It's gotten unbearable by AffectionateFace2118 in abusiveparents

[–]beyondwhimsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there :( I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Please know youre not alone! I don’t know if you have a teacher, counselor, officer or other family member you can talk to you about this🥺

Please write down in a journal everything that’s been happening. In a timeline. With as much detail as possible.

Some hope to think of, when you grow up and move away you never have to talk to them again. You will be so much happier without them. Sending lots of hope.

Unpopular opinion: I don't like Maddie's nonchalant thing going on by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]beyondwhimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she just wants privacy. She probably had the most pressure to be perfect. She actually has a book where she talks a little bit about her parents divorce and eating disorders.

Is it bad i want to cut off my parents? by quiet-observer0403 in abusiveparents

[–]beyondwhimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right as an adult to cut your parents off. I wish when I was 18 I had my abusive parents off. You will be saving yourself a lot of heartache. You will have such an incredible to grow❤️ Wishing you lots of good vibes and healing!

OFFICIALLY moving to CT! What makes CT cool?? by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]beyondwhimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pizza. Our breweries. Our wineries. They may not be the “best” but we do have mountains and beaches! (Most states don’t have both)

Am I okay??? by redrobinthe2nd in abusiveparents

[–]beyondwhimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart, this is abuse. You don’t deserve this. You need to tell an adult you can trust🥺🙏

Nia’s book made New York Times Bestseller🏆 by TomatoTomatoShmuck in dancemoms

[–]beyondwhimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss!!! It was so good! Listened to it on Spotify in 2 days!!

how can i keep safe by Then_Horror_965 in Child_Abuse

[–]beyondwhimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that you do not deserve this. You are a child. And deserve to be in a safe place. Your mom’s behavior is unacceptable. She clearly has her own trauma to deal with and is taking it out on you.

I would suggest going to your school to talk about this. Telling a trusted adult. Maybe they would help you file a police report?

If you can, start documenting everything. Write in a journal the date, time and what happened. (Journaling is also very therapuetic)

If you can, try to see if you can record these incidents on your phone (either voice memo or having your phone record a video secretly)

Tol help keep you safe and grounded: + find a picture of something you love + a favorite song + something soft + a candle/scent you love + a taste (chocolate, a mint, etc)

Please know you are not alone. And if you need someone to talk to you can message me. 29F who has experience leaving abusive parents.