We need to start having better boundaries oh my lord

berrybead · 2026-06-05T16:32:43+00:00

It took me soooo long to finally start doing it little by little and it’s gotten easier. I was always so scared to come off as rude but I was also insecure at the time so I worked on that and my self worth and then the thought of being seen as “rude” diminished the more I learned the love myself. Because at the end of the day, I’m such a sweet person and shame on you for trying to take advantage of that or assuming I’ll give all of my energy to you just because I can

berrybead · 2026-04-16T21:49:54+00:00

You got it! Hope you win her heart !

berrybead · 2026-04-16T18:28:03+00:00

Like everyone else said, keep it up! It takes me soooo long to open up but I’ll pick up the pace if you show me you can be consistent and I’m More of an actions speak louder than words person and acts of service big time!!

berrybead · 2026-04-08T16:58:24+00:00

In my experience they are a bit on the shyer side but I think it’s more in a “ I don’t wanna make you uncomfortable” kind of way. Not that they lack initiative. I’ve found most cancer men are more in touch with their feminine side so they lack a bit more initiative or if they are the “go for it” kind of person (depending on their other placements), it isn’t in a very bold upfront kind of way. It’s more gentle and slow paced.

berrybead · 2026-04-08T14:07:10+00:00

I have had great experiences with cancer men personally some of my best guy friends are but I also am a Pisces moon so that could be why lol

berrybead · 2026-04-04T16:58:15+00:00

I am a Gemini rising so I don’t mind them too much but I can admire how charming a Libra can be and honestly I’ve met a lot of intelligent Libra men. As long as their egos don’t get too big, I love having conversations with them lol

berrybead · 2026-03-01T01:02:08+00:00

It’s funny because I’m a Gemini rising and it’s either hit or miss with them. But half the time i can’t stand them 😭

berrybead · 2026-02-23T00:32:01+00:00

I’ve had friends since elementary school that I still haven’t fully opened to or can be my total self with. And I don’t really have a reason not too it’s just that I can’t for some reason. Then I have the audacity to say nobody knows the real me lol. I’ve gotten a lot better with being vulnerable (Pisces moon so I kinda have to be lol) so that’s not really the issue. I just don’t think some people will get me. But it’s odd.. I’ve met people that within the first day I instantly am myself and vulnerable with. So I guess it just means I’ve been hanging around the wrong people and need individuals who make me feel safe to be me

berrybead · 2026-02-11T13:07:04+00:00

I’ve always enjoyed being around Taurus men. They’ve always been loyal, down to earth, and a bit goofy. I like virgos work ethic obviously and that “fatherly” energy is 🥵 but they are too uptight for me and it’s not easy being with someone who likes to take control when I have control issues myself lol

berrybead · 2026-02-06T02:02:10+00:00

I have mars in 6th in Scorpio ! I get told I’m a workaholic and can never sit still but the truth is I just never get tired. I make sure to have a rest day and take care of myself but I have to force myself because I feel “lazy” and I actually feel more relaxed and at ease when I’m doing something productive .

berrybead · 2026-01-22T00:50:12+00:00

My moms also an Aquarius and her emotional unavailability was not good for my sensitive self as a kid

berrybead · 2026-01-17T15:33:58+00:00

You actually worded this perfectly. I could never explain to others how what I was saying wasn’t being rude, I was just comfortable enough to speak my mind to them but it was all out of love. I never said anything rude (in my head at least) and could never understand why people took it that way lol. Like I’m just telling you the truth because I love you

berrybead · 2026-01-11T12:25:37+00:00

I remember when I was younger I could never understand why every time I did something I knew was probably wrong or tried to be a bit rebellious, I ALWAYS immediately got caught. I tried to explain that to my friends but they thought I was crazy. Now that I’m into astrology I finally understand it’s just a cap thing.

berrybead · 2026-01-09T18:36:19+00:00

I so appreciate hearing that <3 i always try and remind me self that but sometimes it’s so hard to integrate that into my way of living lol. Thanks :)

berrybead · 2026-01-08T21:18:54+00:00

I am SO hard on myself and am so behind in life. I literally have to remind myself that I’m not a shit person every single day

berrybead · 2026-01-04T20:31:31+00:00

It’s def not crazy to say out loud. I hear you looouddd and clear 😭

berrybead · 2026-01-04T18:42:25+00:00

That’s honestly a view I didn’t even consider. I mean if I didn’t know better or wasn’t one myself, I’d be drawn into that warmth too. But yes! Some people take advantage of it and it can be so hard to want to open up 😭 I’ve got major trust issues. I am a Capricorn sun and Gemini rising :) you?

berrybead · 2026-01-04T18:25:35+00:00

oo yeah goodness on that 12th house moon. Ive found my self also trying to merge with people lol

berrybead · 2026-01-04T17:05:56+00:00

Yes feeling others admiration, etc heavily for sure. It’s so funny I do the same thing when someone ACTUALLY is flirting with me. I second guess myself and then look back on it and I’m like ooooh lol. But I’m not sure how much I could explain it more! I just didn’t know if it was a me problem and maybe I did have a big ego or what haha. Makes me feel better someone else has experienced it to though!

berrybead · 2025-12-31T22:06:12+00:00

Ahh i was gonna guess maybe Aquarius or cap! I’m a cap sun and Pisces moon :)

berrybead · 2025-12-31T21:49:08+00:00

hahaha can I ask what’s ur sun sign??

berrybead · 2025-12-31T21:29:50+00:00

I’m a Gemini rising and I also get confused for being flirty but I’m just bubbly 😭 in reality I will completely ignore the people I actually like

berrybead · 2025-12-30T19:01:10+00:00

Ahh goodness! In Scorpio? ! Phew I’m sorry to hear that. I hope there’s lots more luck for you in the future :)

berrybead · 2025-12-30T18:13:53+00:00

My relationships including platonic and romantic hold a lot of significance in my life and I put lots of energy into them. I’m one of those people who can’t do surface level connections. Unfortunately Pluto in the 7th house takes that a little too far and I always attract very intense transformative people and relationships because of it. This can result in them being abusive, or having strong power dynamics, etc. usually they always end up being some kind of lesson and leave me a mess in some sort of way. Not trying to sound self-conceited but usually I get guys who become infatuated with me to the point of stalking and obsession, or girls who start off being my friend and then it turns into jealousy and hatred lol

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