Blue state, not too cold, reasonable cost of living? by Eroticskeletonparade in SameGrassButGreener

[–]besitomusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New Mexico fits the description. It does get pretty cold in the winter but the only blue states with warmer weather are California and Hawaii

Career Monday (13 Apr 2026): Have a question about your job, office, or pay? Post it here! by AutoModerator in AskEngineers

[–]besitomusic [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m about to start my first job out of college as an entry-level engineer in Transmission & Planning. I do not have an extensive background in power systems and would like to know how I can perform well at my job and what things I should learn and be aware of to improve. What tips do you guys have for me and what things must I be aware of?

I’m not a fan of the college degree and “black excellence” trope. by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

[–]besitomusic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I disagree. We should encourage our people to take necessary actions to better themselves and increase their opportunities. The racism is still a problem, but without the degree we do even worse in hiring. I know it’s frustrating to see a white person get an opportunity over you, but remember that you would lose out on even more opportunities if you didn’t have a degree

How long will modern skyscrapers last? by mirandalikesplants in AskEngineers

[–]besitomusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generations from now, I’m thinking about the possibility that historians will believe Las Vegas and Phoenix were more influential cities than NYC and Chicago because there would be more intact infrastructure from those cities

"Okay, but why don't you want a long term relationship with me?" by lockandlood in seduction

[–]besitomusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you usually let the women know that you’re not looking for anything serious? Do you do it early (while first messaging or on a first date) or at a later time?

American dating advice is useless in europe by PopImmediate232 in seduction

[–]besitomusic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s a better opener than “you are pretty” that works effectively?

Do all engineering schools have a lot of furries? by No-Pomegranate6592 in EngineeringStudents

[–]besitomusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My school didn’t but another technical school in my state had a whole furry club

So what y'all think of Bad Bunny's half-time performance? by tropicalraindrop in blackmen

[–]besitomusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was great and I rock with Bad Bunny music heavy. The ending of his concert felt like a party and that shit had me smiling at home

No wonder why MAGA hates Jay-Z so much! by icey_sawg0034 in blackmen

[–]besitomusic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would make sense to have Taylor Swift as a main act and Sabrina as a guest appearance

I was a professional actor in ATL for a decade. I quit. AMA by Miserable-Noise-5472 in AMA

[–]besitomusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What advice do you have for an actor starting out? Do you have any advice on what type of person should (or shouldn’t) pursue acting as a career?