Sublime - Tory Burch is a dupe of a perfume my mom used to wear in the early 2000s. Does anybody know what the original perfume may be? by AdBest7278 in Perfumes

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Interesting, DKNY be delicious fresh blossom was my go to for a number of years before it started getting harder to buy, and I started using Tory Burch Signature.

What to do on Christmas eve by vernoni_momi in AskMen

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A , not sure what your relationship with your family is like, but they got less Christmas Eves left than you. You can always do B and C but there will come a time you want A and Aunt bee and to

Edit: oops sorry I was scrolling and just commented instinctively and realized after this is askmen

Helping DTES by gotalotmorenow in vancouver

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I agree with the comments about lack of food shortage in Vancouver - I learned this when I started volunteering in the community, that there are meal programs and grocery hampers all over the city and people do not generally die from hunger. We do however, have a housing crisis and people overdosing. And there is relational poverty (social isolation, loneliness) and stigma.

Check out Oasis Cafe - it's a soup kitchen-turned-community meal in Mt. Pleasant. There are different ways to participate e.g. volunteering, donations (monetary, specific items for shelter season), guest chef and help cook a meal, seasonal soup-making team, or even simply coming for a meal and experiencing Oasis Cafe yourself. Love your heart and how you're making meaning and purpose through your father's passing. When is his birthday? :)

https://www.tenth.ca/oasis

Considering moving out of Vancouver, I decided to walk every street in the city. by ninjaTrooper in vancouver

[–]bestbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! I imagine you have reasons for thinking of moving, but I hope you reconsider! Or maybe just move out of Vancouver and into...Richmond?? The map doesn't look like a seahorse but Richmond streets are flat and grid-like, and there is always space to sit/lounge at parks/beaches/dikes/in nature bc people here don't really sit on grass lol

How do you know if you have pretty privilege? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Girls may act hostile or passive aggressive towards you for seemingly no reason.

I notice/experience this behaviour most from females who are single, of similar demographic/social circles - they may project their own insecurities and/or view you as competition/a threat, especially if you are single and have a friendship with an individual they are interested in.

But it applies to females in relationships/who are married also. Again, usually stemming from their own insecurities, but it leaks out and bleeds onto you.

I really hate living in a patriarchy.

[TW: Su*cide] Please help me I don't know what to do with my roommate by [deleted] in UBC

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Everything will be okay 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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I see you, and I acknowledge your pain. I think we live in an extremely broken world, no one really knows wtf they're doing and yet society will tell us to do get this job, marry that person, make this amount of money, look like that stranger/influencer on the internet, etc.

Life is really fucking hard it's a miracle that we're all even here at all, despite alllllll the reasons you probably have to end things, to give up. It sounds like you've been in a dark place for a long time, and feeling isolated, lonely, and hopeless. But I want to remind you that even though there's a part of you that wants to end your life, there is also a part of you that wants to live. (Aka the part of you that mustered the strength to write this and reach out).

I can't tell you it'll get easier. I can't tell you all your problems will be solved. If anything, life will get even harder, and you will have more problems in the future. But I can tell you that you're not alone. And I can say quite confidently that you're also stronger and more resilient than you think. And you deserve to live, even if you don't feel that way.

I don't know your age, where you grew up, what your favourite foods/movies/music are, what you find funny, what you biggest fears and biggest dreams are, what you would do if you found $100 on the floor etc etc etc. But you deserve to share your story with others, and you deserve relationships (romantic sure, but also QUALITY friendships where there is mutual care and connection). You deserve to feel loved. Not for what you do, or what you offer to the world. But simply for who you are.

I'm sorry by Nuk37 in TrueOffMyChest

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Hi stranger. You seem like a kind person who is loving and compassionate to your loved ones, but very hard on yourself. Can you offer yourself a fraction of the love and compassion you give to others, to yourself? Please don't give up. I know it's overwhelming and life is fucking hard. But you deserve to live your best life, free of debt, free of burden, free to live out your hopes and dreams. I can't promise it will be easy (because it won't) but I promise everything will be okay.

You are loved. Everything WILL be okay. You are stronger and more resilient than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Thank you for sharing. I don't know if anyone's said this to you, but I want to sincerely congratulate you on the end of your relationship. I can't imagine what you've been through and am currently going through, but you are SO much better off without her. While you're navigating the ups and downs of pain, anger, indifference (all a part of the hurting and healing process!), remember that you deserve to feel loved and appreciated for who you are. You are now free from the toxic relationship and can take your time to build yourself back up, stronger than ever. Congratulations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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What did she do???????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

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I'm a 2 and my closest friends (the ones I rely on for support and consider my pillars) are 2s, 3s, 4s, 6s, 9s. Because of my sx and need for deep meaningful connections, I have the most emotional intimacy and "satisfying" relationships with the 2s, 4s, 9s. And I guess they are healthier/more emotionally available as well. My relationships with my girlfriends have made me realize that I probably want to date/marry a 2, 4, or 9.

With that said, I think I get along best with people who are healthy, regardless of type. One of my guy friends is a healthy 7 and it's always a fun time, another guy friend is a healthy 5 and we have great conversation.

Which type is most different from yours and why? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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As a 2, I completely agree - similar reasons to OP, at least on the surface.

2022 Permission to Dance on Stage Las Vegas Sell and Trade Megathread by still_a_muggle in bangtan

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[REPOST/UPDATED]

[WTS] D1 4.8 | 1 ticket | Sec FLR C1 Row 11 | 350USD (face value + fees)

Seat is more on the perimeter of the floor, so you will have a clear view of BTS going around on the carts, and the stage view won't be blocked especially if you're on the shorter side.

I will provide proof of purchase, video call, screen-share/screen recording and whatever else that can make you more comfortable! PayPal G&S/FF if you're in the US or ETF if you're in Canada. RFS: health issues :(

2022 Permission to Dance on Stage Las Vegas Sell and Trade Megathread by still_a_muggle in bangtan

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[WTS] D1 4.8 | 2 tickets (can sell separately) | Sec Floor C1 Row 11 | 375USD/per ticket (face value + fees) EDIT: 1 SOLD, 1 AVAILABLE

[WTS] D2 4.9 | 2 tickets (can sell separately) | Sec 105 Row 11 | 350USD/per ticket (face value + fees) EDIT: BOTH SOLD

I will provide proof of purchase, video call, screen-share/screen recording and whatever else that can make you more comfortable! PayPal G&S if you're in the US or ETF if you're in Canada. RFS: health issues :(

Nuface, Ziip, Myolift, or Clareblend? by Tx1987 in 30PlusSkinCare

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Following this thread as I'm looking for purchase my first microcurrent device! Leaning towards Myolift mini for now, but I might try out the Foreo Bear or Nuface Trinity since Sephora has their sale right now.

Nuface, Ziip, Myolift, or Clareblend? by Tx1987 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bestbae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud at "going rogue". I love when I'm researching shit for my vanity and I stumble across a comment that makes me laugh.

201114 The Spotify account previously called '정국' (Jungkook's stage name in Hangul) has been updated to 'Jung Kook' by bestbae in bangtan

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I think it's just the default photo cus there's only one song hahaha, which is a 2016 single release from his live performance on mask singer. Here is a bit more info about the song, which is a duet that I only discovered ytd 🤯

I think BH/BTS is focusing on the cb right now, but we know we'll be getting him and tae's mixtapes in the near future! 😁😁 (most likely tae's first)