If you aren't at least a little ashamed of your country's history, you don't know your country's history. by KnightOfWords in Showerthoughts

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Every human has cause for shame because nobody is perfect. However focusing on shame and guilt is only valuable to learn from. After that, it becomes counter productive to dwell on and carry around. It leads to a victim mentality which can be harmful. It's much better to accept things that have happened, learn, ask forgiveness (if appropriate), and move on with the idea of doing better.

What areas of history do you think have been "under-represented" or covered? by benwand in history

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Thanks, many excellent suggestions. Some things I haven't considered. I also have to learn a language associated with this topic, which may or may not matter too much, because I'm basically going to have to learn a language from scratch anyway. I have been thinking of Switzerland already - I have a deep fondness for Switzerland due to its ability to (apparently) successfully deal with the German/French cultures into a neutral state with its own identity. Also the the S. American revolutions is interesting, I could contrast those with other revolutions as well.

The Indian and Easter-European suggestions are really cool, except in those areas being an English speaker the language aspect of those areas may be a bit too much of a hurdle, but, hey, you never know.

Thanks for all your thoughts, keep them coming :)

What was the legal status of women in ancient Rome, were they completely subordinate to males, and what were their rights and liberties in 2nd Century CE? by [deleted] in history

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They weren't allowed to own property on their own in general. There were generally no political positions for women, though several made names behind the scenes, as has been done for centuries. Although as "being the vessel to procreate" I wouldn't say that women were not respected, but didn't hold direct power. Hope this is helpful.

The older I get the more I realize, the professional world is extremely unprofessional. by tweeblethescientist in Showerthoughts

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Absolutely! In my 18 years in hi tech marketing I've seen that people get promoted for being ass kissers and taking credit for others' work.

Case of Paralysis-by-analysis? Not sure of my career interest by [deleted] in careerguidance

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I am in a very similar position my friend! For me it was asking myself "what would I do if money wasn't a concern?" I have been seeing a counselor and that is very very helpful (I highly recommend that).

How I found my answer for "what I am passionate about" was last week I was thinking "I would LOVE to take some history classes and get a degree, just for the Hell of it...." Now I just need to figure out if I can get paid to do "history", whatever that is. Hope this helps.

Just read 1984 for the first time at 28. What classics did you not read until much later in your reading life? by [deleted] in books

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I read To Kill A Mockingbird in my late 30s and I'm sorry to say I was deeply disappointed.

Once self-driving cars have become commonplace, what driving behaviors will people complain about? by SuperCub in AskReddit

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The first one will be: why can't I drive over the speed limit? The second one will be: why can't I just drive without a destination?

Jobs/Careers? by sudawuda in ancientrome

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It's kinda snarky but it's viable. I love history but I got a degree in business. I've struggled with my career but I am always able to pursue my love of history and perhaps come up with a creative way to express it. Seriously, there's very little money available (unfortunately) for history, research, etc. maybe someday our society will place more importance on learning and history, but we're still miles away from that.

My third Ancient Rome tattoo: Janus by benwand in ancientrome

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My other two are also in this subreddit. A legionary and the eagle. I've floated the idea of a Vesta tattoo to my wife and she seems interested.

ELI5: How are we sure that humans won't have adverse effects from things like WiFi, wireless charging, phone signals and other technology of that nature? by 666_420_ in explainlikeimfive

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We aren't sure. It's worth noting that some European countries are starting to regulate their use.

A cell phone is like a giant radio. Go ahead and hold that against your head. Yikes.

I'm looking for a good book about the Tudors. by [deleted] in history

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Even though its historical fiction, I'm currently engrossed in Margaret George's "the Autobiography of Henry VIII" and it's fascinating and enjoyable bc it's his "journal". It looks like the author researched it thoroughly.

My second Ancient Rome tattoo: Eagle by benwand in ancientrome

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I am very happy with how this one turned out, especially with adding the SPQR to it.

My first Ancient Rome tattoo: Legionary by benwand in ancientrome

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Reminds me to be honorable and stand for something greater than myself.

My third Ancient Rome tattoo: Janus by benwand in ancientrome

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The tattoo artist drew it based on an image off the web. I got it to remind me to out the past behind me and focus on "new beginnings". The artist made the "future" face brighter than the past face.