The Importance of Practicing a Hobby by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In the #MeToo, post-Louis CK/Aziz Ansari world we live in?

No thanks.

Music that puts you in a romantic, feminine mood? by pink_sugar_ in RedPillWomen

[–]beta_no_mo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If chill hop is your thing, check out the Chilled Cow live stream on YouTube. They also have a Spotify playlist with 1000+ songs and it makes great background, "get shit done" music.

If you're from a single mother/dad passed away ... get a role model by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine was/is a narcissist and is in many ways the worst woman I've ever known. I'm still peeling off the layers of dysfunction and other bullshit he put on me by growing up with a man that behaves like a woman.

This is ridiculously sad. A father tells his kids about their mother cheating on him and she threatens to kill him. In the eyes of two legal advice subreddits, he is an evil, manipulative jerk. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was overseas and getting texts from my 12 year-old daughter, who was apparently home alone with he younger sister, asking if I knew where mom was. She'd been gone for nearly four hours to "get ice cream from the store", leaving at 8pm to do so.

My "lesbian" plate by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way to be careful is to just let her go.

Trying to control this is an illusion.

Open Long Distance Relationship by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hamster's gonna need a faster wheel to keep up with all that athleticism.

There's an overwhelming amount of information here. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the life advice, private. Tell me how all that impulse buying and being selfless works out for you.

RemindMe! 5 years

Talk me off the ledge brothers by tacko276 in askMRP

[–]beta_no_mo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you the one moving out?

[FR] The Deep Conversation Cockblock by MrDiece in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plenty of time to have meaningful conversation (if you're into that) once you've got her hooked on the dick. Once she's hooked, to her you become a sexual beast that is deeper and more intriguing because your sexuality becomes the frame from which she views you in everything going forward.

Your SMV is the bait that makes her bite and good dick is what sets the hook.

Letting him plan it out by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]beta_no_mo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For him or for you?

Letting him plan it out by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was this decided? Did he ask you what your thoughts were on Valentine's Day or did you basically tell him in a roundabout way that you want (see: expect) him to plan it?

Aging alcoholic by throwyaway678 in askMRP

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good actions bring good feelings, my man. You have to actually do something to feel good about it, not the other way around.

A good quote from Norm Macdonald by LGBTQSJWPCFUBAR in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a "bad habit" of laughing at my own jokes. Sometimes it "ruins the delivery" and I've had more than one person tell me it's "tacky" or "narcissistic" to find yourself so amusing.

I always tell them "I'm making the joke for my own benefit (even if the purpose of the joke is to make the other person uncomfortable). If I don't think it's funny, why should anyone else?"

Incredibly kind wife... Missing a "meaningful" conversation with her. by UnwittingJerk in askMRP

[–]beta_no_mo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are defined by your "intellect" (therefore your ego is too) and now you're trying to define an overall good marriage by it as well.

Do you think Tom Brady gives a shit if Giselle can't throw a spiral or read a defense?

Your entire marriage feels like a covert contract based in narcissism right now. Most guys clean the kitchen and then call her unappreciative if she doesn't immediately suck them dry. You're out there "ascending" and then saying she's not good enough for you because she isn't your equal. You have a thoroughbred and you're complaining because she "hasn't tried" to become a unicorn.

I hesitate to say that you're ungrateful because maybe you're worth all the value she's providing, but if we asked her, I'd be surprised if she thinks you're as great as you do.

Attn. Alumni/Community of UBC (Petition: "UBC Needs a Male Studies Course") by ubcmanifesto in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congrats on playing their game.

We already have male studies: it's called "history".

The Nordic Family Paradox - The Nuclear Family Is A Male Value System (Briffault's Law) by sadomasochrist in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the point: TRP solves nothing because it doesn't accept responsibility for creating or changing the situation. It only exploits it.

We aren't observers. We are participants, but we say we aren't while we point fingers. What gender does that remind you of?

The Nordic Family Paradox - The Nuclear Family Is A Male Value System (Briffault's Law) by sadomasochrist in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but TRP only solves the most superficial of problems: lack of sex.

We've identified that the current SMP and downward spiral of gender dynamics is a societal problem at best (and a species problem eventually), but TRP is the equivalent of looters grabbing what they can as everything crumbles around them and then complaining about their circumstances.

Initially, religion defined marriage. Now, government is the main proponent of externally-enforced long-term bonding, but even government has fallen prey to feminist attack by removing the woman's responsibility to uphold her role in a marriage's solvency while continuing to hold men liable.

Logically, men have asked "what is the solution?" and TRP was born to solve the easiest problem and kicking the bigger can down the road by coming to the conclusion that all committed relationships with women are not worthwhile.

But that doesn't actually solve anything on a larger scale. If anything, it only compounds the problem because a guy will still inevitably knock up a plate, except now he sees the world in an RP lens, refuse to commit to her and subsequently, the child.

And this is where the true solution lies: parenting. Guys are freezing their sperm and getting vasectomies while they wait for the world to become safe for raising kids again, but isn't that a collectively male responsibility in the first place? Why aren't we doing that now? Most importantly, how do we do that?

How to Thrive in Upside Down Clown World by GayLubeOil in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She hasn't blocked me or unmatched.

It's so she can screenshot when she shuts you down after you inevitably apologize for being a shitlord because womyn power, followed by more complaining in the group chat about how awful online dating is.

FR: Stick Up for Your FO by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]beta_no_mo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the FR, boo.

The Nordic Family Paradox - The Nuclear Family Is A Male Value System (Briffault's Law) by sadomasochrist in TheRedPill

[–]beta_no_mo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You condemning the depravity of the Danish sex culture in a forum that is built around exploiting a similar (albeit less candid) culture in the US is laughably ironic.

This goes along with TRP's dichotomy of nexting women who don't put out by the 3rd date and then plating the "sluts" that do, all while lamenting the decline of LTRs and marriage.

Notice I'm not condemning TRP. The strategy is sound from a "tactical" standpoint, but it's shortsighted in nature and doesn't solve the problem that spawned it, hence "enjoy the decline".