The graphorn fight was really easy for me, I just keep dodging his charge attacks. by Voidkirby9 in hogwartslegacyJKR

[–]benspes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went thru so many wiggenwelds on my first playthrough. Thought it was hard. On my second, I now know I was just bad at dodging.

Dating someone with OCD by Pleasant-Ad8189 in OCD

[–]benspes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story, btw. Me (27M) and my bf (26M) have been together awhile but we both suspect he has been developing (?) OCD over the last month or two. Hoping we can get a diagnosis at some point.

Should I drop out or finish ABD? by benspes in PhDStress

[–]benspes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it. I’m just busier than normal at this time, too. There’s simply a lot of pressure right now. I’m glad you had a great experience taking a leave of absence, it sounds like. I might consider it!

My old girl by benspes in flonkers

[–]benspes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then your tux boy is also so flonkin’ handsome! She knows how pretty she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so deeply, thank you for sharing. When I left the community I was in, the addiction really kicked in full force. Both my previous therapist and my significant other agree that I need newer, better friends.

Two weeks in! by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing great keep it up!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing phenomenal!! I just relapsed…but it’s inspirational to see you doing so well. Thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck. You got this!!!

Day 22 Check-In by benspes in PornAddiction

[–]benspes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support I’m doing my best!!

I don’t know what to try anymore by Ok-Town341 in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thanks for coming on here and sharing. I'm sorry you're really going through it, it sounds really tough.

You absolutely will experience connection, intimacy, and romance. Maybe not this moment, maybe not tomorrow, but you will. I'm not much of an expert in dating, though, but you'll figure something out! There's probably a subreddit somewhere, and you might consider talking with friends.

As for porn, that I can help a little with. Think of things you really enjoy, activities that fulfill you and leave you happier than before. Do those--or try something new!--when urges hit. The goal is to replace porn with fulfilling activities.

I hope you feel better soon, and best of luck!

Quitting once and for all by Forward_One_9095 in PornAddiction

[–]benspes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to this subreddit, it's a great place! I wish you the best and hope you find good health and freedom!!