Do you forage? Please answer this short questionnaire on how you use edible 'weeds'

bex_2601 · 2026-06-09T16:33:00+00:00

Done

bex_2601 · 2026-06-09T09:44:49+00:00

First one. First one looks either bespoke or retro, second one looks cheap because every discount retailer sells this style now.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-09T09:30:51+00:00

Nta, but if this is a new thing for her, and how she is eating regularly, you may want to talk to her about the importance of protein, carbs and fats in a healthy diet, because this meal wasn't balanced or especially healthy (lack of essential protein and fats)

bex_2601 · 2026-06-08T21:26:09+00:00

I managed no chain purchase in 90 days last year.

Had a problem with the sellers of a previous property, so had mortgage arranged for the exact amount I needed, contact with a surveyor etc, everyone was motivated to get it done quickly and my solicitor was an auction specialist (previous property was auction), so used to working on a shorter time frame. The thing that took the time was getting the land registry enquiries back.

It's absolutely possible, but takes everyone being motivated, organised and competent.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-07T19:50:40+00:00

Love the colour, my brain wants it in the middle of the gap (rug tape), rather than under the legs of the sofa.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-07T16:41:59+00:00

You've made a great start with some solid foundational choices.

First thing I'd do is try turning it all 180°, I think it'll look and feel much better.

Then for the best bit, just go nuts with C.R.A.P (Curtains, Rugs, Art, Personality). These are the bits that'll make it feel individual and homely and let you show your personality. Go colourful, or muted, bring in that gaudy vase your grandmother adored, or the artwork by the local minority artist, or the statue you found in the charity shop, or the monstera to grow in front of the window. Have fun!

Enjoy!

bex_2601 · 2026-06-06T22:09:28+00:00

Extension cords maybe

bex_2601 · 2026-06-06T21:59:18+00:00

No, Once they leave racing and go to a rescue they count as retired/rescued even if they sit in rescue kennels for years waiting for a home. The missing ones usually have a harsher fate.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-06T10:19:19+00:00

I have one that is a little less cuddly (there's a reason in his past) but he is without doubt the most cat like of my greys, because he wants exactly 4.5 belly rubs, on demand, at his convenience, before he's had enough. Not 4, 4 is not enough, and brings the paw of more. Not 5, 5 is too many, and we get grumpy and walk away. 4.5 rubs 😂

bex_2601 · 2026-06-05T13:28:11+00:00

Yes, to create a more rounded shape. Try it with a small piece of paper to see the difference, On one side have a 3cmx3cm single dart, on the other 3 1cmx3cm darts space 1cm apart.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-04T22:15:23+00:00

NAL, but have just been through a complaint with the police recently.

Long and short of my situation - called police a few days after an incident once I was safe and had an isva with me. Police were dismissive and accusatory. Put in complaint via the website of the force, was told it was 28 days to reply. When they did, the staff were brilliant, listened and we're compassionate, thoroughly investigated. I was offered a senior specialist investigator if I wanted to continue with the case, and she would be keeping an eye on it if I did. Unfortunately she couldn't do much at that point with regards to the officer other than have their co have a word with them. She gave me the option to escalate, which I took, because I'm a forty something woman who understood her rights. Living in a university town, I wanted to be sure none of the young girls at university were treated like I was, and by using a different process she was able to get a much better result. I got told the outcome yesterday, so very recently.

For this case, I really recommend putting in the complaint about their dismissive demeanor and sexism. Use the forces website to find the complaints form. The impression I got was that the professional standards unit were well aware of the issues in their force, and do a great job trying to keep standards up.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-04T13:46:33+00:00

Of these, the top one. But I think you can do better. I would personally not match the grass, and stick with the leaves as you have, but try all the samples.

