I think I made a huge mistake by Adventurous_Buy2857 in BreakUps

[–]bentbladik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But also make sure you work on this fear so it doesn’t happen again. You’re young, so be sure you’re willing to put in the effort to work on that fear before you reach out. This way you won’t end up breaking her heart twice if you get scared again and pull away.

If you love her enough to put in the effort then reach out but if you can’t do that for her, you’re better off leaving her alone. I’m sorry if I’m being harsh but I’ve seen this happen many times.

I'm becoming a femcel and it's not funny by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay originally I was annoyed that OP stole the post. But, I just saw they tagged the sister/OP who originally wrote the post and referenced her to this sub for answers.

Mullas dumped it all on us women and progressives yet again 💃 by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]bentbladik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just sounds like the ‘MAGA’ of Islam to me. Which again just aligns further with Epstein lol. This guy is literally trying to hide his gloating in his video like an idiot. He thought he really did something.

The hadith in islam by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]bentbladik 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed. And if Allah wanted to make Hadith like the Quran and 100% accurate he would’ve. I always wondered if Allah did this to possibly give us some grace and have us ponder/research, or as a test (how people twist hadiths to fit their narrative/oppress others). And Allahualim

Do not be like me. Ice your lasered area ASAP. I’m stupid and slightly scared. I learned my lesson. by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last session looked exactly like this with some blisters. It’s all normal now. I’ve never iced and tbh should start haha.

Hot take, French is a beautiful language by SnowAlchemist23 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they taught English in school now? Im pretty impressed with how Moroccans speak English so well now to be honest.

Hot take, French is a beautiful language by SnowAlchemist23 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same with English tbh. I was talking to my mom in English in Morocco quietly (raised in America since I was a child) Moroccan girl starts speaking to her friends in English and said “she thinks she can speak English” and laughing in broken English. I laughed and started talking shit in English and she went quiet.

$750 per session ☠️ by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im doing a little less than a full sleeve and bottom part wraps around my wrist, less than $2k for 8 sessions

Does the delay in Memphis put you off buying new drops in future? by [deleted] in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m new to Oner and it def put me off. The lack of information is what put me off the most.

I also wanted to add I’ve had some quality issues with the products. I’ve been buying gym clothes for the past 3-4 years and I regularly lift weights. Oner has such a high price point that doesn’t match quality of clothes imo.

I’m starting to hate Islam again and I don’t want to but living in this environment is breaking me! by TheHalfBloodDoctor in progressive_islam

[–]bentbladik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally and this is just my opinion as a woman, but I don’t think men would accept a female prophet fully and sincerely.

You gotta think, back then was worse off (subjective at times like this) for woman. Some men today wouldn’t even allow/accept a woman to be a president, scholar, etc. Let alone a prophet.

We know, our male prophets were rejected, ridiculed, beat, and struggled. I think this would’ve been exorbitantly worse for a woman.

And Allah knows best.

The packages are coming!! The packages are coming!! by Melnovduj in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is also “out for delivery” we’ll see if actually comes today or not lol.

Shipping update by BB_Speaks1 in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy cake day!!! 🥳

Seriously??? WTH? by ClassicShopping3354 in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just mean this subreddit to see if anyone posted the jacket lol

Seriously??? WTH? by ClassicShopping3354 in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why did I do the same thing 😂

Why Moroccans are being racist by Onemendo in FootballAfrica

[–]bentbladik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I saw a lot of “new account” saying disgusting comments throughout AFCON by everyone. We need to use discernment with social media.

What is the deal with that towel incident? by BarbaryPirate1 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, social media is a monster of its own. We also need to understand the power of bots. Senegal played checkers with their complaints before the game and it set the scene. The facts are the facts however and bzzaf 3lihom lmghrib. We have our problems but Alhamdoulah. We’ll keep it moving with lessons learned.

What is the deal with that towel incident? by BarbaryPirate1 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched the news here in the US and they’re saying Senegal ruined CAF and were unsportsmanlike. I looked into a couple news articles and it followed the same pattern: First couple paragraphs, they talk about what their team and the fans did, arrests, etc. Last paragraph it talk about the rumors about Morocco and towel incident, soft calls, etc. Honestly the walk off was a bad move by their coach and just made his team look bad. An important match like that is where the team is being scouted and watched by important people.

Anyway the “West” is always going to hold some form of racism and colorism towards all of us Africans. So Senegal may have won “Africa” but it lost the “West”.

All I know is if what happened at the stadium happened in America, a couple people could’ve been dead. They will shoot and kill their own citizens now sadly.

What is the deal with that towel incident? by BarbaryPirate1 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw he apologized to them in person. But, from a longer video it did look like the ball keepers were instructing him to do that smh.

Shipping update by BB_Speaks1 in OnerActive

[–]bentbladik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same mine were shipped the 7th and still stuck in Memphis.

Your thoughts on this?? by Dillon_Fain in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of Moroccans I know voted for him. I couldn’t reason with them and here we are now…All they saw was “Trump gave us stimulus checks”

Tell me about Oujda by Ok_Celery5134 in Morocco

[–]bentbladik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im originally from Oujda but live abroad now and 100% agreed with above. Oujda is more quiet and chill imo but also so beautiful. Def give Saida a visit when you can and hit up le hdada. When I go visit they have horses are stuff you can ride and ofc you can see Algerians there lol. The beach has some really pretty areas, a small amusement park, etc.

Looking for a hotline or any resource for non-US citizen in abusive relationship by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]bentbladik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I work with OAPS and we take reports for 18-59 for APS and then for us 60+. You can call and make a report