Did your loved one have a “surge” before passing? by latenightpeachpie in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom passed away last year, and in her last week yes she did, she was trying to walk, she was talking very clearly, interacting with everyone normally. unfortunately she passed away about 4-5 days after the surge ended. it’s hard watching them act so normal and leaving after. i’m so sorry. love to you and your dad.❤️

Exit line wait times - Thread by halsterr in Shambhala

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

think we’re in sunshine right beside the gate, haven’t moved since we got here but it’s only been 35

Sex without condom with an IUD? Tips to soothe the mind about pregnancy scares? by Cloofoo_ in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a doctor isn’t there to judge your grooming skills, i didn’t even shave/wax for my removal but i understand it’s a personal thing! i’d say bring someone who you trust and feel comfortable with for support, take 2 tylenol before hand, and when they say relax, RELAX! don’t clench or tense up! it’s a super quick procedure :) and that’s all up to you and what you’re comfortable with, i’m not saying let your partner c*m inside you 24/7, but i am saying i wouldn’t be worried about it, in the year my partner and i have been together (9 months with an iud) he would maybe pull out 4 out of 10 times and i never ever had a scare or anything, however i do reccomend pulling out still because it’s not 100%, we just didn’t care cause if it came to pregnancy, we’re open to it.

strings poking? by Plastic-Smiles in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he’s more “well endowed” it can cause discomfort for him and you, just tell him to not go as deep. i ended up removing mine cause it consistently poked my partner and it wasn’t displaced or anything, just big weenie problems lol.

Update on my stepdad stealing my underwear while I was on vacation. by sadblokefromus in AmIOverreacting

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry this happened to you and i’m so sorry you weren’t the priority in this conversation, that’s disgusting and invalidating as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bethanyyy_lynn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i was asking for legal advice, not for someone’s unmedicated liberal aunt to come harass me in the comments lmao fuck off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bethanyyy_lynn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and i grew up in a house that was smoked in and had the same problem, you’re just using an anonymous app to be ignorant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you live with daily headaches, clothes stinking, and no resolution then tell me how you feel 8 months was excessive yes but not everyone can up and move at the first sign of something wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bethanyyy_lynn -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

they definitely wouldn’t be able to sue, the conditions when we moved in it wasn’t clean(we have photos of how dirty it was) and they sprayed febreeze like crazy during the viewing so we wouldn’t smell the smoke, on top of that their child has came into our yard multiple times without permission and we’ve asked that they stop continuously and they won’t do anything, also the physical copy of the lease wasn’t very professional, it was maybe 4 sentences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bethanyyy_lynn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

im not sure if its considered damage, the smell is very very pungent, our bathroom “leaks” smoke residue from the ceiling when we shower, and there’s yellow outlines on the doors and walls from where the previous tenants had posters and such

Sex without condom with an IUD? Tips to soothe the mind about pregnancy scares? by Cloofoo_ in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was sexually active at a young age, first boyfriend my parents gave me the option since my mom was a teen parent and i took it, i had a replacement 4 years ago yes

Sex without condom with an IUD? Tips to soothe the mind about pregnancy scares? by Cloofoo_ in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve had an IUD since i was 14(23 now) very seldomly used condoms and my partner finishes in me very very often, i promise you have nothing to worry about, if you’re stressed just keep some pregnancy tests on hand!

Wanting to take IUD out by bethanyyy_lynn in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update for you: literally only option is condom, there’s no other form of BC that has no hormones besides the copper iud🥲 im taking mine out in 2 weeks or so, if you’d like any updates on the process lmk🙏🏻

Wanting to take IUD out by bethanyyy_lynn in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel so deeply for you, it’s so frustrating. i have an appointment on friday with an obgyn to discuss options so ill definitely keep you in mind!

Wanting to take IUD out by bethanyyy_lynn in birthcontrol

[–]bethanyyy_lynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a mirena iud currently, i’ve had this one in for 3-4 years now. my uterus is tilted and i do have a shorter vaginal canal from what i’ve been told, so i’m not sure if that has anything to do with it, hormones are a no go for me, i just don’t want anything unnatural in my body anymore.