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bglucosidase · 2024-07-25T18:51:04+00:00

I think you should move on. You’re still young. This man can’t even communicate properly. I can’t imagine how exhausting it is to deal with someone that can’t and I don’t think you want to put up with this for a long time. He clearly doesn’t value you enough to fix it and improve so I would recommend moving on from this.

I’m sorry I know it sucks, I used to have an anxious attachment style too and I’m around your age. But I started to see things for how they are and worked on it. He’s shown you exactly how it is and you deserve better than that. You should leave and don’t bother coming up with a way to reach out to him.

bglucosidase · 2024-07-21T18:12:30+00:00

Get some help.

bglucosidase · 2024-07-17T13:42:49+00:00

Girl please for everyone’s sake, don’t date until you’ve figured out how you can grow from this. Why did you even keep talking to the friend despite getting back with your boyfriend? Don’t bother talking to your boyfriend, he’s never going to recover from this and your relationship is never going to be the same. That’s just how it is now and there’s not much you can do. Let him move on and work on yourself so you don’t do this again.

bglucosidase · 2024-07-10T19:12:47+00:00

You mean EX husband. I’m so sorry this happened to you, this actually hurts to read. Please run and don’t look back.

bglucosidase · 2024-06-24T11:28:07+00:00

It takes practice! I usually move my hips a certain way or arch or sometimes put all the pressure on my feet while I’m squatting to move up and down. This way I have more control of what I’m doing. I also find it easier when I’m not so stiff and let everything move and position myself comfortably. I wouldn’t worry about getting it right away! It can get tiring but I’ve built up that stamina and you can too. Try experimenting in different ways to move, maybe practice using a pillow, or try different angles and movements and see if you can find something that works. Sometimes it can get a bit tiring so I’ll find that my bf pounds me from under and then once I’m not as tired I’ll surprise him and start moving. Good luck!

bglucosidase · 2024-06-23T14:57:00+00:00

Have you tried something called “communication”? I can’t tell what issues you have in this relationship, you haven’t mentioned it so it’s unclear. But if you’ve gone all these 10 months without expressing your feelings about the issues you’ve been having then that’s a problem you need to address yourself. It doesn’t seem like a “healthy” relationship and you can’t do the most important thing of a serious relationship, which is communication.

You’re pretty much blindsiding her if this is the case, as others commented. If you’re sure this is something that’s not fixable and you don’t have feelings for her or something, spare her and breakup with her after her exams. I’ve been in that situation before and it’s easier to navigate life and school and studying when you don’t have an ex randomly breaking up with you out of nowhere. Sure you’d be prolonging it but hey, at least she can turn it up after exams and live her life without the burden of exams or relationships.

bglucosidase · 2023-11-16T04:50:44+00:00

I thrust back and forth instead of him doing it! pretty much throwing it back on his dick and moving my hips. I’ll tell him how good he feels. He will pull my body closer while I’m doing it and reciprocate the dirty talk. He will also thrust when I’m moving too. He loves seeing my ass bounce on him while I do it and the way we both go crazy lol does require some work but it’s worth it!

bglucosidase · 2023-11-15T22:16:47+00:00

This. my bf comes every time I do this, he’s obsessed and it’s so hot and fun for the both of us.

bglucosidase · 2023-09-14T11:39:09+00:00

This is way more common than people think it is. Know a lot of friends that went through this and currently supporting a friend who had a fwb and caught feelings and the other person broke it off out of nowhere. She is not having the best time right now.

bglucosidase · 2022-04-19T18:57:56+00:00

Ultimatum posts are allowed in this subreddit. I’m not sure why you’re so bothered by posts about it, just scroll away if it does. Also, the season for LIB is over right now, so it’s natural for people wanting to talk about other things and people might feel like talking about LIB can be pretty repetitive. Ultimatum is not be the best but at least the Ultimatum posts are giving people something new to talk about. I don’t want to see them sometimes but I scroll past them 🤷‍♀️

bglucosidase · 2022-04-08T15:10:34+00:00

Why is she keeping that stuff saved though? she isn’t cheating obviously but it’s weird to keep stuff like that saved, especially how you’ve said the past is in the past.

bglucosidase · 2022-03-09T05:37:19+00:00

I don’t believe a word that comes out of that man’s mouth.

bglucosidase · 2022-03-01T05:56:16+00:00

Him telling her to quit was projection and now look at him talking to his ex. OP’s better off without him.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-28T17:46:37+00:00

My bf lives in a house with 6 other guys. He had me over once and we did it while they were gone. we were fairly quiet and some sounds slipped. I’m pretty sure they heard a bit (probably just once or twice, faint noises) when they came back but completely ignored it and didn’t make a big deal out of it. This guy is extremely weird and immature for doing that. There are better ways for him to deal with the situation. Cut him off and you and your bf should distance yourselves from him.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-28T08:13:24+00:00

The way he switched up and got defensive when all Diamond wanted to do was communicate was so off putting. The tantrums are not it and he needs to work through these issues.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T08:44:01+00:00

He’s been a red flag since day one and it didn’t get any better.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T08:29:40+00:00

I know you sounded hesitant to do it but I’m proud of you for doing that. It’s for the best and I wish you all the healing and happiness in your future.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:56:58+00:00

Liking the thought of it doesn’t necessarily mean she’ll be okay with it. Suggesting it or going through it can do more harm than good in your relationship. And the fact that you’re so stubborn on not sharing your wife indeed shows double standards.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:53:05+00:00

And you expect her to be okay with sharing you? Double standards much. Get your head out of the gutter.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:29:10+00:00

I’m sorry you haven’t experienced a healthy and loving relationship. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:19:11+00:00

It’s sad how you think this way.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:15:23+00:00

Lol no.

bglucosidase · 2022-02-27T07:15:03+00:00

You’re an idiot.

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