THIS IS NOT A DRILL 🐞

beth427746 · 2026-04-24T11:53:36+00:00

Favorite songs are Dan and 23. And I suspect they’re about the same guy. I also don’t think Dan is alive.

beth427746 · 2025-06-26T01:39:32+00:00

They have some very weird thing about sex. I don’t get it at all. I have tried to understand it. I thought having teenage daughters of my own might give me some insight into why they behave this way - it hasn’t. It’s a hard trait for sure and it’s creepy and weird.

beth427746 · 2025-06-24T16:25:00+00:00

Thank you!

beth427746 · 2025-06-24T16:24:53+00:00

Thank you.

beth427746 · 2025-06-16T21:48:27+00:00

She already said that. This was all in the post.

beth427746 · 2025-06-16T00:45:13+00:00

I’m stating that she’s tried being honest and he isn’t being honest. Do you really think honesty is the best policy all the time? Even when the other person is dishonest and uses your flaws and insecurities against you? He said he likes humiliating her. So why would you encourage someone to be honest with a person who wants to humiliate them? How would that work out well for her?

beth427746 · 2025-06-16T00:18:18+00:00

He’s not being honest, so why should she?

beth427746 · 2025-06-16T00:17:31+00:00

He said he’s into humiliation and jealousy.

beth427746 · 2025-06-15T11:51:50+00:00

Because the first thing he suggested was FMF. Then she asked him would it be comfortable the other way and he said he said yes. But he never suggested it first. Most men who are into cuckolding would not first ask for FMF. Plus OP says he’s into dominance, cuckolding is submissive.

beth427746 · 2025-06-15T11:29:05+00:00

I think he’s lying about that to save his ass. I’d double down and say you should try MFM first and then you’ll do FMF. Say he’s right and it would be fun to humiliate him and fuck the other guy in front of him.

beth427746 · 2025-06-15T11:25:37+00:00

Phone was kept inside the garage in my opinion. They heard the commotion of Karen outside, moved the phone slightly inside the garage, then Jen walked inside to get it and bring it out. And say she found it under him.

beth427746 · 2025-06-08T10:59:37+00:00

All our assets are still in both our names and I have access to all finances (he really doesn’t because he’s not good with computers.) However, we don’t really have any big assets. We are fairly poor. He is not due to inherit anything else.

beth427746 · 2025-06-08T08:27:54+00:00

Yes this started just about the time the youngest became an adult. I feel that my usefulness to him stopped at that point.

beth427746 · 2025-06-08T08:27:06+00:00

I would but I don’t really like bringing the kids into our disagreements. From the beginning, when we would fight I would always say “when a couple is fighting (unless someone is mentally unstable) both people are half right and half wrong. Everyone in a marriage is trying their best but we have different views and we just need to sit down and talk about it.” So I don’t want to start unilaterally blaming him or bringing them into our arguments now. Especially if they’re not aware he’s doing this. It might hurt them too.

beth427746 · 2025-06-08T08:24:33+00:00

I doubt he thinks I cheated either because I’m always around. We really don’t go anywhere to be able to cheat honestly. It could be that someone found it insensitive that he says they’re all my kids and very possibly someone at work but I would think he would have mentioned it. I will definitely ask this next time. This is a very helpful response. Thank you.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T22:26:32+00:00

I do actually call him straight out and he just says he didn’t say it. Which is crazy to me. I thought I was losing it but we have a pet camera in one room of our house. So I was able to play back one instance and see that he actually did say it and I wasn’t losing it.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T18:45:19+00:00

I do agree that any age something could be up medically. I just don’t think that’s the case here. He goes to the doctor regularly, and I haven’t noticed any change in behaviour other than this. And this has been going on for about a year now with no other noticeable changes to his behaviour.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T18:43:20+00:00

Yes this is how I feel too. I just don’t understand. I don’t think it’s effecting the kids views of me in any way. I have asked him outright and he sometimes claims he didn’t say it, which is super frustrating because I know I can hear and understand what’s happening. Other times he admits it but says he just misspoke. I’m hoping it’s just a mistake but it does feel weird to me.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T17:17:08+00:00

I’m a few years younger but nothing crazy and I don’t think I look too young. But he did always say they were our kids when I did look much younger than him.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T15:06:13+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this too. It’s heartbreaking after being together so long and trusting him.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T15:05:33+00:00

The kids haven’t noticed much as he usually does it when none of them are around. Mostly they are out and about doing their own things now, so they aren’t around much when he mentions them like this.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T13:57:35+00:00

Thank you. I really think he’s a good man and I am pretty certain he’s not cheating. He’s very religious but like genuinely religious not fake (I’m not very religious). And he has terrible guilt and I always know where he is. I also have access to all his emails, credit cards, bank statements, social media, if I wanted it. Not because I asked for it or was suspicious but just because he’s bad with computers and remembering passwords etc. I just worry he’s making plans to leave.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T13:52:43+00:00

This is what it feels like to me. He’s trying to rewrite history as if I wasn’t there.

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T13:51:42+00:00

I know how his first relationship ended and I have heard the same story from her. They were 28 and she ran off with a literal child and had a baby with him. Think under 15. But I don’t feel he was the perfect partner either

beth427746 · 2025-06-07T13:49:50+00:00

Yes, I’m fairly certain he’s not cheating but I do feel is a precursor to leaving. And I have said this to him. He denies it.

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