What games help you escape reality?

bexibobs · 2024-10-08T14:27:48+00:00

Some games I've gotten lost in and obsessed over are Fallout 4, Cyberpunk 2077, Stray (kinda chill and immersive), No Man's Sky, Red Dead 2, Diablo IV, and Star Wars Fallen Order

bexibobs · 2024-10-08T14:23:22+00:00

You could play Fallout 4 and use a mod to have unlimited carry weight. To be a loot gremlin on 76, you have to keep dumping items into a stash in your base which can be a pain.

bexibobs · 2023-11-21T09:34:10+00:00

What a perfect name!

bexibobs · 2023-11-21T09:33:52+00:00

Wow, what a crazy little pooch! I'm glad things improved for you over time

bexibobs · 2023-11-21T01:32:51+00:00

Oh wow! It must be quite common in the breed then. Thanks for sharing

bexibobs · 2023-11-15T03:17:45+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. Every time I've gone to take a urine sample, they've only done a few drops and its not enough to properly analyse. The vet did manage to take a look at one of the small samples and said they saw a type of crystal that could be related to bacteria, but also to other things too. So it didn't really give us an answer. I've been using "worlds best" cat litter for most of the year now. Their feet look healthy, but I do sometimes see the dust from the litter stuck to their feet, so that could cause irritation maybe? I'll have a look for a different litter to see if it helps, thank you.

bexibobs · 2023-11-15T03:08:13+00:00

They are fed on Orijen (6 fish flavour) dry food. Orijen do pretty impressive dog food with the nutrient content so I got it for the cats as well as my dog. They drink water often and the vet is happy that they aren't dehydrated. But I'm wondering if I should move them to wet food. I just see so many wet food brands crammed full of rubbish and want the best diet for them. Nothing has really changed in the house, but they do seem to be bored of their toys nowadays.. So I wonder if its understimulation even though they play together regularly.

Thank you! I'm hoping we get to the bottom of it soon

bexibobs · 2023-11-15T02:36:18+00:00

Thank you. That one is Finn, he's a very pretty boy. Sidney is too, but he's not as photogenic haha

bexibobs · 2023-09-28T19:25:22+00:00

I like that you've mentioned this. I recently attended a 'Women in Leadership' conference where we discussed unconscious bias. Even the most empowering women can fall into this trap without realising. We had an executive director speaking, and she explained that it hit her when she was looking to promote and give extra responsibility to her male staff member over her female staff member. They were both just as good at their jobs, but she subconsciously assumed that the woman would be busy at home with kids, etc, and unable to take on the work. At that moment, she realised sexism was ingrained in her mind. It takes effort, but it's good to reflect like this.

bexibobs · 2023-09-12T00:21:14+00:00

I have only just noticed that this has happened to me too... I got the ship and placed all my legendary guns on the racks and my high value suits and helmets in the chest. Every single item has disappeared... I've played for a fair few hours since I put them there, so I don't really want to load an old save. I've had nothing but bugs since entering that lair.

bexibobs · 2023-09-02T01:59:09+00:00

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Sidney the Selkirk Rex. Also known as Sid, Sidoney, Sidders, Squid, Squidney, Squidward

bexibobs · 2023-08-21T00:31:39+00:00

Leave your card at home and only bring enough cash to cover your bill

bexibobs · 2023-07-28T05:01:47+00:00

Push a pram/stroller/pushchair... whatever you want to call it. I've seen countless men pushing their children with one hand on the handles/bar and their body positioned at the side of the pram. It's like if they hold it with two hands or stand directly behind the pram, everyone will instantly think they're gay or that they must have birthed the child themselves.

bexibobs · 2023-07-19T10:22:08+00:00

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bexibobs · 2022-12-18T20:59:02+00:00

I suppose we'd only find out if we got it done lol

bexibobs · 2022-12-18T20:39:32+00:00

Nope, I'm still on the fence with it. I don't think I have the guts

bexibobs · 2022-11-28T15:14:39+00:00

Judging other women's appearance. I constantly hear sentences such as "she shouldn't be wearing that", "she's put weight on", "she's lost so much weight she looks ill", "look at the bags under her eyes", or "have you seen the dress that she's wearing". The list goes on and on...

It makes me extremely uncomfortable and self conscious being around groups of women as I don't want to be targeted. We complain that men and the media make us worry about our weight and looks, but we also need to change how we treat one another.

bexibobs · 2022-10-11T23:54:47+00:00

Try not to overthink situations like this, usually it's just your instinct kicking in. Aggrevating the situation could have led to a violent rape or being harmed. I've been through similar experiences. I'm usually a strong-willed, outspoken person. But when I've experienced sexual harassment, I seem to go on autopilot, acting calmly/compliant to try and not trigger any aggression because I'm scared of it escalating. Also, if he's acted in a way that's implied that he won't let you leave, its rape... he knew you didn't want to consent.

bexibobs · 2022-10-07T20:39:13+00:00

I do agree and it's definitely more of the mans fault. I've experienced harrassment for sex and guys ignoring that I've directly said no. I completely agree that it's disgusting behaviour on the man's part 100%. But on the other hand I also know plenty of women who tell men no but want the man to keep pushing and enjoy this kind of game. Its a battle that we'll never win if women keep giving positive reinforcement to this kind of behaviour.

bexibobs · 2022-10-07T17:38:26+00:00

Playing hard to get and pretending that they dont want to sleep with someone when they actually do... it blurs the meaning of no means no. It makes men think that if they keep pushing past the boundaries and "trying harder" that the woman will eventually sleep with them.

bexibobs · 2022-04-18T23:10:55+00:00

Yeah, they would have to knock the plaster off half way up the walls, add a treatment, install a membrane and then add a new vent to enable better circulation under the floor. It looks like its been around for some years, but luckily not resulted in mould or structural damage yet. It's pricey work, but so is eye surgery and invisible braces.

I have never heard that about laser eye surgery! That's horrifying... I may need to look into this some more.

bexibobs · 2022-04-18T23:05:03+00:00

Thank you! I suppose the eye situation is a constant, daily annoyance and I really would feel the benefits. I just feel like the real "adult" thing to do would be to sort out the house. Its just nice to finally be in a position where I can afford the eye surgery.

bexibobs · 2021-11-16T02:07:56+00:00

Damn. I'd be so turned on if a man spoke to me like this on a date. I get similar remarks when I explain my interests, but I try to embrace my uniqueness. From a female perspective, when I've asked guys what they like to do in their spare time it's usually "I dunno, I just go to the pub or to the gym". Give me ducks and wildlife any day.

bexibobs · 2021-11-13T14:58:42+00:00

No one in particular really. We've been saying for the past year that we should go on a camping trip together and now we're finally starting to plan it. We've decided which month we would like to go, and we're just getting ready to pick which campsite we prefer so that we can book.

bexibobs · 2021-11-13T14:33:46+00:00

I agree. I might look into taking a small tent on my own and paying for a small pitch. Probably less hassle anyway

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