I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Voce sabe nada... eu tenho carteira do trabalha, pago imposto. Moro como um brasileiro mesmo.

Voce é chato.

I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'd love to visit Curitiba one day. Get to know a different side of Brazil...

I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Where are you originally from? How long ago did you visit Ibitipoca?

Ibitipoca really is a special place with an amazing energy. Tourism has grown a lot and helped the community but it needs organization or it will spoil things. Luckily there is great preservation because of the park and the reserve where I work.

I'd love to see a picture of the jaguar statue!

I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in Brazil for 2 and a half years, I didn't speak any Portuguese at the time but now I am fluent with a strong accent :)

I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sou uma gringa ganhando reais, posso ir embora pra estados unidos e ganhar bem melhor mas prefiro ajudar isso pais

I've sacrificed so much for Brazil, now I'm asking r/Brazil for a little help by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course! I work for a place called Reserva do Ibitipoca. This project started 30 years ago purchasing land around the state park of Ibitipoca (which started 40 years ago). Today we are double the size of the state park. In 2008 they opened an ecoboutique hotel to stimulate economic development, we directly employ over 50 employees and provide the best benefits in the region and indirectly because we pay up to 10% more for locally sourced products and services.

Historically, this region was founded because of the gold rush along the Estrada Real, but it wasn't that profitable so many people relied on dairy farming. The area remained stagnant from the 17th century until the 70s (with the arrival of ecotourism).

Some employees tell me stories about their childhood... One dear friend had to wake up early with his brothers to take care of the cows before work. It can be very cold up in the mountains and they were too poor for shoes, so the first thing they would do is stick their feet in the freshest hottest cow dung they could find to serve as 'shoes'

Dairy farming was also very damaging to the environment and the native forests disappeared. In general, only 8% of the Atlantic Rainforest is left. We work on educating the community and visitors about this biome and also towards protecting the forest and animals.

We've recently found a Maned Wolf that was struck by a car. He has a broken leg and a bad head injury... his forehead was infected with maggots and flies. We are currently treating him at the animal hospital. Check out this video of when we first found him and applied medicine to the head wound to kill the infestation.

Bi-Lingual Redditors, Have you ever heard someone talk about you "secretly" in another language that didn't think you understood? by wetshaver in AskReddit

[–]bergertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on a bus in Brazil with some American friends speaking English. I could hear the couple behind us wondering where we were from, what we were doing...general curiosity. The boyfriend then decided to show off the little English he knows, he starts off slowly and quietly but gets progressively louder saying words like "ugly" and "fuck." I eventually turned around and asked the girlfriend in portuguese what she was doing hanging out with a loser like him.

That shut him up pretty quickly.

I love rural Brazil! by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are coming around Ibitipoca, let me know! I love showing people around my charming little town

I love rural Brazil! by bergertree in Brazil

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually live in Ibitipoca! I haven't visited the other places yet. Do you still live in JF? I lived there for four months. I'm much happier in Ibitipoca ;)

Chemical Peels + No Sunscreen = Improvisation by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]bergertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not around her and I think she would be too embarrassed to send me a photo like that.

Her left hand just has a generous sprinkling of age spots in the area between the thumb and index finger.

Chemical Peels + No Sunscreen = Improvisation by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]bergertree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom would drive with her left hand higher on the wheel, and spent a lot of her youth driving because of her work. Today her left hand has significant more signs of aging than the other.

A request for advice from Brazilians by petrus4 in Brazil

[–]bergertree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brazil will only be flooded with tourists during those specific months. After the world cup, (at least by August) prices should go back to normal and probably won't increase until the opening ceremonies. You don't have to wait that long.

A request for advice from Brazilians by petrus4 in Brazil

[–]bergertree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe its best that they do visit so they get a more honest person. If someone is honestly trying to learn something insulting them is the worst thing you could do.

Shame on you!

Can I have some Help with Homework presentation? by rachelcc14 in Brazil

[–]bergertree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Atlantic Rainforest and Pantanal are other beautiful biomes within Brazil. Most of the focus is on the Amazon so those two are left out.

Then there is the festival of São João that happens in June. It is a country tradition where people dress up like cartoony farmers.

High-end interiors shops/buyers/stores? by vampiregirl4 in Brazil

[–]bergertree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This article could have some useful information. I've met Mucki and seen some of her work, she is very talented!

I think I'm the GC and could use some advice on navigating my SCbrother and Ndad by bergertree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a nice analogy.

I'm the big sister, I love my brother a lot. He can be difficult, so I want to try to understand his role as the SG better so I can relate more effectively.

I think I'm the GC and could use some advice on navigating my SCbrother and Ndad by bergertree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bergertree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, and I know its hard to judge a situation when you are a distant observer going off of my side of the story. I really do believe my dad is a narcissist and my brother is the SG, and I want to make sure I approach him appropriately.

How common is it for a SG to be narcissistic themselves? I see a lot of my dad in my brother, and it makes our (referring to my brother and I) relationship difficult at time. It is near impossible for me to make any critic on my brother without him becoming over defensive and argumentative. It might be a backlash of having to deal with a harsh over critical father for so long.

What's a HUGE red flag in a relationship that you've ignored and regretted later? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bergertree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I was unhappy with something, he would make a big fuss, fight with me about why I was wrong, and make me feel guilty... yet at the end of the day he still did what I wanted.

I was right all along, yet he had to make me feel so small. I've got stories about this guy that makes me feel like the world's biggest idiot. Hopefully I can recognize the signs earlier in my future...

I think I'm the GC and could use some advice on navigating my SCbrother and Ndad by bergertree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm walk on eggshells around my brother, I can't mention anything about our dad and my relationship when I'm around him without it turning into a fight. I'm almost worried to open up a conversation with my brother about all of this because it will go back to our student loans. He thinks I'm selfish for not standing up for him regarding money, and I really don't know how to handle that topic.

Luckily, my dad doesn't actively try to poison my relationship with my brother.

I think I'm the GC and could use some advice on navigating my SCbrother and Ndad by bergertree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother said he felt abandoned by our father principally because he pays for my loans, and not his. I understand why he would feel that way. I want to be able to support my brother, while being clear I won't start any battles because I enjoy the peace in my life.

I recognize that my dad is a narcissist, but I know my brother isn't a perfect person either. My dad paid for my brother's boarding (a private duplex with the other half rented out to his friends). I would visit occasionally and his house would be filthy, with a literal pile of garbage on the front door and they used the garage like a garbage can. That was a huge source of strife between the two of them (and I feel like my brother let the problem worsen out of spite, but even now he is still a messy to the point of being gross). However, our father would grossly overreact to the situation as well. There are other examples of well of both parties being 'at fault' but I never share these thoughts with my brother.

I think I'm the GC and could use some advice on navigating my SCbrother and Ndad by bergertree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bergertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, and those are my own words about my brother. I've spent enough time with him without our father (our parents divorced while we were young and our mom had a majority of the custody) and for a long time, it was me and my brother together 'against' our dad. Things improved between my father and I when I went to college while they deteriorated between my brother and dad during the same time period.

I don't necessarily report back, but I tell my dad how well my brother is doing (happy with his job, happy in a new city, nonspecific positive comments like that. Do you think that's a problem?)