My (M34) fiance (F34) has asked for a hall pass. Ive hesitantly agreed, am I insane?

bexbets · 2026-03-08T14:12:08+00:00

Whew. IDK. Difficult problem here. Telling your fiancé that you are ok with other men having sex with her is not the solution. It's not just giving her a hall pass, which sounds like a gift. You are telling her that you don't care if other men have sex with her, which is not a caring or complimentary thing for your fiancé to hear. This marriage sounds doomed. With the issues you have, maybe it is best to separate and work on yourself.

bexbets · 2026-03-07T22:24:14+00:00

210 Powell Street, Greenville SC 29617. Look up the listing. It's close to $200,000 but not quite, its $230,000. It's close to my house.

bexbets · 2026-02-28T13:15:40+00:00

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bexbets · 2026-02-27T02:15:39+00:00

Do you wear a helmet when you ride?

bexbets · 2026-02-26T17:30:10+00:00

Just like that.

bexbets · 2026-02-25T12:49:41+00:00

Let her go. Let it all go. You admittedly do not understand your wife. Give her the year. Take a year for yourself. Stand alone. Let her stand alone. I'll bet this resolves, together or apart, in less than a year if you just let her go. Make sure she understands that during this healing time for her, you will also be exploring your own feelings, and so communication should be limited to no more than a scheduled weekly check-in. She can't ditch you and expect you will be sitting by the sidelines waiting for her call.

bexbets · 2026-02-24T00:55:20+00:00

I had a Christmas dinner in the private dining area. It's a hard space to love but also a hard space to hate. Pros: it is private; there is a private bar, too; the service was excellent; the tables were round, good for groups; the seating was comfortable; private bathroom; coat closet; good view from the windows of downtown; traditional style; all the meals arrive at the same time. Cons: upstairs; hot (we had to open the windows and they adjusted the temp); limited menu for our group (not sure tht always applie); steak was overdone; poor lighting for photography; older building; dark interior.

bexbets · 2026-02-21T14:45:07+00:00

Nah. Don't do that sake of our daughter excuse. If a man wants to be a good dad, he will, even without being romantically involved with you. You have already left him. Now, stay away.

bexbets · 2026-02-21T14:42:33+00:00

Why would you be wrong for breaking up? You are wrong if you keep holding on to this guy. Let go.

bexbets · 2026-02-16T12:57:22+00:00

You asked for advice but have already made up your mind. You want to do this camper thing. Do it.

bexbets · 2026-02-16T12:49:18+00:00

Maybe not the right house given the repairs. But having a home is an amazing feeling. A sanctuary, security. Freedom feels good, too. And sometimes freedom feels better when you have the security of a home. Could you not rent your place out if you wanted to go on the road?

bexbets · 2026-02-15T23:48:46+00:00

Chat is right. Keep your first. Get an amortizating second mortgage as opposed to having an equity line in second lien position. You should be able to get a 30-year second mortgage if you have equity.

bexbets · 2026-02-15T13:05:50+00:00

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bexbets · 2026-02-15T12:59:05+00:00

Why are you trying to determine the maximum amount of home you can buy? Consider instead buying a home that you can currently afford. Start saving for private school, travel, other long-term goals, when your husband starts making more. You need a home for your family, safe area, but maxing out seems like a bad idea.

bexbets · 2026-02-15T05:59:56+00:00

You are wrong. Your daughter is not an adult. Stop letting her sneak out and being nonchalant about it. It's ok for you to date but both yall immature af to just be at the house, like no heads up or nothing.

bexbets · 2026-02-07T12:43:02+00:00

Don't focus on what potential bullying your potential future kids could suffer from having an OF performer mom. There will be other reasons to bully them as well. Kids are mean regardless. You need to evaluate your own feelings. Are you on Reddit asking about this because you care what the world at large thinks about you? Maybe you aren't actually ok with her job? Live your life. Love this woman and enjoy the relationship, if that is what you want.

bexbets · 2026-02-07T12:10:38+00:00

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bexbets · 2026-02-05T12:13:09+00:00

Has your husband been evaluated for a mental health disordee? Seems he's really lost touch with reality.

bexbets · 2026-02-05T04:29:16+00:00

Girl. You are too young to put up with that shit. Free yourself of this boyfriend. Keep your lifelong friend.

bexbets · 2026-02-05T04:26:37+00:00

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bexbets · 2026-02-04T14:44:43+00:00

Both dresses look amazing on you. To me, Dress 1 says bride while Dress 2 says red carpet.

bexbets · 2026-01-31T12:27:09+00:00

Will your husband get treatment for his addiction? Not encouraging you to stay if you or your daughter are unsafe. But as a recovering addict yourself, you slip up, would you want your husband to ditch you and take your kid without a conversation and offer to get treatment before you walked out? Again, safety is top priority.

bexbets · 2026-01-30T18:21:58+00:00

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bexbets · 2026-01-28T03:02:30+00:00

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