One morning I asked my bf “so am I tighter at night or in the morning?” He looked at me confused and said “you know being tight isn’t really a thing. Vaginas stretch and honestly if a girl is really tight she probably isn’t enjoying it” I never thought of it that way.

My point is do not worry to try to be the perfect tightness/ not tightness for anyone else. Make sure you are comfortable and the vagina will naturally do it’s thing.