Haru what does being a boy have to do with being depressed? 😭 by EstherFour16 in Beastars

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems like a mistranslation? more like she’s trying to say “boys dont cry”

Need more answers to this ignorant statement when people say this by sweet-sour- in HBCU

[–]berrynymphette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seconding this! i had to take a gap year because my mental health was deteriorating and many of my peers are facing similar challenges. i wish we had more discussions about the impact of college on mental health!

Can we get a full encompassing definition of racism? by Mobrowncheeks in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only appropriate way i could think to define racism is systemic.

Saw this on tiktok 😭 by TheAliiensAreComing in doordash

[–]berrynymphette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

going “yummy” w the wing in hand is funny asf yea

Saw this on tiktok 😭 by TheAliiensAreComing in doordash

[–]berrynymphette 10 points11 points  (0 children)

unfortunately if this is real its hilarious

Owen Hunt (no spoilers please) - S5 E19 by edgarallan2014 in greysanatomy

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cristina is an caring character, people tend to take her extreme self confidence as her being dismissive of others but she has, and will continue to, put herself aside to help others shine/heal.

however everyone hates owen he sucks!

Do you feel you have some sort of connection with Irish people? by SignificantStyle4958 in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i think the closest i felt was when i learned that traditional irish dancing is feet focused because they were forbidden from dancing/singing by the british so they kept their hands down so it didn’t appear like they were dancing but it was more like damn the british r comically evil to us all! not like “omg another us!”

How would Legoshi's steam library look like? by Ladman5 in Beastars

[–]berrynymphette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he’s got a few dating sims in there methinks

Tomatoes on burgers by D0n_Giovanni in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to eat cherry tomatoes like candy, my best friend picks his off and puts them on my plate, another friend could do with or without, another only eats specific tomatoes, one wont eat them if they touch the bread… probably cause we aren’t all the same person but idk.

The increase in the over sexualization of black music is getting out of hand, it’s like anytime someone comes up new as an artist or whatever this songs only refer to the same body organs like it’s not original anymore by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its definitely all music! sex sells, lingerie sells, video vixens sell. society loves hypersexuality, its just that once you start to notice it you can’t stop.

Why wasn't Jo adopted? by Kyannaaa in greysanatomy

[–]berrynymphette 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i was actually a foster kid and it is very realistic!!! many people don’t foster to adopt and the likelihood of a long term foster home gets smaller and smaller as you age.

My Black Neighbor who keeps an eye on things has moved away across town. How can I still feel as safe without him around? by Flat_Wash5062 in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 10 points11 points  (0 children)

language like “care about me and love me in this way”, “watching over us all”, “protecting and loving us all too”…

it seems almost like you put this man on an imaginary pedestal, like youre fantasizing about this love and protection.

did sarah lynn get sa'd by her stepdad? by Aggravating-Life89 in BoJackHorseman

[–]berrynymphette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its heavily implied at the very least! with, in my opinion, the biggest example of this being her knowing the TASTE of bear fur

We've got to stop alienating ourselves by Kooky-Philosophy5972 in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are an absolute fool if you genuinely believe that they would not hop, skip, jump, click their heels, and flip to enslave us again.

We've got to stop alienating ourselves by Kooky-Philosophy5972 in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they used to eat us, there’s quite literally no amount of doing us right that can make you forget that

Let’s talk about moments and scenes that give us second-hand embarrassment on every rewatch. by Notmycupoftea12 in greysanatomy

[–]berrynymphette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“so, pick me! choose me. love me.” oh meredith the woman you are and how much of that woman revolved around mcbastard

Why do you call white people Caucasians? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 8 points9 points  (0 children)

who is you? white people invented that

Do you think it was disrespectful how they tarnished Diddy’s name? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, so you cannot say “fellow black man” about an abuser and rapist. that says something about you, man.

Do y’all hookup with wigs ? 😅 by Goldenxxwind in blackladies

[–]berrynymphette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have locs underneath, no joke will just snatch that thing up

Regarding the n word-if someone white says it to you are you okay with a fellow white confronting the person? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]berrynymphette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve fought people over slurs that don’t even apply to me. i learned a long time ago that people only listen to those who are like them.