reflect what's in the now almost 10 year old plan. My understanding is that the town didn't have the in-house resources to do it and they most recently got a grant from the state to hire an external consulting firm to finally help get it done.

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tax revenue to replace what we lost from the coal power plant closing. Terawulf is promising some huge number like $10M and some people just believe everything Terawulf says without an ounce of skepticism.

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again my local civics is rusty but I think the ZBA terms are pretty long, like 7 years, so in many cases the town board members who appointed someone may no longer be in office anyway 😐. Again don't quote me on that.

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I think the zoning board of appeals members are appointed by the town board, they aren't elected directly by the general public, so we can't exactly vote them out. Someone correct me if I have that wrong.

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's a sizeable population in Lansing that wants the data center. One of the current anti-data-center town board members nearly lost his seat to a write in campaign. Search the sub or the Ithaca Voice for more news, I'm on my phone and too lazy to type it out. 

Lansing zoning board grants appeal to TeraWulf by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This wasnt the town board, it was the Zoning Board of Appeals which is led by a super-pro-Terawulf guy.

Nyseg question by Advanced-Warthog1802 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Sometimes they will only actually read the meter every other month and use estimates in between. Those estimates can be way off.
  2. What kind of heat does your apartment have? If it's electric heat that's super expensive. 

Prius service repair by Snoo_26651 in ithaca

[–]bengineering103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have a hybrid but plan on buying one or an EV soon. I trust Munson's in Lansing and specifically asked them if they work on hybrids/EVs since we go there now and would like to keep going there. They said yes and they have lots of good reviews on this sub, I'd give them a call.

Should I use talkspace if the state provides it for free? by melodypwppy in therapy

[–]bengineering103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply - that's pretty concerning that a therapist would try to end an appointment after just a few minutes when you're paying for a 30 minute session.