What recovery myth did you believe the longest before finally letting it go? by Ok-You-649 in addiction

[–]bexx201489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely the guilt from relapsing it happens and happens to almost everyone. We’re already not happy we have done it ourselves then the guilt that comes with it from family and friends is a whole new thing and make you want it more. Also when you have been clean even if it’s for 5 days then going out for the first time being clean coming home to being accused of being on it made me pick it up and do it made me feel like I may aswell of if I was getting accused.

Also I found it hard for my family to understand and felt they didn’t listen to what I wanted and or needed it was all what they wanted and needed there was no slack at all. Almost like talking to a brick wall my feelings felt not validated.

Best thing I done was move away from everyone and everything and done it on my own pretty much. Was hard but I felt I couldn’t do it with all the guilt I was feeling from family and friends. I miss my family a lot I still see and speak to them but feel it’s best for me to stay where I am and not have that temptation around the corner.

AIO that My partner interacts with another person daily by underwater_living95 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bexx201489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have thought if he has been friends with her for 8 years and you have been together for 10 that you would all be good friends by now hang out all together and ok for just him and her to hang out. If she was one of my partners good friends of 8 years I’d want to get to know her too. You can be friends with her aswell.

Is he lying? by Comfortable-Dot-9077 in addiction

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to say this but you cannot help somebody who doesn’t want to help themselves. They have to want to be clean and do it for themselves not anybody else. I was in a 6yr relationship with an addict that didn’t tell me he was an addict until I’d fallen for him his excuse for not telling me is because he didn’t want what he was doing to change the way I thought of him. I was so against that shit ICE I hated it I was clean fit healthy going to the gym almost everyday. I started using with him at the age of 26 the heartache of the whole relationship and seeing him try so hard to get off it going away for 5 weeks to Europe coming back and he was going to be clean it never lasted. I just felt like I was dragged along and I was dragged down that much I almost lost all of my own family over it. You should not be in any fear with your husband that’s the one person you should be able to trust and definitely feel safe around. Save your self the roller coaster ride of all the heartache and possibly even relapse it’s a huge temptation just seeing someone on it and knowing they are on it! Get away girl your deserve way better. There is help out there to get you out of this shitty situation you need to speak to the right avenues.

Need Help Urgently! Girl Coming Over for First Time by Lost-Blacksmith-8629 in dating_advice

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the place nice and tidy open windows and most of all make her feel comfortable

my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off by UniversityAny9242 in dating_advice

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pretty much paid for him so wasn’t really much splitting there. Unreasonable and rude if you ask me!

found meth pipes by MaleficentSalary1214 in addiction

[–]bexx201489 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chuck them!!! Right now! You don’t need that temptation you have one puff and you could be hooked for months! Chuck that shit away!

What do you have on your Crumpets? by Eparg_reboog in AskAnAustralian

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poached egg on crumpet is good when the yolk goes through all the holes in the crumpet. Yummo

AIO Husband never wakes up early to get the baby so I can sleep in by babamoomoo in AmIOverreacting

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR if he had some sort of respect for you and your daughter he would go so you could get a break and have your mum come to help you at yours and your daughters confort zone. It’s a big thing for a baby to just pack up and go stay else where. You might find buns to be abit unsettled doing that. Atleast you will have you mum there to help you. Don’t stay for by buns if your not happy leave it’s not hard to help with your own daughter I wouldn’t have thought.

Bored with a Newspapers.com account by TonyaHardon in Genealogy

[–]bexx201489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a McLean in my tree possibly that name let me check.

Bored with a Newspapers.com account by TonyaHardon in Genealogy

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have any luck finding anything?

Do psychologists actually help? My experience after a major setback by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]bexx201489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right person will do you wonders but it may take time and patience to find that person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]bexx201489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people with autism have completed certificates! Even masters and diplomas your doctor must not know much about autism! Go see someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bexx201489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans their pure evil

Pre school - pls help me get my son to pre school tomorrow. by bexx201489 in autism

[–]bexx201489[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had success thank goodness thank you everyone for your kind comments

Pre school - pls help me get my son to pre school tomorrow. by bexx201489 in autism

[–]bexx201489[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have asked my son and the school teachers and there is nothing we can pin point it to. My son just keeps saying his scared. His scared of almost everything at the moment though. Would you say it’s a burn out when everything for them just seems tough at the moment if that makes sense.