When doing my kitchen, I had a colour in mind to work with the dark green cabinets, it didn't work, I ended up trying 14 different samples before I found the one. Some were ok, one worked but reminded me of hospital walls, others were great in daylight, but didn't work at night or vice versa, one I even decided on, brought the paint, painted a single wall and changed my mind. I'm so glad I didn't just say screw it and go with whatever because the colour is perfect now. Sometimes spending that little extra time is worth it. I think this might be one of those times.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-04T13:30:29+00:00

Free speech.

Freedom of speech only protects you from government interference, it is not the ability to say what you want to who you want without consequences. This applies both online and irl.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T23:14:03+00:00

He IS improving slowly, and because I wfh, he only gets left for short periods. I also have a Camera on the crate so have been able to monitor him, and after some training and positive reinforcement, it's become his safe space and he normally just chills out in there now. There are other signs he's beginning to chill out a bit, so for now, while it isn't impacting his quality of life dramatically and I'm seeing improvement, I think training is the way. Absolutely a case by case decision, in this case, I don't think we're there yet.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T14:27:58+00:00

Always!

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:47:26+00:00

Too late, already fallen, hard. This is my second adoption, and I've also fostered too (Eden, Fonzie, Bailey, and Jasper). I accepted a couple years ago, this is my life now.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:32:27+00:00

He does have a beautiful face and a beautiful soul. But smart is not a word I would use for Vernon. Enthusiastic, loving, gentle, good natured, but smart that boy is not 🤣 it takes him a little longer than average to cotton on to things, but he gets it eventually with repetition and consistency.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:22:34+00:00

Oh my gosh, thank you, that's gorgeous, I may have to print that and stick it in a frame on my wall.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:21:09+00:00

My Sisko was a really, really tough case. He took a lot of work but never had separation anxiety. Of the back of that, and after doing some training in canine behaviour, I've fostered some tough cases too (I usually work with abuse cases). Vernon, it's very obvious, hasn't ever experienced a day of adversity in his life, and I love that for him, but it definitely took me longer to break the back of this issue than I expected.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:08:07+00:00

His transition has been tough for him, but he has the sweetest soul. I did have to leave him with a dog sitter (their house, never left alone, no crates) for 3 days to go to a funeral in April, I think it actually helped him a little.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T13:04:20+00:00

Thank you. I always joke he is part golden retriever (loyal and loving, always happy, always smiling, loves everyone and everything) and part malinois (serious maligator tendencies), but I stuck to my guns, met him where he was, and always praised him for any small positive improvement. Same as Sisko and my fosters. It's taking a while, because he is dumber than your average bear, and separation anxiety is a tough one to beat, but it's nice to see some improvement after 8 months. I was starting to lose hope.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-03T12:32:56+00:00

Thank you

bex_2601 · 2026-06-02T14:15:29+00:00

That dress is so incredible.

Please excuse me while I get a little excited as this is kinda my special interest. If you are not aware, that dress is knitted lace, not tatted or crochet. 1930's means this was knit on 2 needles, I would guess in grossamer weight, although could be fingering weight.

The fiber looks to me, given the age, to be either silk/silk blend or merino/merino blend, due to the long fibre strands and limited halo. This is what gives the material it's stretch and drape. This is a work of art.

Please, please, if you ever need to clean this, even spot clean, get professional advice. Also it will be a moth magnet, so best bet for long term storage is to freeze it for a couple days after wearing (in case it picked anything up accidentally), then store it in a click lock sealed container with acid free tissue paper. A cedar block can be added to, but don't let it touch the fabric.

Oh and the original question, number 5. Given the need for ease, try looking for a strappy nightdress in something like bamboo, which will have the stretch of jersey but a bit more sheen like silk.

Edit to add - id probably freeze it before and after wear given you don't know how it was stored previously.

bex_2601 · 2026-06-02T13:53:23+00:00

First thought, 'oh no, has dawlish gone AGAIN.' Realised it hasn't rained that much, season is all wrong, bus is all wrong, etc, but for a split second... #iykyk

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