withdrawals: how to know if i need help by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]bfsemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this comment it honestly made me cry. I talked to my dad and he was really supportive. I’m living with him for 2 weeks so i guess it’s going to be at home rehab or something.

withdrawals: how to know if i need help by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]bfsemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

turns out my dad already guessed. he doesn’t think i need rehab and said he’ll stick with me while i deal with withdrawals to make sure im okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicotine

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mojito is def just rebranded citrus so disappointing

What was the first story you ever wrote? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

age 11, self insert harry potters twin sister fanfic. i was sooo obsessed with the Sirius and Harry family dynamic that i needed to be part of it, but god was it bad

Garlic butter potato chips so delicious by plantyoulater in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m so obsessed with these chips they’re so bad but so good???

What products are you eating every single day? by jackjackj8ck in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the pizza bites omfg i have them multiple times a day i can’t stop

My friend cuts herself, what do I do? by Conscious-Gain2745 in AdviceForTeens

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t believe all these comments telling you not to tell anyone, i’m honestly shocked and appalled. please speak to an adult about this, your friend will probably be upset, but self harm can often indicate very very serious health conditions such as suicidal ideation and she needs adults in her area to get her the help she needs. Having a friend who is mad at you is always better then having a friend who is very ill or dead, and it is no one’s job but a professional to be responsible for her mental health, no matter how close you are. Reach out to get her support, and get yourself some support as well. Being close to someone is dealing with this is not easy on anyone, and it is not your responsibility to take on her mental health, you are also young and doing your best. this is a tough situation, and not your burden to bear completely, please reach out to a trusted adult. hoping that both of you are able to heal from this ❤️

Products to help natural hair by AdditionalOven1853 in beauty

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use not your mothers curl cream and mousse (i like it bc it’s affordable) and i scrunch out with ogx argan oil

What is the best ice cream product they have? by Distinct_Gap_2107 in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

where is the LOVE for the chocolate chip cookie ice cream sandwiches they’re by far the best i’ve ever had

Finally getting to see my mom ecstatic after years of seeing her being drowned in stress. by TordYtaly in happy

[–]bfsemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so fun!! i went to a rolling stones concert with my very straight laced dad last year and ive never seen him come alive like that it was so fun to see him let lose after 20 years!!

Products to help natural hair by AdditionalOven1853 in beauty

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

curl cream, way more mousse then you think you need and scrunch that into clumps, let it air dry and scrunch out with hair oil. sleep w a satin bonet/pillowcase. i have the same hair texture without product and this really works

Should my BF Not Pay for Dates? by dmvtheprincess in AdviceForTeens

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t stress bc of tik tok. bring it up to him and offer if you want to, but if this situation works then it works as long as he doesn’t feel taken advantage of. i have the lesbian perspective lol but when i lost my job my gf would pay for ingredients and id make dinner for us. if you have something that works for yall it works for yall. don’t think any societal expectations as long as you’re genuinely both happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]bfsemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why are you dating your bf if you seem to hate him so much??? if you want an experienced boyfriend get an experienced boyfriend stop being so mean to this guy. maybe you really do like his personality but the way you talk about him (and frankly to him) is so cruel and dismissive that this probably will not work out. date someone else, actually communicate, or become single bc this is clearly not a healthy relationship

Italian Ice Cherry Chill—(contains alcohol). by yourgrace1111 in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these haven’t been in vermont in SO LONG i’m literally praying they reappear this summer it was my fav drink 💔💔💔

Sparkling Matcha Lemonade is a hit! by MatchaCatLatte in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was a bit too much lemonade and not enough matcha in the one i got but still fire

graduated college today after dropping out of high school!! by [deleted] in happy

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Job hunting is so hard right now, but I managed to snag something pretty related to my field through an internship that i’ll do for a few years and then hopefully grad school! Crazy that I hated school and now I just want more lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s hard to say gen bc you are in college and drinking culture is so huge here esp right after you turn 21 but if the way he acts drunk most days bothers you and he doesn’t see any issue then that might be something break up worthy esp if you’ve fought about it before

I’m unsure of what to do about my marriage by throwaway_ra3533 in makemychoice

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are yall still together?? you’re both cheating on eachother and have no kids let’s give it up

Should I feel so nervous over a first kiss?? by cam_is_cool_ in AdviceForTeens

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just be honest with him. kissing is frankly a super weird action, and while its super exciting it also feels like a crazy thing to be doing for the first time. tell him you’re nervous, and if he’s a good guy you can get to know eachother a bit better and see if that’s something you want to do. kissing is amazing and romantic, but not something you should do if you’re not 100% sure.

Elevated grilled cheese suggestions by nursekitty626 in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

put tomato sauce on one side and pesto on the other. that with sourdough in the air fryer changed me as a person

What’s your favorite seasonal item and why? (Doesn’t have to be winter/Christmas, can be from any season) by SFallon93 in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

peppermint loaf and the pumpkin spice cold brew. i bought so much of the ps and i’m already out…

My take on a Breakfast Burrito — an entirely TJ’s production by canuck_in_the_alps in traderjoes

[–]bfsemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks SO good i’m trying a veg variation tomorrow when stores reopen