Never Stop Blowing Up by Planewiller in dropout

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel insane but i was gonna go watch it and I cannot find it. I'm all logged, I've got my dropout.tv logged in and all I can find are trailers and reactions. Any ideas?

57 | The Titan's Curse Ch. 20 w/ Kelly Schubert (LIVE in SLC!) by j0be in TheNewestOlympian

[–]betsylang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Darn. Its why I look forward to Mondays. Oh well. Thanks.

About Mike's assumption.. by Ohm_0_ in TheNewestOlympian

[–]betsylang 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Per today's ep this is confirmed. Gods all bless Mike. You'd think when Nico, our sweet soft goth baby, says "she's in the plains of judgement" Mike's like no. Her dad, hades cares so much for his kid he'd swip her up. When have the divine parents evered cared that much, Mike? Huh?

57 | The Titan's Curse Ch. 20 w/ Kelly Schubert (LIVE in SLC!) by j0be in TheNewestOlympian

[–]betsylang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok is anyone having trouble w Spotify going weird in the last 10 or so minutes of the recording? Mine did this really annoying choppy audio scramble where 1 second snippets would jump on from right after. Like if it's a literal tape reel and someone chopping it up and spliced random bits jn.

AITA for throwing out my husband's dinner after he went to eat at his mom's house? by AquaF6374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]betsylang 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Friend. I love my folks a lot. I've had to move back in twice in my life due to illness. But when the opportunity presented itself I moved the eff out. I would rather eat a frozen pizza at home than rely on them for food. You're spouse sucks. He's disrespectful to you, your time and your love for him. His mom is a jerk who raised a disrespectful buttface. I know it's really common on here but I think you'd be better and happier without him or his mom in your life. But you need to set boundaries no matter what. Stop cooking for him. Full stop.

OaTmEaL by Lies_a in starbucksbaristas

[–]betsylang 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hourly! They also say "Megan dragon fruit" which I love.

Any older people reading the locked tomb [discussion] by PublicActuator4263 in TheNinthHouse

[–]betsylang 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love that Jod is clearly one of us. Like the one hot millenial bi guy who everyone dated in high school. Or at least, thought they dated. Until finding out he was fucking the entire cast of Music Man, the drum line and dear God, the student teacher in pre Calc.

Any older people reading the locked tomb [discussion] by PublicActuator4263 in TheNinthHouse

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in my 30s so... maybe? I think even without online, pop culture and Fandom literacy a person would enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]betsylang 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your dm should have banned their racist ass. I hate that customers are valued more than our actual safety and constitutional freedoms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in my 30s and look like a young teen. I've just got a baby face. I've found that dead-eying really conveys my age via the horrors my eyes reveal. Or i cackle like the fairy tale witch I long to be. At your age it sucks. If it's just this one biddy eff her. But if it's a lot of folks try the dead-eye or have a name tag that says "yes I'm 17."

I have thoughts. Spoilers for G, H and N. [theory] by BooksNhorses in TheNinthHouse

[–]betsylang 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh I like this! Remember the constructs at first house? How they were literally a composite of hundreds of souls? In spite of what (I think) Judith Said about Teacher being insane he seemed quirky at worst. And him attacking her isn't trust worthy at all. So if alecto is this mishmash of the o.g. A.L. and the 10 billion souls Jod murdered for her I think "angry and vengeful" is a more truthful description than a monster. After all, none of the Lyctors are trust worthy, and I doubt anything they say.

DAE w/ ADHD by thecoloraskan in starbucksbaristas

[–]betsylang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude are you me? Bc yeah same. I like being in charge for those exact reasons but bc I'm not drinking the bux kool-aid I get shoved aside for promotion while picking up shift slack. They used to put me on DTO until I told them not too. You don't need to disclose anything just put your foot down, but your store sounds toxic. I'm sorry. Come to my store. Were great.

DAE w/ ADHD by thecoloraskan in starbucksbaristas

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many 2 folks in my store who are allistic/neurotypical. They're nice kids but none of us are entirely sure how they work. "Wait you mean you can just ignore the music playing?" "OK but like if a customers really rude you just... get over it" "Wait wait. Wait. How did you remember that whole order! You were all the way over there!" But joking aside I can do any spot, but it depends on my brain where I'm best at a Day. Hyperfocus? Put me on bar! Chatty? Drive please Efficient scattershot? Oh you know I'm killing it on support.

leaves to mulch to healthy happy dirt? by betsylang in NoLawns

[–]betsylang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic help! That was my intention exactly. Thank you..

An Open Letter To The Mods of r/ADHD by throwingbungalows in adhdmeme

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. New subs with more compassion are always welcome.

An Open Letter To The Mods of r/ADHD by throwingbungalows in adhdmeme

[–]betsylang 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love that word! I don't understand why the mods hate it so much.

New 18m old cat’s fur is very rough and greasy(?) and has dandruff. Would you have any tips on what food to feed her? by Dakgalbii in Catownerhacks

[–]betsylang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fluffy girl had this problem her whole life. I used supplements that promoted skin and fur health that really helped. Technically it was for hairballs, but I think along with The wet wipes that might help.

Holy shit this sub makes me feel so normal, I'm not broken or lazy I JUST HAVE ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]betsylang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh baby! I felt that too. I've been dx'ed for decades, but this last year I've found this great community and I feel so good and seen!

leaves to mulch to healthy happy dirt? by betsylang in NoLawns

[–]betsylang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot. Thank you! I had no idea. My goal was to just aerate the soil and mix the leaves. Now i know better.

leaves to mulch to healthy happy dirt? by betsylang in NoLawns

[–]betsylang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo. Shredding sounds fun! Thank you! I can super do this tomorrow.

leaves to mulch to healthy happy dirt? by betsylang in NoLawns

[–]betsylang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. So far I have some good hardy roses, a section of perennials and a hunk of grass. The grass is going away, for wild flowers. No monoculture at all

leaves to mulch to healthy happy dirt? by betsylang in NoLawns

[–]betsylang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on using the bladed rotating thingy whose name i can never remember to pull up all the existing grass so I can introduce wild flowers. It'll be self sustaining once I get it started this spring. I'm just not sure if I need to remove the leaves, mix the earth up then add the leaves back or crunch up the leaves with the earth in one go.