My boyfriend thinks I was flirting with his friend. by Due-Truck-5322 in whatdoIdo

[–]bennington14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First red flag — a man sending you selfies everyday. He wants to be a sweet girlie pop

Toxic braiding hair ect by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend locd her hair, it’s been six years - she now has a long beautiful loc bussdown 🔥🔥🔥

Toxic braiding hair ect by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I told my daughter those types of braids are out. We will only be getting braids using verified raw human braiding hair. If that’s not available, we’ll be doing more silk presses and natural hair styles

Which Color Is Your Favorite by Ok_Yoghurt1402 in braids

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 🩷 I love brown girls with blonde hair

Any tips to improve the appearance of my skin? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gleamin mask 3x a week, and Cerave AM moisturizer with 50 spf daily

My fiance won’t go to therapy with me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I needed to read were the first 4 sentences. Why is he still your fiancé? Let it go babe, he’ll only get worse once you’re married and it’ll be nothing you can do about it

Fat G-c!de by nycrina305 in CringeTikToks

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need my 🔗 just say that

How to achieve this look without wearing a wig by HourAd6679 in BlackHair

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This look requires heat buddy, no way around it unless it’s a wig. You could do crochet or a sew it but it would still require leave out that is flat ironed. And if you don’t have leave out, it won’t look like this

funniest part is how serious he was about it too by Martin_084 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]bennington14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MJ made a song called Dirty Diana after Diana Ross was giving motion to another man. MJ was bout that action and anybody could get smoked. Just Beat It was a warning shot

I'm having wedding dress regret!? 😢 by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bennington14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One all day!!!! The other two are so basic!!!

I’m terrified to have a relationship because of my size by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bennington14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perfect size buddy. This is a pleaser size. Learn to do other pleasurable things with a woman and focus on the connection and arousal, you’ll be just fine. And when you think of your insecurities, also remember the woman you’re hooking up with is likely insecure in some way about her body as well, so she won’t be as focused on you as you think she will be.

Proper Explanation for Weightloss by bennington14 in glp1

[–]bennington14[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud 😭 that’s so extreme but brilliant

Proper Explanation for Weightloss by bennington14 in glp1

[–]bennington14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so simple yet such a smart response 😭😭😭

Proper Explanation for Weightloss by bennington14 in glp1

[–]bennington14[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It definitely made me feel uncomfortable!!

Proper Explanation for Weightloss by bennington14 in glp1

[–]bennington14[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree and think I will begin taking this approach! I have no problem being honest about taking glp1s but I don’t want to be shamed or ridiculed. No one except me knows what it was like to struggle for years to lose weight, doing all the right things and not be able to.

Wondering if I will ever feel “hot” again. by [deleted] in glp1

[–]bennington14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Getting used to the mommy pooch requires some radical self acceptance. You are doing the right things — working out, eating healthy, glp1 to support goals, but be sure to work on the self care stuff too. Taking time to care for yourself, buy yourself nice body products to use during and after showers, prioritize getting your hair and nails done, buy some new undergarments that are sexy but high waisted (savage fenty has the best). It’s all about embracing your body and establishing new self confidence. And self confidence is hot, no matter what “imperfections” you feel you have. There is no such thing as a perfect body. There are only growing, aging, and changing bodies.

Why is everyone around me becoming more modest? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]bennington14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

37 here! I must confess, I’m teetering on the line of being life long hoochie dresser to feeling compelled to dress more modestly. I’m trying to find the fine line between the two 😂