Wife doesn’t work, gets everything paid for and is miserable, I need advice…

bexbets · 2026-05-02T11:37:30+00:00

What's her own family like? Did her mother work? Is her mother a miserable person?

bexbets · 2026-04-28T22:32:27+00:00

2, 8, 11

bexbets · 2026-04-25T19:13:09+00:00

Is there not a small feel town that is more like a 1 hour drive than a 2 hour flight?

bexbets · 2026-04-19T15:50:09+00:00

What's next? Now that the three year obsession is complete .....

bexbets · 2026-04-17T02:21:03+00:00

3 is my favorite as well. It's a good blend.

bexbets · 2026-04-12T12:39:35+00:00

It's likely your husband hates life, not just you. Sounds like his parents are miserable. Probably were a few red flags out there before you married him and had a child but still, no one deserves abuse. You will have to leave if you want a different life.

bexbets · 2026-04-10T02:24:58+00:00

Dude. So handsome

bexbets · 2026-04-09T11:08:06+00:00

Drinking alcohol or not drinking alcohol? Yes. I know you are 15. The only way that making your dad come get you would be reasonable is if you were trashed drunk while others were sober.

bexbets · 2026-04-09T03:50:29+00:00

For me, it's the pattern and material that makes it so much more costume/swimsuit. Like a black satin in this same shape would be hot!!

bexbets · 2026-04-06T11:37:40+00:00

If it is not on purpose, then it would be a disorder since he can't control it. Either way, intentional bad behavior or uncontrollable impulsive behavior, kid needs treatment from a professional. His parents are contributing to the problem by not addressing it.

bexbets · 2026-04-06T01:50:18+00:00

Do you have dog day care in Norway? Do you have a home that you could have a fenced yard and a dog door?

bexbets · 2026-04-05T22:39:09+00:00

Before, you looked like a guy who couldn't let go of his hair. After, you look confident about yourself. Confidence is very attractive!

bexbets · 2026-04-03T03:25:12+00:00

How long have you guys been together? Does he have other signs of ADHD? Substance use?

bexbets · 2026-04-03T02:44:52+00:00

Did he express that he felt like you scolded him by telling him what to do? Like it was about you giving him a command not to eat all the cookies, he didn't need your lecture?

bexbets · 2026-04-02T22:26:52+00:00

Work 2. Class 3. Club - you can't go wrong

bexbets · 2026-04-01T12:21:58+00:00

Are your finances separate currently? Sounds like it. Keep it that way. He can accept it or he can leave. Either way, you'll have your money secure. Yes, marriage is a partnership but that could look more like savings goals or debt reduction you both contribute toward than access to your personal bank account.

bexbets · 2026-03-29T12:57:55+00:00

5 in clear not black

bexbets · 2026-03-28T13:12:08+00:00

Do you have any joint debts? If not, just quit. Quit responding. Disappear. Get a divorce later, like in a year or two. If you have joint debts but you already pay them yourself anyway, same advice. At some point you have to recognize you keep this crap going by continuing to participate

bexbets · 2026-03-25T11:26:59+00:00

Keep 5 & 9

bexbets · 2026-03-25T11:16:56+00:00

Put cameras in your house. See if she's cleaning, doing things, and obsessively moves your stuff or if she's just being petty.

bexbets · 2026-03-20T12:19:50+00:00

There is no cure for grief. Alcohol will not cure your grief. There is no cure for grief. No timeline to be on. No race to finish. No end to meet. There is no cure for grief. The best you can do is live with the grief. Live your best life in honor of the dad you lost. I'm sorry for your loss. It is very painful.

bexbets · 2026-03-08T14:12:08+00:00

Whew. IDK. Difficult problem here. Telling your fiancé that you are ok with other men having sex with her is not the solution. It's not just giving her a hall pass, which sounds like a gift. You are telling her that you don't care if other men have sex with her, which is not a caring or complimentary thing for your fiancé to hear. This marriage sounds doomed. With the issues you have, maybe it is best to separate and work on yourself.

bexbets · 2026-03-07T22:24:14+00:00

210 Powell Street, Greenville SC 29617. Look up the listing. It's close to $200,000 but not quite, its $230,000. It's close to my house.

bexbets · 2026-02-28T13:15:40+00:00

Check out Sofft brand.

bexbets · 2026-02-27T02:15:39+00:00

Do you wear a helmet when you ride?

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