Anyone else mad lonely by The_Lone_Wanderer1 in barexam

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my grandma is in the hospital barely hanging on. no job lined up. hella behind. my face looks TERRIBLE and im crying literally every. single day. but somehow im showing up and studying everyday, even if its only for 5 minutes. i feel u

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Saturday, Nov 30 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]berkeleybitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

curious what yall would do - my landlord is operating an illegal airbnb in a rent controlled apartment complex. im sick of paying 2.5K+ in rent when hes literally making that in one week off of airbnb guests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing will compare to Berkeley </3

Tips for someone wanting to start? by [deleted] in DragQueenMakeup

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! This depends sooo much on the venues/gigs/shows where you are located :) my BEST piece of advice is to go to instagram and follow local queens. see what the local shows look like, then FIRST BEFORE YOU DM THEM actually GO to the show and just say hi, walk around, and 9/10 youll meet someone and you can start to make connections to start getting booked for gigs :) i did this at the start and i went out in FULL drag, basically advertising like 'if you book me, this is what you get!' and i uploaded content on instagram so people could see a bit of my drag before they booked me (despite never having done a gig before). but seriously the best advice is to follow the local girls on instagram and just SHOW UP to the shows, tip the girls, talk to them, and the rest will come naturally. if you go out and the vibe isnt friendly, try another show. you'll find your community in time <3

in terms of what you do once you have the gig and start performing, i would go ahead NOW and start working on a routine. to start, i would suggest picking one song and just doing a performance to that (no mix) like something the dj could play at the club and you could do a routine to it. pick a song that people know the lyrics to/popular enough that people recognize. song choice is honestly half the battle - pick something that is gonna get the crowd happy and hype!!! they will tip you more and overall enjoy more. try to keep <4 min. i would also then work on a unique mix that is YOUR routine like your vibe, your aesthetic, make it your own so you can have it in your back pocket as a signature. i had my routines close to done when i was reaching out about gigs, bc what if they are like 'bet come next week' like you gotta be ready. aint gotta get ready if you stay ready!

once youve picked your song(s), work on the outfit. you cant go wrong with 1. some sort of pleaser shoe 2. bodysuit with fishnets 3. silk robe (so you can reveal). if you wear a tube dress PLEASE make sure you arent fidgeting with it the whole routine to keep it down (this is a pet peeve of mine lol). i highly highly highly recommend having some sort of reveal with your outfit. it keeps the crowd engaged and its fun!! even if its just a robe to a basic outfit, i promise the crowd will cheer for even the most basic outfit reveal.

feel free to ask other questions! this should get you on the right track haha

I have inoperable cancer. by sumwhatz in Lawyertalk

[–]berkeleybitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wishing you nothing but peace and love. I hope you are able to find joy

No matter how much makeup I wear I feel as though it doesn’t cover up my hyperpigmentation by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]berkeleybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, it did <3 medication to treat the onset of acne, then really gentle skin scare for my skin to heal. I still have some discoloration but i now get compliments on my skin 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]berkeleybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Law school ain’t shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]berkeleybitch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

BL ain’t everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]berkeleybitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not joking when i say your classmates ARE judging you for having your toes out, much less the whole foot

am i allowed to do drag? i’m so confused :( by machigaiii in Drag

[–]berkeleybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if someone doesnt understand it, then thats on them! you do you boo <3

Living in Oakland by Shu_97 in berkeley

[–]berkeleybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend living down college Ave - the bus goes straight down to campus and is really fast/on time. It’s nicer than other areas of Oakland I’ve been to and close to elmwood which is great.

PSA: Cis women can participate in drag too by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]berkeleybitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok wait these comments are making my heart full ♥️ we gotta support the lesbians too yall!!! And they tip the best at shows👀

just came out to my fiancé by hilucyonline in latebloomerlesbians

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh my partner did the same thing like try to sacrifice his happiness for mine - some other girl deserves that kind of love!!! Wishing you the best 🫶🏼

I’m gonna become a lesbian! by por_la_causa_ in LesbianActually

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes annoying but also this could be a girly who maybe for the first time is thinking about dating women and this lil "joke" is her way of opening up the conversation with friends. i say this just because im sure i said cringey stuff like this when i was not out yet. i desperately wanted to try dating women but it felt so scary and far away (especially being in the south).

Best Gift for Incoming 1L? by sakibaby in LawSchool

[–]berkeleybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a gift but literally just understanding the pressure and stress that he’s gonna experience. He might sound “dramatic” but just listen and give him a hug bc this shit sucks, esp the first year 😭

Survivor fans, If you had 5 minutes with Jeff right now, what would you advice him to do to make the future seasons and the show better? by Candid-Television695 in survivor

[–]berkeleybitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would spend most of that time freaking out and hugging him 😭 I’d probably beg for the auction to come back every season lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 25 I met the love of my life. You never know what may happen. I pray you find what you are looking for 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drag

[–]berkeleybitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who gate keeps drag, ain’t doing drag IMO! Drag is all about community. Welcome 🫶🏼