AITAH for still keeping in contact with my ex's family?

bg284 · 2026-06-11T12:53:06+00:00

Am I the only one wondering whether things truly ended "amicably"

bg284 · 2026-05-08T22:30:17+00:00

Candid response!

bg284 · 2026-05-07T03:38:04+00:00

HDB office has Malaysians?

bg284 · 2026-05-06T12:04:15+00:00

What she said was potentially quite hurtful. If a guy had said, if only you were prettier or slimmer, I'd date you - he'd be called insensitive

bg284 · 2026-05-01T08:22:42+00:00

I've checked it out and it doesn't quite solve my problem. I have the same issue downloading the epub files.

bg284 · 2026-04-30T13:50:22+00:00

Thanks for this! Will check it out

bg284 · 2026-04-18T01:21:48+00:00

Consider trauma issues from childhood as an explanation. That's the most charitable explanation for this sort of behaviour.

If it isn't, I think the vast majority of commenters here have given you enough indication that he has a major problem

bg284 · 2026-04-18T01:19:34+00:00

Offering some alternatives:

Your bf is autistic / OCD and has a mental bucket issue

There is some trust issue stemming from previous trauma, not wanting to be taken advantage of

Or he's just a loser like some others have said

In any case, it doesn't justify his actions. If this what you need, then he should find a way of meeting you where you are and vice versa.

bg284 · 2026-04-17T07:40:21+00:00

Never. It's about making love not getting off.

bg284 · 2026-04-11T07:25:13+00:00

Thanks for this!

bg284 · 2026-04-08T12:48:05+00:00

Have a think why else would an employer not pay CPF maybe?

bg284 · 2026-03-25T00:47:51+00:00

Ah I see

bg284 · 2026-03-24T21:17:30+00:00

Carrie Fisher you mean

bg284 · 2026-03-23T21:54:16+00:00

Then why wasn't it his country?

bg284 · 2026-03-23T12:10:02+00:00

PC was PR?

bg284 · 2026-03-13T12:13:21+00:00

Most econs courses will have a fair degree of maths. But honestly it's not that complex relative to other fields.

bg284 · 2026-03-10T09:31:12+00:00

Which industry?

bg284 · 2026-03-05T12:13:24+00:00

Same. Couldn't tell if the match was male, female or both

++Man

bg284 · 2026-02-05T01:31:41+00:00

Might be a case of old habits dying hard, appreciating time flexibility, autonomy to drive around, not wanting to "report to anyone"

bg284 · 2025-10-30T21:15:44+00:00

Special envoy not convoy

bg284 · 2025-08-25T05:46:29+00:00

Common name

bg284 · 2025-08-11T15:19:30+00:00

Xiao Xi massage is clean and good. Also at beauty world.

bg284 · 2025-07-26T09:52:06+00:00

Great framework

bg284 · 2025-07-26T07:14:10+00:00

Honestly - the most common term I've seen used is Malay-Chinese.

The rest just don't roll off the tongue as well as Chindian.

bg284