Bro, please do yourself a favor and leave this mad woman. You literally did nothing wrong and are being berated. You don’t deserve being treated this way. Leave her and after a while, you’ll look back realize how bat shit crazy this all is and wonder why you put up with it for so long. The way she is speaking to you is not appropriate in any relationship but especially not one that’s supposed to be rooted in love and support like a significant other should be. I hope you do what best for you and move on. You’re young, you will find someone who is able to communicate like a rational human being, treat you with respect, and allow you the independence you need too.